Stumbled across this thread but it bears out something I have long suspected: women are simply less interested in flaccid cocks than they are in hard ones. How do I know? Beacause out of over 120 responses, of those who declare, only 1 previous response has come from a female. It may be that most women only respond to the unambiguously aroused male figure. Compare this to the number of declared women who respond when the subject is related to something like girth (another thing I've long suspected: men are more impressed by cock-length. When it comes to women, at least half, and in my experience talking with my friends, more than half, dream of a fatty).