Huge dicks girls perception.

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by B_jlaurier, Nov 5, 2009.

  1. B_jlaurier

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    Ok, i d like to give you my highlights. I asked all my female friends to tell me about their perception of huge dicks. Here is the answers. I think my answers are kind of fair because i m very close to those girls and i talked with them in private several times. I even asked a former female pornstar who confirmed everything i say here. I interviewed 20 girls. age range 20 to 32, origin Europe.

    i saw another post saying "does size matter". I think this question is outdated. I think for all guys between 4 and 7 size doesnt matter for the girls those size are the same for 80% of girls. Over 7 inches the guy attributes has some consequences. i let you put the line between the big penis and large penis. 7 is good number that s all.


    Physically:
    The guy has more surface friction with the vagina wall so he needs to move to make the girl feel good. The guy needs less hard erection than a smaller penis.


    Psychologically:
    the girls loose control compared to average size dick. They feel more animal. They will scream more, and accept more easily spanks, trash talks... It is a spontaneous natural reaction in woman body like it or not. One of them reported she was hearing herself screaming. Even if sometimes to do have pain all girls describe it as "pleasant pain". The huge dick will make the girl feel good. They can have an orgasm more easily. Nevertheless it doesnt mean they will systematically. At least 50% have no orgasms or nearly one at each sexual intercourse. This is due to other psychological aspects. for 40% of the girls, The big boys dont need to be romantic, they dont need to do so much cunni. No foreplay can be needed just penetration. At this point you may think it is paradoxal, but it means they feel just good with the huge dick in, they want to be fullfilled as i said at the beginning.

    Stats:
    1/3 of the girls who tried a huge dick didnt like it and prefered average size. Interestingly in those 1/3, i think i had two clear categories, girls who are like not handy with sex and very attractive women. They were also cute girls who loved huge dicks but since it is a 2/3, there were also lots of girls who were not so beautiful. Also in the 2/3, there were something i noticed, i know people will scream in the following posts. But there were all the girls who look vulgar. Like too much mak-up, dyed blond, and also there body and face shape. ok please dont scream i wanted to share everything i saw. for sure you can challenge it. In the 2/3 also, 40% like to play with it, 1/ holding hands 2/ spank on the face.
    Some girls who like large penis dont like to do blowjobs (i know it starts to be complicated it is normal we speak about women).

    Also there were a category of girls who never saw a huge dick. 70% are not really interrested 30% interrested.

    Pleasure and Orgasm:
    It is possible a huge penis dont provide orgasm and an average penis provide orgasm for the same girl. In fact, it was not due to the size but to the foreplay, cunni, kissing, massage with the guy who had an average sex. Nevertheless, i never been able to compare huge boy and average boy with the same skills with the same girl. It is really unfortunate. Nevertheless, for many girls the huge penis will make them feel really good systematically. For the girls who like huge dicks. To compensate this pleasant feeling (not orgasm, just the pleasant feeling) they have to perform cunni and foreplay.

    About relationship:
    from relationship point of view 90% of the girls dont consider the size. It means after a huge dick boyfriend they can go out with an average or small size penis guy. Majority of the girls will not stay with a huge dick man they dont like. From my interviews, i think that was the weaken point related to the size. When it comes to stability in life, household incomes, disagreement over things in life, problem with children, the huge dick preferences are brushed away to be replaced by down-to-earth choice and it is done very quickly. An hetero girl will accept all penis size in 90% of time after a large encounter.


    1st conclusion:
    guys with huge cocks needs to spend less energy to pleasure girls than average guys. They have the physical attributes to give pleasure but it doesnt mean they will provide an orgasm. The huge guy doesnt need to do foreplay to warm up the sex act. Conversely, the average guy has to do foreplay and perhaps cunni to warm up the sex act.
     
  2. badgirl22

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    Well, while I applaud your efforts to create such a survey there are several problems with it. First, very small sample size. Second, not really random since they're people you know. Thirdly, it doesn't take into account the girl's pussy tightness/looseness which would have an impact on their impression of dick size. Fourthly, doesn't take into account each girls overall sexual experience. Someone with limited experience will have a very different view than someone with more experience.

    I'd say, and no survey needed for this conclusion - size can impress/scare a woman but it's the overall skill and attentention paid to the woman and her *needs* that makes it a good/bad/indifferent experience much more so than size. Big dicks can be fun just from the novelty standpoint, but truly, size is one of the least important factors when it comes to judging the overall experience.
     
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    Yeah pretty much agree with you but he needs to def brush up on his writing and grammer skills more than his interviewing skills.
     
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    I m sorry i m not an english native speaker.

