How Would You Describe the Feeling Of Orgasm?

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Hi, so, I think the title says it all. I'm a writer, including erotica and I try to write something every day, but I run into one huge problem without fail: When it comes to writing male orgasm, I have no clue how to describe it because I've never experienced it. For me, it's like trying to describe what it feels like to touch a star - I don't know, I've never touched one and I never will. I find myself just telling and not showing, which leads to writing that feels incredibly procedural once things are supposed to come to a head.

How would you describe the feelings of orgasm and ejaculation? Is there anything that you think people writing sex scenes involving men should absolutely know about male sexual response?

Thanks for reading, even if you don't have any answers.
 
for me, i guess i can feel myself building pressure inside my body somewhere between my cock and my balls, then my cock swells a little extra and its a little like time freezes or slows down.

its a bit like my other senses shut down or i get blinkers on and can just feel what's happening in my body and see her body in front of me but my peripheral vision narrows.

i can feel my spurts running through my body and especially out of the very opening of my cock and there is pressure in my mind at the back of my head with each wave. it starts strong nd eases off with each wave and spurt as i collapse onto her holding her down and relax, still spurting periodically with less intensity and greater gaps.
 
It as satisfying as the rest of the sex!
 
It's a loss of control. As my balls, which feel heavy due to arousal begin to pull upwards, an intense pressure begins to build up in my groin area. My dick begins to really swell up and stiffen to max hardness once I reach the point of no return....and then the eruption starts. It's a series of pumping as I start shooting cum, and the heavier and thicker the load is, the more pleasure I feel as it shoots through my urethra.
 
It's a loss of control. As my balls, which feel heavy due to arousal begin to pull upwards, an intense pressure begins to build up in my groin area. My dick begins to really swell up and stiffen to max hardness once I reach the point of no return....and then the eruption starts. It's a series of pumping as I start shooting cum, and the heavier and thicker the load is, the more pleasure I feel as it shoots through my urethra.

Your way with words is uncanny. And I second this.
 
It's a loss of control. As my balls, which feel heavy due to arousal begin to pull upwards, an intense pressure begins to build up in my groin area. My dick begins to really swell up and stiffen to max hardness once I reach the point of no return....and then the eruption starts. It's a series of pumping as I start shooting cum, and the heavier and thicker the load is, the more pleasure I feel as it shoots through my urethra.
Great description! Sometimes too I think the lead-up to the orgasm is like running faster and faster down a hill until it becomes so fast that you literally fall over and tumble down the rest of the hill – the orgasm starts when you fall over. Not really a great analogy but as I get nearer and nearer to that point of no return the pleasure and the tension and the feeling of fullness gets greater and greater, centred on my penis but eventually involving my pelvis and my thighs. Then the pleasure becomes almost too much to stand and the explosion starts and my mind goes blank…
 
How would I describe a male orgasm...

To start... the first penetration is a wonderful feeling like nothing else. As one thrusts in and out this feeling intensifies building throughout the body. Tension increases with each thrust. This thrusting can be varied so as to build the feeling at different speeds. As one approaches the PONR the intensity of the sweet sensation continues to built much like that of an orchestra playing a classical piece. My favorite is the classical "Bolero." Like sex the movement begins very soft and rhythmic with a gradual increase intensity. A man can prolong the ecstasy by lessening the strength and depth of the thrusting. This action can be prolonged in the fassion of riding a roller-coaster. Fast..slow..deep..shallow. Take advantage of the moment. Then just as your partner climaxes, you can increase the pace so that you go over the top loosing control of the situation. Your cock trembles, pulsates violently. Your entire body quivers and shakes with ecstasy. Momentarily you loose contact with reality becoming deeply engrossed in the violent crescendo which is but a fleeting moment. All this occurs as the muscles of your lower abdomen pulsate and contract with great force thus forcefully expelling your load of love juices through your penis. There can be anywhere from 4 to 12 of these pulsations. Your entire body shakes and quivers as this takes place. As these contractions take place a man may become very vocal. He may grunt and growl very loudly or he may just breath very heavily and moan intensly. The aftermath of all this gyrating and vocalization may result in a very intense feeling in the head of his cock. So intense that he must withdraw and not be touched because it borders on pain. The man then has an intense desire to snuggle and relax.

This is how I would describe a man's climax because I have experienced much of this over the years. I still experience such climaxes in my later, mature years.
 
Many very accurate things have been said to describe the orgasm. I would be more concise, I would say that it is a loss of control, as has been said, and that is precisely what is exciting. In our lives, we always always keep control, and it's as if free will abandons us for a few seconds.
 
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Interesting responses... @BigAl9 comes closer to my feelings BUT, I would think that, although the actual orgasm and the leading up to must be the the same for everyone, the scenarios and how we interpret it varies. I have been one who - sadly - try to evaluate most of my orgasms. I have been too lazy afterwards to write about it so I will try to remember now the feelings. As a side note, I have only been able to completely disconnect like 4 times in my short sexual life and the emotions have ran so high that I had feared death.

