Humbled by penis extension

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I’ve been giving this some serious consideration. I’ve scoured the net for what looks to be my best option and on a couple of occasions have been a click away from ordering. My problem is I haven’t yet approached my wife with the idea.

We’re both in our late 30s and we have 3 kids, the youngest being of school starting age. As some of you know the whole bringing up a family thing can knock the best intentions of a sex life out of sight. So for some time after the birth of the 3rd we excepted that and fell into a pattern of little sex not very often! Mostly I’ll say her doing, but I’m not entirely blameless because I appeared to have find an inner strength to switch off my desires. Or push them down into a forgotten place.

Months at a time had gone by without sex, and just as much as we both knew its wrong and damaging for our relationship, we could not seem to re-light our passion. It came to a head on our anniversary trip a few months ago when we had a lovely weekend together but both admitted to each other we couldn’t be bothered to have sex. We were quite over full from eating but still it was a bit of an eye opener.

Time goes by and over the past couple of months I appear to have refound my desire. That forgotten place I spoke of would appear to have a space limit and no more could I push down my appetite. I took up the strangely familiar act of pesturing my wife for sex once again and she, with little effort re-invented her roll of harassed housewife to spurn my advances. But advance I did and on several occasions over the past weeks I have been successful, and though enjoyable, something appeared to be missing, a spark, her full commitment or enjoyment as it used to be.

She always needs to be pestered for sex, she never initiates it and of course this makes me question her attraction to me. We talk about this a lot and one thing I know is true is that we love each other. We are very much in love and that is not questionable. I’m no fool, we are childhood sweethearts. But as much as being childhood sweethearts sounds lovely and romantic it can also work against a couple I guess. I’ve only been with one other and it’s the same with her, just one lover.

I am now aware I’m rambling.

To the point I am assured that she still wants and needs me and that her only problem is her hormones and such lady things that should be discussed elsewhere. I totally believe her to but still I am left with ongoing spring of desire erupting from that forgotten place. We have talked about this so much and with the best intentions we both say we will reignite our sex lifes, but I am still left with doubt over my ability to fully pleasure her now that the years have taken their toll on her beautiful body. I am not big yet at I am not small. I hadn’t measured myself for some years but felt I should as a kind of initiation process for this thread/forum. My stats come in at 6.3 x 4 but this is truly on a good day and the very limit of my power. And obviously the 4 is a circumference witch I might guess is a little on the narrow side?

Anyway 3 kids and a dick that doesn’t grow with age adds up to an unfulfilled beautiful wife who has no real craiving or desire to have me inside her. This made me sad, and a bit desperate. I’ll admit the idea of a well hung man seeing to her needs is kind of a fantasy I’ve harboured for a long time, one that can turn me on in an instant but the actual act is one I would never want to happen. It’s a weird one indeed. Know other man should enjoy my women! So I find the world of sleeves and my eyes are well and truly opened.

I’ve been searching and reading reviews constantly for the past few days and I’m almost brimming with excitement at the thought of placing a nice big cock on my wife. This fantasy is truly a new one, the possibility of me being the wielder of the forbidden member and watching her face as she takes it is truly great. Only problem is she needs to be up for it. Now we’ve never discussed her thoughts on big cocks but I feel she would except one well, And probably love one, its not really an easy subject to bring up though. But I do feel something has to happen to save our sex life and having read your experiences, this could be just what we need to relight her fires.

There are stumbling blocks though. One being her opinion towards me wanting to fill her up with a fake penis. Could she find it emasculating towards me?? Another is could this awaken a beast inside her. One that sees her craving bigger men. No matter how much we love each other desire can be very powerful. Sorry for going on, why say in 50 words what can quite easily be said in 500 I ask? The sleeve I’ve been drawn to is the Tommy Gunn. Looks a good one but I’d love some opinion on it and all I’ve said here.. I thank you for reading.
 
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Yesterday I used a cyberskin transformer extension with my gf and I have to say that it was quite an education on the meaning of size.

Im actually pretty secure in my ability to please her, my size is around 7 inches, I dont think that Im big, but Im sure that Im big enough. I can get my girl to scream and bite me during sex, so the feedback seems positive. I didnt measure myself with the extension, but my length should be 11 inches with it and significantly thicker.

When I started to penetrate her I could immediately notice a difference in her reaction already due to the girth, she started to gyrate her hips, close her eyes and moan, I also noticed what they call 'cream' in the pornos, something I never see normally. When I started giving her more and more I could really tell she was enjoying herself. What really surprised me was that after a while I could thrust most of the length into her, I guess maybe 9 inches, she also went crazy when I just put it deep into her and gave her slow nudges, Ive never seen her in exstacy like that.