    I also would like to answer badgirl22. I was surprised with a very small sample girls were saying exactly the same using the same words.
    For instance, when they say: it really feels good (in a penetration with huge penis). I have all girls appreciating huge penis saying the same words.

    I m sorry but it was really easy even with small sample because the girls were saying the same.

    It is not scientific. Anyway We dont have any serious study out there. My little interviews are here to give some clear opinions. When we go through forums or studies, we get no answers however there are things you can see everywhere.

    I d like to had something. After those little interviews i think the huge guys are made to pleasure girls because there is a pleasure feedback to the huge size and most of the girls can accommodate the size.

    Lots of people say girls are all psychology, and i m sorry, i noticed mechanical reaction with huge penis. It is not psychological. I saw the same schema with every girls who like it. They scream more, they fuck themselves on the dick. and then the guy reacts by fucking faster. And normally it carries to an orgasm.

    We write lots of words about women psychology but it is simpler than that from reaction point of view. then relationship is another thing.
     
  5. B_jlaurier

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    Well, while I applaud your efforts to create such a survey there are several problems with it. First, very small sample size. Second, not really random since they're people you know. Thirdly, it doesn't take into account the girl's pussy tightness/looseness which would have an impact on their impression of dick size. Fourthly, doesn't take into account each girls overall sexual experience. Someone with limited experience will have a very different view than someone with more experience.

    you said
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    You said size can scare a woman, i never heard of that after 20 girls. Interestingly lots of very unexperienced girls were not scared at all even if they never saw 8 inches and more before. By the way in this case, they do trust their sex partner and this is why there are not scared. If they come to the point when they will have sexual intercourse with a man it means they trust him, so they are not scared.

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    lots of huge men are good lovers. The guy has to be reallllllly rude to disgust them and it is reaaaalllly rare. i had only one case. the problem is the following afterwards the girl will never try a huge one again.
    Yes on this point we will have a fight about: " The sexual pleasure from a girl come from a psychological state coming from candles, cuddling and bla bla bla". unfortunately there is a mechanical thing in pleasure with huge dicks. It is spontaneous after penetration. And nothing else can provide this sensation to them (this information is not from me, like majority of girls)
    I m sure the big guys can confirm on that. They dont need to do much to give a girl pleasure. There will be a minimum of pleasure always with a huge dick.
    Ok a girl can really try to say no to the pleasure incoming. it is always possible. but i think it is rare.
     
  6. BigLoveRod

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    This is where you completely show you don't know from an ownership perspective. Most all women need more foreplay before actual penetration of a huge cock not less. :rolleyes:
     
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    Indeed.

    I think he meant due to more friction with vaginal walls, it arouses women more.

    But I agree with you. You can't just insert a large cock, you need to get the vagina aroused. Whereas a smaller cock can enter with lesser foreplay and let the cock do the arousal.
     
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    This was a fun and informative little write-up. It continues to disabuse men of the notion that having a big penis is everything. I've been through more relationship break-ups than I care to count. No woman ever complained about the sex, but a relationship is more than just sex.
     
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    Oh, yeah - just jam it in...

    Geez :rolleyes:
     
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    I need way more foreplay with a large penis that I do with an average penis.
     
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    geesh!
     
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    I have a very sexy , cute , hot Fillipino girlfriend. She was once dating this English guy ....a long time ago....when the time for sex came.....she got scared of his size. She said he was big....and thought he wud hurt her tiny hole. So ,she never had intercourse with him...tthough he even tried many times ...and got very close too once...but it didnt work out. They stopped seeing other eventually.
     
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    Lol. Can certainly attest to that. If it is a partner I am familiar with, I will almost always go down on her in the beginning, because not only does it excite her mentally and physically, but it provides my own natural lubricant with her own, which obviously makes penetration easier. If I don't know her so well, during foreplay I will hoist her legs up and place my cock along her labia(lips) and stroke it, making sure that there is ample pressure on the clitoris. That normally does it for most of the women I've been with. I guess it’s a combination of the mental stimulation of my size as it moves, and the physical stimulation of the strokes. In either case, being large does normally equate to MORE necessary foreplay rather than less.

    Also, I have to disagree with you jlaurier. There have been times when my partner for the night was so intimidated by my size that no matter what we did in terms of foreplay, she simply could not relax enough for penetration. I mean, she certainly couldn't physically make her orifice smaller, but she anticipated so much pain that we eventually just had to stop, even though I never really penetrated. Now, this hasn't happened a lot, but probably 5% to10% of the girls I've been with are initially too shocked/nervous about the size to fully penetrate on the first go. I've only had maybe three or four girls actually refuse to try again. Of course, pretty much all of those occurrences were early in my sexual life, and while in my mind I was very good with foreplay even back then, perhaps I wasn't as good as I thought! :) Memory does have a way of serving the one remembering. For my first-timers, I've actually developed a 'routine' of sorts to keep my member out of view until my partner is so ready that it doesn't matter. It's worked perfectly so far. Unless they have heard of me already, in which case it’s my size they wanted to try anyways and therefore negates any reason to hide it.

