I no longer have someone special to love (my choice) I prefer to be alone and not in a relationship, but a group of us made a pact to be fuck buddies, there are six of us in the group 5 men and 1 woman, we are true to each other only and only pratice safe sex. Sometimes we have threesomes or a sixsome, but most time it's two on two ( man on man or man with woman). The woman in our group is completely straight. Most of the men are Bi or gay.
So to answer the question I have sex about 4 times a week, if I am on a roll with my writing, then it's less, my writing takes priority. When I finish a book, I take a break, and take someone from our group for a vacation.. These are my good friends.