There is such mixed opinion and here's why....
Large inner labia are the majority of females. I had no idea until i started watching a lot of porn that this was the case. When i look in books that show drawings of the external female anatomy, mine looks exactly like that. If a majority of women have larger labia minora, why didnt they call those the labia majora instead? 95% of porn chicks have lips that hang out when they stand up.
Every baby girls diaper that i've ever changed has had anatomy that looks like mine when i shave. I've not seen one that had beefy lips, so something must transform in puberty to make those lips get larger and protrude. I do remember female friends and cousins sometimes have a clitoris hang out of their lips when they stood up and i thought something was wrong with me that all of my stuff was tucked in.
Doctors that do vaginal and labiaplasty surgeries try to make women look like me, so for a while i thought maybe i made out lucky. Many women complain about their large inner labia being in the way when they are doing certain activities like riding a bike and rub against clothing and its uncomfortable for them. So they opt to have them trimmed down.
I think porn and the sexual experiences with women with larger lips have made men accustomed to them being their preference. My husband has commented on mine being exquisitely visually perfect since the first time i took my panties off. So i was pretty much loving mine after meeting him. And then i come here and realize that the more beef you have the better and any photos i've ever put up of my pussy have gotten very little views and comments compared to those that have "danglers".
I figured there have to be more women out there like myself since now there is a category in porn called Camel Toe for those who have what most people would consider "textbook" and i've heard more than rude commentary about us being unattractive (well here at lpsg anyway)
A few guys here still prefer the nice little tucked in packages, but most would pick what is considered exotically large over exotically small.
The guy who said that men love all looks of pussies might speak for most men, but i know many men who are repulsed at the site of darker edges on large lips or extraordinarily large lips in general. My husband didn't really have a preference before we got together but now he definitely has a preference.
I wish my clit were larger and pumping has helped with that. I've had many different feelings about my genitalia from good and bad based upon the opinions i've seen here.
Also, anatomy books show a prominant Pubis Mons, but i rarely see them. I have one and i've had a couple of guys notice it and love it, but the guys who like large outer labia are also mons lovers because they tend to go hand in hand.