How would you rate my face/looks from a 1-10?

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I seem to have a hard time getting matches on apps. I don’t think I’m ugly, but I don’t have any shirtless pics since I don’t have abs and am not muscular so I think maybe that’s why? Maybe my expectations are too high? My goal this year is to get in better shape and start working out.

Anyway, I’m 33, 5’9”, about 205 lbs, Italian, Dad bod type for anyone who is interested. From Long Island. Mainly looking for dates that could hopefully lead to a relationship.

I’d like some honest opinions on my looks. A 1-10 rating would help too.
 

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You don’t need abs, but you need to drop 20 lbs.

Thank you, I’ll take a 7 lol. And yes, I know, that’s why I said my goal this year is to start working out. I actually lost 40lbs in 2023 thanks to Wegovy (aka Ozempic) so I used to be even heavier. Just a bit more to go.
 

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You don’t need abs, but you need to drop 20 lbs.
Not necessarily. The BMI scale is bullshit. I'm also 5'9" and currently weigh about 200 pounds, and I look pretty damn good, I think. I'm not ripped, but I don't want to be. I have a naturally wide frame, and I once consciously lost a lot of weight, 150 pounds at my lightest. Because of my large frame, I looked gaunt and bony; people kept asking me if I was sick or on drugs.

Anyway, I give the OP an 8. I think he's pretty good-looking.
 
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A solid 8 as a starting point. You're hot. It can go higher if we match in terms of sexual fantasies and I like your attitude. Please let me know if you decide to go on a trip to visit your hometown in Italy :p

I have my face on dating apps so I'm usually the one being texted. But if I saw that photo, plus maybe something fun and approachable as profile text before... I would totally drop you a text, if you don't message me first!
 
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Not necessarily. The BMI scale is bullshit. I'm also 5'9" and currently weigh about 200 pounds, and I look pretty damn good, I think. I'm not ripped, but I don't want to be. I have a naturally wide frame, and I once consciously lost a lot of weight, 150 pounds at my lightest. Because of my large frame, I looked gaunt and bony; people kept asking me if I was sick or on drugs.

Anyway, I give the OP an 8. I think he's pretty good-looking.

I'm pretty much the same. I have a larger frame and everyone told me that I don't need to lose any more weight and that I just need to tone up. My doctor even told me the BMI is bs, because according to the BMI scale, there are body builders who would be considered "morbidly obese". He said the best way to really determine if you are at a healthy weight is a dexa scan, which measures your bone density and some other metrics.
 
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I'd give you an 8 on the picture.
Why take notice of what happens on dating apps, they are a load of narcissists looking for perfection that doesn't exist. Those who seek the perfect body are deluded into thinking that happiness lies that way.
 

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I seem to have a hard time getting matches on apps. I don’t think I’m ugly, but I don’t have any shirtless pics since I don’t have abs and am not muscular so I think maybe that’s why? Maybe my expectations are too high? My goal this year is to get in better shape and start working out.

Anyway, I’m 33, 5’9”, about 205 lbs, Italian, Dad bod type for anyone who is interested. From Long Island. Mainly looking for dates that could hopefully lead to a relationship.

I’d like some honest opinions on my looks. A 1-10 rating would help too.
honestly solid 8. Because I personally would never give anyone over 8 if I don't know them in person, maybe it's just me. You are really handsome!
 

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If you want to drop 20 pounds, do it because you want to be healthier, not to try to conform to some unreasonable ideal of a correct body type. You're a very handsome guy and there are lots of men attracted to "dad bods." Just be comfortable in your body whatever it looks like.