Hugged by a Man

vegasnola

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sorry this has been a little dormant but I remembered seeing it and I had an experience that seemed appropriate...

Recently I went out with some friends from High School to one of the club/lounges in town, and we were on the guest list because another friend from HS worked there.

Anyway, it's been a few years since HS, and over a year since I saw two of the guys who were there. The one in the group, we greeted with a handshake, which I expected and it was clear that's where it would stop. No argument and I'm pretty used to it - it seems to be pretty much the guy-greeting in my circles, that OR the hand-shake/half-hug. Sometimes, I get just the hand shake, since I'm openly gay (and have been since HS).
Moving along- the friend who was working at the club, who I haven't seen in well over a year, spotted me at the club and very enthusiastically called out my name, and I was prepared for the handshake/half hug but he skipped right over the handshake and went for a full-on hug, with nearly full upper body contact... but then proceeded to greet the other males with the handshake/hug.
When we were leaving, we parted with a similar hug.

Granted, I'm not questioning that he's still, at least predominantly, hetero - but it was definitely nice (in a nonsexual way) to be greeted so warmly by a male-peer, especially because of our differences in orientation.
I guess it was extra special since I don't have a whole lot of male-bonding experiences, so when something rare like that happens, i like to hang on to it.

Sorry to be so long-winded, but I wanted to share. :)
 

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you should allway grab the persons ass when you hug them they really like that alot. and dont' forget teh slurpy spit dripping kiss that comes with it, yeah you my as well lift up his tail and sniff his ass while your down there too!! After you got him prepared properly you comence with the gang hand shake, unforunately you slip break dancing and knock youself out unconscious. When you come to your dancing to music with some curly haired guy in red anc white striped gym shorts. Hey I can say curly haired guy can't I.
 

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I've noticed that guys today are more open about hugging. I'm definately NOT complaining, but I have noticed something else. I have a male friend, who, when he hugs, presses his whole body into me. I haven't been able to tell if it is just with me or if it is hugging in general. He has a girlfriend, but I'm still wondering if the "frontal body hug" means more than just 'hey, stud. how's life?"...

Any thoughts? How do you people hug?

Dave


Dave--
You should be asking your male friend "What does it mean when he frontal hugs you?"
Ask him the next time he does it.