Huge problem with my girlfriend!!!!!!!

[travnik1988]

Did your girlfriend tell you that she didn't like the girth of your penis? What did she say, exactly?

This is either you making this an issue, or your girlfriend.

If it's you, I'd say you just need to pay attention to her body, listen to her reactions, and be the best lover you can be. If you do that, you'll be fine, and she'll be satisfied.

If it's her, then I would politely tell her to go find someone else.

Yes, she did. She said: Your penis is skinny. She said after oral sex.

 

[dolfette]

Yes, she did. She said: Your penis is skinny. She said after oral sex.

she said ''your penis is skinny'',
not
''your penis is TOO skinny''
?
there's a big difference.

the former?
she may have just meant it was nice not to have jaw ache.

 

[travnik1988]

I agree, telling you that you have a skinny dick is not nice, it is mean. That is a red flag she is putting up for you. If you really like her, then there are a few things you can do that have already been suggested to you, but since you haven't slept with her yet, I say forget her. All she is going to do is make you feel bad about yourself.

I think that I am average, but i am not sure. I slept with two other girls before and all was well.

 

[travnik1988]

she said ''your penis is skinny'',
not
''your penis is TOO skinny''
?
there's a big difference.

the former?
she may have just meant it was nice not to have jaw ache.

She said "your penis is too skinny"!!! I made a mistake above.

 

[Mule]

She said "your penis is too skinny"!!! I made a mistake above.

I think that you should explain to her that this hurt your feelings. Then look for a new girlfriend that is more considerate.

 

[Mule]

she said ''your penis is skinny'',
not
''your penis is TOO skinny''
?
there's a big difference.

the former?
she may have just meant it was nice not to have jaw ache.

Funny isn't it? I would be offended if someone told me my cock is too skinny, but when I am told it's too thick, I just laugh maniacally.

 

[kazooplayer]

I cosign leaving her. It's all well and good to know what you want and need from someone else, but if you were to tell your girl, "your breasts, while adequate now, will not hold my interest for very long, and I will soon start to fantasize about fucking other women with bigger and better breasts, until I inevitably end this relationship," (which is essentially what this girl is telling you) I don't think anyone would advise this girl to stay with you.

There's one of two things going on here - 1. She's attempting to subvert your free will by assaulting your manhood, in which case, she's no good for you; leave.

2. She doesn't believe your dick is big enough for her. She's no good for you, leave.

 

[travnik1988]

So, is she right or no? Is my penis too skinny?

 

[B_jeepguy2]

Hey man, your penis is about average size. I mean seriously if she loves you she wouldn't care about the size of your penis. I can't believe she said that. A girl telling a guy that is kind of like a guy telling a girl "your breasts are small".

 

[B_Dustydo]

Doll you don't tell a man you love his dick is too small at the beginning of a relationship when it's suppose to be all warm and lovey-dovey.
It's used as a cheap verbal kick to the balls at the end of a relationship.

Leave or you are in for a world of suffering.

 

[Revman]

Give her some anal , then ask her if its skinny!..................

 

[Mule]

So, is she right or no? Is my penis too skinny?

Apparently it is for her. For someone else, maybe not. Why are you asking a bunch of people who have never met you and never seen your penis? Our opinion doesn't matter. Asking for advice on how to handle it I can understand, but the membership of LPSG is not the most important "consumer" of what you have to offer.

 

[D_Drew Peacock]

Sounds to me like your girlfriend is too mean, or perhaps just cruel. Maybe it is time to move on, for both of you. She needs someone who is a bigger dick, and you need someone with a heart.

 

[D_Leotols Toy]

The fact you keep asking for more advice when the majority have given you good solid advice is redundant. Dump the broad, she obviously doesn't care for your feelings and isn't worth ONE MORE second of your time. As far as skinny, you're right around average. Regardless, if you were 3.5" around or 6.5", she shouldn't have said a damn thing so early in the relationship, especially in such a degrading manner.

 

[Opalite]

I would't worry too much about your size, It's average. I wouldn't go as far as saying that that means you should be able to please her, but then again - beeing 8" doesn't give that garrantee either. Size is just one of many factors.

But size isn't the biggest problem here. It's your attitude towards it. Many (if not most) ladies will see this kind of insecurety as anything but sexy; If you believe it's too small, it will be. How can you even begin to pleasure your lady if your constantly unhappy and insecure about your body?

I would agree with the majority saying It's best to get out of the relationship. Noth becausw she's a "bitch" or anything of the like, but because you should learn to love - or atleast be comfortable with - your own body first.

(This thread has SPH written all over it, though... Let's see how many times we will be asked again if we think he's small..)

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

I think a cock ring will give you some more girth in the short term but in all honesty if she is telling you to your face you are inadequate before you even have sex then I suggest you go else where.

I agree with the highlighted above. If somebody says that to me on my face i would go somewhere else. Its not worth it. Probably you should ask her if she is loose down there because nobody ever said that to you.

I really dont like size queens honestly. not that i can not satisfy them i did have some big dick praiser but you dont want to date them. Is there a limit for big ? When i started dating my gal she could not take me and it was uncomfirtable for 6 months or so now she feels happy and her vagina adjusted to my size. I am so glad she never commented on my dick except that it was too uncomfirtable to take it. having dick was her only preference and thats too because she is straight.

Now for a size queen who is having sex with you and suppose you have a big dick she will soon adjust to it. After adjustment the stretching feeling that big dick gives goes down some because the current big is comfirtable and dont feel that tight. What is next ? answer is bigger dick and when she adjust to the bigger dick what is next ... even bigger dick.

I understand the preference of the women and some do have genuine reasons for a big dick ones who are big down there but dont make a fuzz about it. However, if it is put on your face without you having sex well my friend your not the king of that queen. Because if that is in her mind i doubt you could ever satisfy her. I wonder if you are doing her she will probably be thinking well this dick does not feel as thick and that thinking will kill the sex and the orgasms that you anticipate. I think she already killed your confidence and without confidence you can not get it up. I would never date someone whose reasoning to be with me includes my dick size even as a last preference. Just my thought. People can differ from it but well i stand where i am.

ps: pardon my poor english, i am not native

 

[wellhung9]

From what i understand, if your dick is 6 inches long, then it's pretty normal for it to only be 4.5 inches wide. People with 8 inch long dicks usually have 6 inches girth, so that seems about the same ratio to me.

I guess try jelqing or find a new girlfriend that doesn't pull out measuring tape and say, "well the length is good, but your not thick enough to have sex with me."