    At any rate, I applaud the attempt to survey the subject!
     
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    amen to that...
    you can't always have your cake & eat it too...
     
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    This was never true of me. I have always been more open, more uninhibited with men when I sensed a true mental connection, and a true shared perspective of hedonism. Oh, and I guess I can be less inhibited with sexually dominant men, too.

    Oh hell no! This is never true for me. I have a really hard time reaching climax with anyone (but my right hand) and I MUST have foreplay. With me you can have a comparison of same skills between men with large, medium, and small dicks, and I'll tell you every man feels different. For me, I have no preference for penis size, I like them all. I like when men touch me a certain way, kiss me a certain way, and eat my pussy like they're starved for it. I like to be fucked gently, I like to be fucked roughly, I like fast or slow strokes. There's a spot in the middle of the posterior wall of my vagina which drives me crazy to feel a shorter cock press against (provided the head is wide), several spots on the anterior wall, and of course the little cranny behind my cervix which all are great places from which to elicit my orgasm for the guy who knows how to reach. But I will never be aroused enough to climax without engaging in serious foreplay in which we pleasure and tease each other's body. This part of sex makes me feel not just horny, but sexy, and passionate. It also helps me decide once and for all if sex is actually about to happen.


    Let me ask you this: If the huge cock doesn't need to engage in forepllay, how the hell am I expected to be wet enough to make him fit? I'm not trying to leave an encounter with my chocha looking like it was mauled by Kujo!
     
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    It only matters...if it matters to her. Women have small pussies and some have larger pussies. It's like a shoe and foot, find one that fits and feels good enough to wear. Anyways...the way I hear it, alot of women enjoy havin their pussies lick, sucked and nibble for an hour or so, just as much as anything else.
     
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    None of the above, including the OP, makes any reference to GIRTH, only length. As I've learnt from this site dicks come in endless combinations of length and girth. Long doesn't always mean fat.

    I'm sure women with "tight" pussies don't mind a long dick [as long as the owner knows when to stop]. However they will knock back / have trouble with a large-girthed dick.

    Perhaps the women reading this post may care to comment on girth?
     
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    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    Yes Girls, please comment on the girth :biggrin1:
     
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    I've read and re-read that paragraph a number of times and I must say I do appreciate anyone (man or woman) who can be so eloquent and so specific about the different sensations brought about by different sorts of stimulations. My wife says the theory that there is no sensation deeper than 3" within a vagina is bullshit. Your post verifies this.

    One thing I do enjoy doing sometimes is using my cock more as a massaging implement rather than for fucking. I read "The Feminine Wild" by Tami Lynn Kent last month and she writes about internal vaginal massages. It sounded stupid at first, but I tried it on my wife at first with my fingers. The reaction was great, so next I tried it with my cock. I wanted the sensation to have enough friction for me to keep erect, but my focus was more "kneading" her internal walls. Be it through my hip angling a certain direction, her legs splayed in a certain angle or our movements working specific areas, I concentrated more on certain spots that felt tight.

    Anyway, I digress. Great post and my only question (I can think of about 3,200 others) is regarding cervical stimulation. I had an ex who loved rubbing her cervix with the corona of my cockhead until she came. Do you find the same enjoyment?
     
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    Thanks for the compliments!

    First, I'll answer your question. Noooo! Very, very rarely is any pressure on my cervix enjoyable to me. There have been a few partners with whom I enjoyed the muted pain of their contact with my cervix, but usually the pain is very traumatic. It feels as if a jolt of pain explodes from the point of contact, and then, bypassing all else in the path, starts over at my ovaries, travels along my fallopian tubes, outlines my womb, and then surges along my vaginal walls. This is the same pain I feel when I'm ovulating, but magnified a thousand-fold. I don't know what the difference was with men with whom it didn't bother me. I think maybe they were not hitting it head on. It's hard to say. Men have been very reluctant to share with me what exactly they have done to me. On the other hand, I really LOVE to have the head of a cock rubbing against my cul-de-sac until I climax. Perhaps this is what you were actually doing to your ex? I used to think it was the same thing, until I found the difference with a dildo one day.

    I think I need to have a look at that book of yours, "The Feminine Wild". It sounds great. It actually sounds like exactly what I like the most, most of the time.
     
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