How would you react if someone grabbed your junk in a gym gang shower room?

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If you choose to label and denigrate people who have the maturity to know that simple human contact is nothing to flip your shit over, that says more about you than it does them.

lol you trollin bro?

You're lost, my friend. The thread you're looking for is How would you react if you were showering in a gym gang shower and someone fingered your butthole?
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So, the crime committed here that supposedly warrants physical violence against another person is him making the grievous mistake of not automatically assuming that you're straight? There's a term for that. It's called Gay Bashing.

Look, I'm a guy who likes to rock out with his cock out. I've found myself in situations where a perfect stranger gave in to the temptation to reach out and grab my dick more times than a respectable person probably should. Occasionally, the touch was welcome. More often than not, the sight of the guy with his hand on my dick made me want to barf all over him and myself. Do you know what all those situations had in common, besides the obvious? My initial reaction. Regardless of whether I intended to encourage or discourage the fellows, every single time without exception ... I met them with a smile. I smiled, said something friendly and then proceeded with addressing whether or not I wanted the touching to continue.

In the South, we call that gentlemanly behavior.

All the opinions in this thread supporting the idea that one man's uninvited touch on another man's genitals deserves to be met with violence positively reeks of the rampant homophobia and sexual repression that is pervasive in our society. If you take umbrage to that and think, "I'm not homophic!" I suggest you at least take a minute to consider whether your opinion on this matter is, or is not. All the guys that post on craigslist looking to find other guys to suck their cock, but are adamant that they don't want any that don't act like "REAL men" would most likely swear to you that they aren't sexist or homophobic, either.

Bigotry is an extremely insidious vice and there are so many forms of it that are still regarded as acceptable by our society that most people don't even realize that they're guilty of it until they have notions they've held their entire lives, notions they've taken for granted as being just, challenged by someone who sees things differently.

This ridiculously over-blown mole hill of a hypothetical situation probably also stems from parents telling their children, over and over, "Anyone who tries to touch your special place is a bad, bad man. Yell, 'STRANGER DANGER,' and run away!" That's all well and good for keeping your children safe, but an integral part of being an adult is learning when to put away childish things.

Anytime a guy tries to touch your dick, invited or not, it means he thinks you have an awesome cock. So awesome, in fact, that he's demonstrably unable to keep his hands off of it. That should be flattering, not infuriating.

Is it asking too much for people to learn to take a freakin' compliment?

no the crime is someone assuming i want my cock fondled in the shower. and then proceeding to assault me.

and cut the bullshit, this has nothing to do with being gay. its not homophobic for a guy to not want some strange dude to rape you in the shower, thats borderline retarded.

there is a difference between "without your consent" and "unwanted."

obviously you fall into the "without your consent but not unwanted" category. good for you.

lets ask women how they would react if a man walked up to them and stuck his hand down her pants. im sure telling them "its a compliment" will clear everything up :rolleyes:

the only bigot here is you. bigotry is not an unwillingness to do something, its the intolerance of those with differing beliefs. i have no problem with you wanting to be touched in the shower, youre trying to argue that its not okay for me to not want some guy to grab my cock.

also, people that dont want to have gay sex arent automatically homophobic. there is real homophobia out there, and its pretty disgusting that you would detract from that, simply because you cant think of a good argument.
 

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also, people that dont want to have gay sex arent automatically homophobic. there is real homophobia out there, and its pretty disgusting that you would detract from that, simply because you cant think of a good argument.

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lol you trollin bro?

no the crime is someone assuming i want my cock fondled in the shower. and then proceeding to assault me.

and cut the bullshit, this has nothing to do with being gay. its not homophobic for a guy to not want some strange dude to rape you in the shower, thats borderline retarded.

My thoughts exactly. Let him behave in a shower room based on his beliefs and see how it works for him...
 

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There's a Huge difference!!

Hey, I have no problem with a man grabbing my package...in the right circumstances!! Uninvited, in a public shower rarely fits in that boundary.

Would I get violent? Probably not, if it was a first time offense, and the offending party took my rejection and didn't repeat it. I do believe that violence as an initial reaction is way over the top, and just as wrong. If it is repeated, then it's deserved.
 

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That never happened to me....yet. But it has happened to me with my clothes on. Its the comments I sometimes get in the gym...like..." I'd love to see you f--k my wife with that"
 

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Would you get angry, freak out, let him touch you, just step away, what?
I'd let him touch me. As he's stroking it I'd say "since you like touching my penis so much, go ahead and suck it bro"
 
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