How would I be able to help my girlfriend accomodate my cock?

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  1. Sirus38

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    i've been told im on the girthier side and with most women alot of foreplay has allowed them to accomadate me no problem. Im not the largest down there (7.5 x6.75) and i love foreplay more than sex it self but since i got with my girlfriend foreplay doesnt seem to work and only sex will bring her to orgasm only problem is that without foreplay she can't accomadate my cock and on the rare occasion she can she gets too sore half way through so we both have to go unfurfilled. Any advice would be very appricated on how i could help her accomadate her?
    thank you :smile:
     
  2. snoozan

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    lube.

    patience. learning from each other. practice. communication.

    and lube.
     
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    Relaxation
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    Didn't INXS do a song like that one time?

    LOL!

    Fisting, there's always fisting! :eek:

    Just kidding.
     
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    ...patience and lube, relaxation...small steps to the big final :rolleyes::smile:
     
  6. Sirus38

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    Thank you for your advice snoozan and size queen.
    always a pleasure to hear a womans perspective.
     
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    Maybe start fucking her when you are not fully hard. And, of course, lube.
     
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    jennuine, are you saying i should fuck her with a semi? lol
    thanks for your input:smile:
     
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    I don't quite understand the problem. You love foreplay, she needs foreplay to become relaxed and wet enough for you to enter her. Sex is the only way she can orgasm and most guys like to cum in the pussy even when wearing a condom. So you get to do your favorite thing and she gets to climax. Did I miss something?:confused:

    That is exactly what she is saying, porn stars do it all the time. Obviously you will become fully hard during the act; but by then she should be able to handle you.
     
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    My problem is foreplay does nothing for her unless she is pleaseing her self but then she orgasms and there is no way im geting in. Maybe i miss making a woman come through foreplay (that was my favourite part). Thanks for your comments and advice njqt, i never knew that about porn stars, and immense i wish lol. p.s. nice pics btw your man is very lucky to have you every night :wink:
     
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    I know astroglide lube should solve this problem with alot of foreplay to achieve comfortable penetration. A girthy penis and head, not necessarily a long one, 5 inches or so is even sufficient, provides the delicious friction your lucky girl needs to achieve orgasm.
     
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    ive never used astroglide but now i will after that comment. thanks crossy
     
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    This advice is gold, does anyone have any more things to add? anything thing would help really
     
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    lots of spit and go slow:cool:
     
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    Spoon her and slide it in from behind ... trust me it works everytime ... the angle works better for bigger and thicker cocks ... I always go in a bitch from behind
     
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    Thanks for the good advice Sweatyblackballs, The advice is helping alot, sadly the spooning thing didnt, but ill keep at it.
     
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    How romantically phrased.

    Malco, another trick that might help is to let her control the penetration. Let her be on top so she can take you at her own speed.

    Oh, yes, and lube.
     
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    Get her one of those dildos that you leave in all day. That'll loosen her up.
     
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    Thanks Gilette, and hugh.G.Erection (very funny bloke)
     
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    Patience, communication and lube Sweetheart, but it also helps if she is flexible. That is to say, that she can relax enough to accept in positions that may seem out of the ordinary at first to her and you.

    ~~*wishing you both pleasure*~~
     
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