How willing are you to give sexual guidance to your partner?

AfterHours69

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I’m just wondering how willing you are to let a guy know how he can improve sexually. If he’s not “doing it for you,” do you just move on, do you just live with it, or do you say, “Like this,” so he gets better? I know all three happen, but what are your thoughts and reasonings on which way you react?
 

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I've been married for a lot of years, however going back to dating days/potential relationships I've never had a great deal of patience tbh, partners either click with me and things flow spontaneously or I've moved on. X
 
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I have an unbroken rule: if we're naked together we're going to be wide open about what we want. I've learned quite a bit by talking to my lover. And believe me, he's learned a lot about me and what I like.

It's gotten to the point that words aren't even necessary anymore, but we still talk. But more importantly we laugh. A lot. In fact, when the laughing stops you know you're getting close!
 
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