So, how do I describe an orgasm:

It feels like there are thousands of sensors in your penis - most in my tip - and sensors in the groin area. All of those sensors are super activated during this time, overloaded with information that it becomes impossible to track, like when being tickled a lot. As I'm reaching closer and closer, it's like if there are thousand of tiny hands massaging me from every corner of my body in the direction of my penis and flowing out of it. Feels like a comfortable tickle, like ice cream or a very yummy food, together with the feeling of release when peeing after the urge. But then there's more. It feels like your pelvis is levitating, hovering, like being held up just by your penis and all the weight of your body rests on the tip but it doesn't bother, instead it feels as if the weight is also giving you pleasure so you pump harder and harder and it gets a lot nicer as you get closer to the climax. Then at some point its like if you reach cruising altitude, over the clouds at Flight Level 1000+ or out of this world... like the classical music example.... like a long held beautiful note in a church choir... and you are hovering for a tiny few seconds.

During these tiny few seconds, the mind shuts down and there's only your body and the penis. In my view, it is in this moment when I am most vulnerable. It is the moment of ecstasy and of the I love you's (and etc). It's the moment when you say yes to anything and everything is beautiful. The trust may slow down here a bit and you even get a slight amount of fear, like if the end is coming. But it also feels like joy... like when you laugh out loud crazy... and extreme happiness, but also extreme power, like if you're Thor and on top of the world. Like you're the greatest, most powerful thing in the world.

And right before cumming, reason is no more. Involuntarily, you pump, trust, move harder and harder while all of the previous described emotions get amplified. Then it's like if a nuclear reactor gear starts running, out of control - this is all on fractions of seconds - and out of a sudden, all the power of the world gets released out of the penis in what may feel like a nuclear explosion of uncontrollable pleasure & emotions. You even get that feeling of fireworks... the low bass you feel in your heart when you hear it pop... So much, that I don't think there is a way to stop it - the famous point of no return. Each emotion gets amplified by the pulses on your penis as it is pushing cum out. The first usually the greatest but sometimes even the third gets huge. And at that moment, and for a few seconds, nothing exists. The world could end and you wouldn't even notice. And the rush of blood and electrical currents going like crazy all over your body, out of your fingertips and even hair, teeth... its so powerful that it renders you useless and you have to stop moving.

Since the question was about the Orgasm... there it is. Not sure if I should keep writing about the aftermath. I will try to record more data in my next one.
 
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Sometimes I'm not sure if it is pleasure or pain .... m9re like both fused together. Though it is is always ecstatic it can feel like a hook which pulls out my innards. Not in an 'ouch' way ... but ike the core of me is exploding outwards. Agony and ecstasy simultaneously kind of thing rather similar to falling madly in love.
 
I appreciate everyone's responses! This has all been incredibly helpful, thank you all so much!
 
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I get a massive buildup of pressure in hooch are and then an extremely warm throbbing along my dick when I cum
 
I still remember the first time I had an orgasm. I was about 11 or so...in 6th grade. I was watching a local TV show before school. It had a really hot female in tights...(she was supposed to be a pixie) with a great (so I thought) body. I had a really hard erection and I was grinding against a coffee table leg (yeah, I know) and all of a sudden I started to feel what felt like a surge of electricity run from my groin in ever expanding waves. It was weird...it started in my groin area, and travelled back and forth between there and my chest, radiating outward and inward several times. All of a sudden, I felt the most wonderful feeling come over me....and I felt wave after wave of Pure Pleasure consume me. This lasted for maybe 15-20 seconds, but I was hooked! I didn't know it was called an orgasm, so I called it "that good feeling" for a long time , until I read a sexy paperback , and realized that what they were calling "coming to climax" was what I had experienced. I often wondered what if.....what if the first time I was with a girl, that it happened? Would I have thought that it could only happen if another person caused it? Anyway, it was mind blowing, and even thought nothing came out then (after all, I was only 11) It made me realize that I was in control of my own pleasure.....,and it started me on decades of self pleasure. AND...it made me love sex all the more.
 
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Too hard (pun intended) for me to explain the pleasurer component of cumming. But... I can say it's sort of like a sneeze. You feel it coming, and coming and coming, and then all of the sudden -- BOOM -- you're cumming. Just like a sneeze, you feel it coming and coming and then --SNEEZE -- and just like a sneeze, you have no control over the physical actions occurring once it occurs until you are done cumming.
 
as a bottom the orgasms ive had--at first my body would tighten up and shake my asshole tightens up alot around his shaft-- and as te orgasm approaches more i feel my body trembling and shaking--- and i feel this feeling like a pulsating throb in my cock that i dont normally feel any other time--i usually try to keep the moaning down as trembling increases and then i feel like my cock is throbbing hard and shooting a load but nothing comes out--

ive had orgasms a couple times with guys but usually use toys in right areas to trigger an orgasm-- guys think an orgasm is when they cum--thats not true--
 
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