Hi Ladies, You gals seem like a pretty enlightened group here who know what you want and aren't ashamed of it. I was curious as to whether any of you have an arrangement with your husband where you can have an occaisional fling on the side? I can see how you might love your husband but you might have an occasional need for something more - bigger maybe? - outside your marriage. If so, do you do this discreetly or does your hubby know what, where, and when you are doing it? Do you allow him to do the same? As a corollary to this, have any of you guys out there been involved in this type of arrangement, either as the hubby or the extramarital partner? What were your experiences like?