How would you handle this situation?

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Really? dont make such a big deal of it. Carry on it's only sex. Try not to be so rigid about it.

get drunk and repeat the scenario again; this time let him suck your dick while you fuck her. that way he can taste his own wife's wetness and suck your dick at the same time.
 

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Alcohol led to a lack of coherent communication. What a surprise. Love all the advice telling him to forsake his own sexuality (he's not gay), blow the guy, to conform to someone else and save a friendship. Although I'm sensing a massive amount of sarcasm from forum members. Har-har.

Be who you are without apology. If they can't accept you for who you are then they're not the friends you thought they were. Fuck 'em ... just not in the literal sense.
 

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So the story continues. I was invited back. We have all made up and worked things out and just had an amazing threesome. We all talked and apparently his wife Has a thing for my cock. He just watched me fuck her for awhile and jacked off. Not sure where things will go from here but ill keep you posted.
This is one of the hottest things I've read. I'm glad you got to pleasure his wife, I have this fantasy as well (as the husband). Would love to hear more about that night :biggrin1: Did she get to suck you? What was hubby doing? ...
 

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When you're in a MFM three way, you really should expect some touching. I mean really! I did this with a good friend of mine years ago in college. We were fucking his then GF and while I was eating her he stuck his cock into her. I didn't move but started licking his nuts. He was a bit surprised but WTF?, you just put your cock in my face!!

In any case, if it's not your thing, don't go there again. If you value his friendship at all, you'd sit down with him over a beer and apologize for "over reacting", tell him you were just totally surprised by it and agree to move on, leaving this chapter behind you both.

Good luck

Amen to ThickJohnny! You all were in a 3-way. Dicks are gonna touch, hands and mouths too. Don't do it if you don't plan to enjoy all aspects. And think about it, he was watching you with his wife...you're gonna freak b/c his hand touched/grabbed your cock?
Please don't bring anything up with them again. Should it come up, laugh it off. Then, next time, enjoy!
 

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As a gay man if I were in a MFM threesome and the WOMAN grabbed my dick I'd smile. Society is so wound up about gayness and gay sex. What kind of world do we live in where a guy who lets another guy fuck his wife can't grab that guys dick during the act. Go wild, have fun, explore, leave no stone unturned. Check your insecurities and societies prejudice at the door.
 
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So my dumbass got drunk last night with a friend of mine and his wife. Long story short we had a threesome. She was riding me and he was licking her ass then all the sudden he grabbed my dick and started stroking it. I said "what the fuck are you doing?" He got really embarrassed and it really really ruined the mood. I ended up just going downstairs and passing out on the couch and slipped out this morning before they woke up. I was not pissed or anything just freaked out that a dude just grabbed my dick. He is one of those overly masculine guys that flaunts his straitness every chance he gets so I was really surprised. After thinking about it I really don't give a shit I just don't swing that way. Just sitting at my computer thinking I've just lost a couple of friends. Any advise?

Blackmail... muahahahaha
 

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What kind of world do we live in where a guy who lets another guy fuck his wife can't grab that guys dick during the act. Go wild, have fun, explore, leave no stone unturned. Check your insecurities and societies prejudice at the door.
100% with you here! Whatever happened to "I'll try anything once" ? hehe.
 

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With all due respect to you, I think you overreacted and you should be grateful they've kept you as a friend. Heat of the moment, you fucking his girl and he's probably curious about seeing a big cock too!!! I could see if he tried to blow you or mount you, now that could cause some alarm. But to think in a 3-way that touching isn't gonna happen, then shame on you. The poor guy was probably worried sick about the whole thing. Like most have said, it's only sex. Doesn't mean if the dude stroke your dick that he or you are gay.
 

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It's as big a deal as you're going to make it.

You got into the situation in the first place, so there's a fair degree of trust between you all and comfort.

There's no real need to talk about it, think about it or change your behaviour over it.

Simply: Just behave as per normal, its not such a huge leap that whilst in a 3way with a dude so very close to your dick that a drunk crazy idea springs to mind, that, inhibitions lowered he acted on.

It happened, that's impossible to change. How much you choose to let it affect the future you can change.
 

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Glad to hear that you haven't lost your friends over a surprise in the scene...

Consider the trust and affection they have for you as a friend. Then consider the scene- a hot MFM that you have really found enjoyable.

You list your profile as 50/50, and you self admittedly love a hot cock.

As others have said, this dude shared his wife with you- and despite initial surprise to some direct physical contact- I think maybe you should kinda expect some contact when you're in that close scene.

Everyone has a "script" that runs in their head and certain things turn us on and some things shut down the eroticism pretty fast. One of the fastest routes to flacidville is fear and repulsion. So ask yourself: do you trust your buddy? Does he repulse you? Do you feel that he wants you to feel good and safe and sexually fulfilled?

My point is, as LPSGers repeat OVER and OVER and OVER: sexuality is fluid. What we like can change, and what we are willing to do can gradually change over time. I think it's not bad advice to mentally commit to opening yourself up to your buddy in the next tryst: either at the desire of his wife, or him- or..... YOU. If you love them and cherish them (as friends) then just relax and trust that they both want you to be happy and enjoy the scene to the fullest.

Chadstallion said you should let your bud suck you off while you go for sweet pussy. I actually fully agree- why not see if it works for you in a trusting scenario with people you like and who like close sexual erotic time with you? If you lose your hardon, or you can't go there you'll know--- just turn to your buddy, laugh and giggle a bit, and say, "it's not working" and he'll probably get it. Then you have comfort knowing that the reason for the rejection isn't personal rejection, it's truly a matter of biology- and you're wired to stay focused on complementary parts :)

Relationships are compromise- and growth and evolution means that nothing remains the same- either we go forward and get bigger and wiser and more experienced, or we shrivel up and the muscles atrophy. Be willing to give of yourself to those who you are calling your sexual playmates- and trust yourself and them enough to make your body vulnerable. You just might surprise yourself.

And remember bud: if your sexual object choice is based upon what cues you have learned to put you on the road of inevitability, your buddy's girlfriend is in the mix.
KICK BACK AND ENJOY IT ALL buddy!

Let us know how this goes the next time- I think a lot of us can learn from where this goes with the three of you!