Dont get me wrong, Im not complaining at all, it was very hot to see her like this, I just had no idea how "open end" sexual pleasure is in terms of size. I always thought that most girls couldnt even take such a massive penis and that it would be bad to be "too big", I guess I was wrong.

Anyway, I highly recommend the product, she also said that it felt fairly real, she doesnt really like to use dildos because she says they feel too artificial.
This is so fucking depressing to me. I'm in the same boat, man.
 

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Hey guys, i have sent a pm to some members on this forum about penis extension/sleeve and would like to post it on here for other people to possibly help me out.

I would like to know what kind of penis extensions or sleeves you guys have/are using and maybe you can help me out with one I should get my wife.

I am about 6.5 erect nbp and about 5.5-5.75 girth wise. I want to buy a sleeve/extension that would mostly add length (about 2-3 inches) and little girth(about .5 - 1").

Which extension/sleeve should I get. my wife would like it to be firm and not flimsy.
 

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Holy shit, I know exactly what you're talking about. The extra girth is massive, she loves, loves it. I think she now loves my cock more than a vibrator. Honestly. This is what I bought:

Look at the 3rd picture!
Real Feel Vibrating Enhancer - Penis Extensions - SEX TOYS FOR MEN

You can see the girth effect it has. I've seen extensions before and always assumed they are for guys with tiny dicks, until I saw the photo and heard what it's really for. It is for more girth because women like a fire hydrant cock, they just don't tell you. Anyway, best 22$ I ever spent.
 

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Couples tell me often that they started playing with big dildos soon she -they want a real big cock

I don't completely agree. I have a realistic pocket pal that rivals a real woman in details & softness - but I still crave my lady's regular-ol housewife pussy. Nothing repalces the human. If women really do crave a big dick after using a big dildo - well they're just evil!
 

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Hey guys, i have sent a pm to some members on this forum about penis extension/sleeve and would like to post it on here for other people to possibly help me out.

I would like to know what kind of penis extensions or sleeves you guys have/are using and maybe you can help me out with one I should get my wife.

I am about 6.5 erect nbp and about 5.5-5.75 girth wise. I want to buy a sleeve/extension that would mostly add length (about 2-3 inches) and little girth(about .5 - 1").

Which extension/sleeve should I get. my wife would like it to be firm and not flimsy.
Well I'm just a little more in penis-dimensions.
I never had a problem to satisfy my bed-lovers. And I never felt the need for an extension.
At 5.75" midshaft girth, I 've now to penetrate carefully my 51-year old meno wife, or I can forget sex for weeks.
Before her meno, she could handle it - but not sure that she could it with an 0.5" more in girth. Even in lenght an +0.5" would give us then problems in certain positions.
Don't believe all the stories that the 8"x6" does the trick - it's just visually appealing and your wife isn't a porn-chick. And silicone or whatever will not get her hotter what dimension it is...it's just not you.
 
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If you use a silicone PPA with a stretchy ballstrap, such as Vixen Creations Colossus, the PPA is easy to put on and stays in place without fear of coming off, even during hard rapid plunging or with Kegel contractions, due to the combination of vacuum suction and the ball strap.

Many men who try the stiffer PPA's made of PVC (such as the 3 Extra Inches from TSX) describe the ballstrap as a torture device when trying to get your balls in place. Some give up and cut off the ballstrap and rely on only vacuum suction to keep it in place.

Manufacturers are coming out with more PPA's using ballstraps, many made of soft silicone; this is the wave of the future. I will never go back to the hard PPA's requiring a harness.

Silicone is much more expensive, but the benefits are that it will last forever, won't melt, stink or otherwise deteriorate over time; it is very safe, non-toxic, and non-porous (meaning it won't be a breeding ground for bacteria if properly cleaned); cleaning is easy--soap and water, or it can be boiled or put in the dishwasher (top rack); and, most importantly, my wife loves near life-like texture with the same amount of flexibility and "give" as a real penis.

Sorry for repeating myself on the benefits of silicone, but this is information that all users of sex products should understand.

If you have the type of extension that has a ball strap, just insert a full soda can in the ball strap between uses. It will make a tremendous difference. As I have very large balls, my extension would BEEN useless to me without this trick. This was something I learned from reading reviews.
 

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That's so cool, jingof. Please update after (if?) your wife has tried the Vixen. Good luck!

I can give an update on my own experience with the Vixen Colossus extension, although I am not the original poster.

I know that my wife likes big cocks, thanks to a previous lover who had a wrist thick member that made her come 100% of the time. With this in mind, and a more modest tool under my belt, I have tried to compensate with at least half a dozen extensions over the years. My wife liked none of them. Until the Colossus. (And thank God, because it was well over $100!)

Bottom line is, the others were too hard, or too spongy, or too this or that. The Colossus is the right material. It fits well on my slightly above average-sized penis, and makes my dick something like Billy Glide's or Remigio Zampa's; not overly long, but super-thick.

It is awesome for me, too. I love the feeling of power I get. And now when I wear it, she comes 100% of the time from penetration alone.
 

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to commanderblop:

I can report similar experiences with Vixen Creations Colossus and RxSleeve's custom fitted Monterrey and Solmar extensions (to which I have attached scrotal rings, so that they stay in place like the Colossus). All fit me perfectly and provide a wonderful feel and feedback from my wife during intercourse. Although my wife has never come from penetration (35+ years), she certainly enjoys the workout I give her with these PPA's, and she is so primed once I've finished, that it is a matter of seconds before she experiences her own explosive orgasms from clitoral stimulation. Before I started using extensions, my wife would take forever (and occasionally fail) to achieve what she thought were normal orgasms from clitoral stimulation. There is certainly something to be said for platinum silicone products; I will never have another extension made of any other material. And another great thing is that the platinum silicone PPA's never degrade, tear or stink. I keep waiting for that first tear and am prepared with a silicone adhesive--the same that I used to attach the scrotal rings. Well worth the initial high cost.
 

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Well I'm just a little more in penis-dimensions.
I never had a problem to satisfy my bed-lovers. And I never felt the need for an extension.
At 5.75" midshaft girth, I 've now to penetrate carefully my 51-year old meno wife, or I can forget sex for weeks.
Before her meno, she could handle it - but not sure that she could it with an 0.5" more in girth. Even in lenght an +0.5" would give us then problems in certain positions.
Don't believe all the stories that the 8"x6" does the trick - it's just visually appealing and your wife isn't a porn-chick. And silicone or whatever will not get her hotter what dimension it is...it's just not you.
my penis is not silicone or fake


real hot flesh
 

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I bought a Vixen Colossus several months ago and showed it to the wife. The time to use it never seemed to happen, but I would occasionally bring it up with comments like "I'm going to get you tipsy tonight and fuck you with that big cock." She likes me to talk dirty to her during foreplay and I would also slip in a story or two about a guy using one on his wife. Once I told her that I had a dream of fucking her with it. Before we married, she had lots of experience and had a long-term affair with a guy with a 10" dick (her words). She told me the first time they fucked, his heavy dick swayed back and forth slowly as he approached her as she was on the bed with her legs spread. She came immediately when he entered her pussy. So I knew she could take a big cock and love it.

Anyway, last night we had both had one too many glasses of wine. As we hit the bed, I spooned and started to play with her huge tits. Moving my hand to her pussy, I found it was drenched. She asked for a story and got herself off while I was pulling her nipples. She then let me go down on her, which almost never happens. Orgasm #2. I tried to fuck her but was just too wine-affected for it to work.

We both fell asleep but I woke at 4:30 AM with a huge hard-on. I thought "how long do I let her sleep before jumping on her?" Luckily, she stirred at 5:00 and I took the opportunity. I told her I was finally going to stretch her pussy out with the big cock. She said "first, tell me a story" and I did, while playing with her tits. Orgasm #3.

I got up and went into the bathroom to put on the sleeve. Plenty of lube, too. I would have loved to watch that big sleeve slide into her wet pussy, but it was dark. She asked me to go slow, as it hurt a bit initially. Pretty soon I could tell by the look on her face she was ready for some rhythmic stroking. I kept it slow and steady, gently pushing a bit deeper with each stroke. I told her to remember when she was getting fucked by her big-dicked friend. She was able to take about 6" and soon had a huge orgasm-- #4. I stopped and pushed it deep while she writhed on that big cock as her orgasm progressed. I needed to finally cum after so much playing, so took off the sleeve and proceeded to fuck her hard, deep and fast. Orgasm #5 for her and my first.

Her comment before we both fell asleep: "That was amazing-- it touched nerves behind my clit. It's so big. Will you use it again? We have to practice. My pussy is still tingling." In the morning: "My pussy is sore and I will be feeling it all day. It's a good sore."

I can't think of anything today but fucking her again tonight.
 

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While fucking her (no sleeve) last night, I asked if I should bring the toy on our upcoming overnight trip. That caused her to go over the edge and she orgasmed. Next morning while lying in bed, she brought it up unprompted: "That was good. I liked the pressure. We have to try it again."

My wife is a sexy orgasm machine with large tits and a gorgeous face. I will usually only be able to get off if I'm looking down on her face or envisioning it. Life is good.
 
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