How would you feel if you bf was bi?

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I broke up with an ex because she couldnt deal with me being bi. I told her I was attracted to cock but I would never cheat. Ive been with a guy or two since we broke up and now with a new girl in a long relationship but have hidden my gay side because of the reaction of my ex. Is this agood plan or not. Although I love cock I wouldnt cheat on anyone with a woman or a man.
 

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You should never have to hide who you are.

If your girlfriend can't support you and love you for WHO YOU ARE, then she isn't worth your time. Period. Tell your girlfriend. If she can't handle it, then keep looking until you find someone that can. I've dated a guy that was bisexual and it was completely a non-issue for me. In fact, checking out guys together was kind of fun. :wink:
 

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I've never had a problem with it - did it three times. Some women can handle it and some can't, but I agree with those above: you shouldn't have to hide any part of who you are from someone you love (or who claims to love you).
 

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You're never going to be happy in a relationship unless you're being 100% yourself, and right now you're not. Although I'm straight, there is nothing wrong with being bi, nor would I break-up with a guy for being bi. Be yourself, please, don't be ashamed of who you are!
 

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You need to be honest with her but there is a time and place for everything. You need to decide when and where that is. Honestly, I'm open minded and don't consider myself biggeted or anything but I'm not sure how comfortable I would be knowing my bf is bi. I guess it's no different than knowing he was attracted to just other girls and as long as he wasn't a cheater and I trusted him, it should be ok. I think I would be ok with it but honestly, it would take some getting used to.
 

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My last bf was Bi, it didn't phase me whatsoever, checking out the boys together can be fun... as was the shopping :biggrin1: It also led to sexual experiences that probably wouldn't happen with most straight guys. I found it a good experience, so yes, i would do it again. He did say that it can be difficult to get people to accept that you could be satisfied with the one sex, it was the first time he had been open about it with a partner choosing previously to keep quiet about it. However, he was a lot happier being himself and I would say do be honest about who you are. Anyone who loves you should love all of you, if they can't then you deserve someone who can :smile: