- Ozel,
I’ve been giving this some serious consideration. I’ve scoured the net for what looks to be my best option and on a couple of occasions have been a click away from ordering. My problem is I haven’t yet approached my wife with the idea.
We’re both in our late 30s and we have 3 kids, the youngest being of school starting age. As some of you know the whole bringing up a family thing can knock the best intentions of a sex life out of sight. So for some time after the birth of the 3rd we excepted that and fell into a pattern of little sex not very often! Mostly I’ll say her doing, but I’m not entirely blameless because I appeared to have find an inner strength to switch off my desires. Or push them down into a forgotten place.
Months at a time had gone by without sex, and just as much as we both knew its wrong and damaging for our relationship, we could not seem to re-light our passion. It came to a head on our anniversary trip a few months ago when we had a lovely weekend together but both admitted to each other we couldn’t be bothered to have sex. We were quite over full from eating but still it was a bit of an eye opener.
Time goes by and over the past couple of months I appear to have refound my desire. That forgotten place I spoke of would appear to have a space limit and no more could I push down my appetite. I took up the strangely familiar act of pesturing my wife for sex once again and she, with little effort re-invented her roll of harassed housewife to spurn my advances. But advance I did and on several occasions over the past weeks I have been successful, and though enjoyable, something appeared to be missing, a spark, her full commitment or enjoyment as it used to be.
She always needs to be pestered for sex, she never initiates it and of course this makes me question her attraction to me. We talk about this a lot and one thing I know is true is that we love each other. We are very much in love and that is not questionable. I’m no fool, we are childhood sweethearts. But as much as being childhood sweethearts sounds lovely and romantic it can also work against a couple I guess. I’ve only been with one other and it’s the same with her, just one lover.
I am now aware I’m rambling.
To the point I am assured that she still wants and needs me and that her only problem is her hormones and such lady things that should be discussed elsewhere. I totally believe her to but still I am left with ongoing spring of desire erupting from that forgotten place. We have talked about this so much and with the best intentions we both say we will reignite our sex lifes, but I am still left with doubt over my ability to fully pleasure her now that the years have taken their toll on her beautiful body. I am not big yet at I am not small. I hadn’t measured myself for some years but felt I should as a kind of initiation process for this thread/forum. My stats come in at 6.3 x 4 but this is truly on a good day and the very limit of my power. And obviously the 4 is a circumference witch I might guess is a little on the narrow side?
Anyway 3 kids and a dick that doesn’t grow with age adds up to an unfulfilled beautiful wife who has no real craiving or desire to have me inside her. This made me sad, and a bit desperate. I’ll admit the idea of a well hung man seeing to her needs is kind of a fantasy I’ve harboured for a long time, one that can turn me on in an instant but the actual act is one I would never want to happen. It’s a weird one indeed. Know other man should enjoy my women! So I find the world of sleeves and my eyes are well and truly opened.
I’ve been searching and reading reviews constantly for the past few days and I’m almost brimming with excitement at the thought of placing a nice big cock on my wife. This fantasy is truly a new one, the possibility of me being the wielder of the forbidden member and watching her face as she takes it is truly great. Only problem is she needs to be up for it. Now we’ve never discussed her thoughts on big cocks but I feel she would except one well, And probably love one, its not really an easy subject to bring up though. But I do feel something has to happen to save our sex life and having read your experiences, this could be just what we need to relight her fires.
There are stumbling blocks though. One being her opinion towards me wanting to fill her up with a fake penis. Could she find it emasculating towards me?? Another is could this awaken a beast inside her. One that sees her craving bigger men. No matter how much we love each other desire can be very powerful. Sorry for going on, why say in 50 words what can quite easily be said in 500 I ask? The sleeve I’ve been drawn to is the Tommy Gunn. Looks a good one but I’d love some opinion on it and all I’ve said here.. I thank you for reading.
We’re both in our late 30s and we have 3 kids, the youngest being of school starting age. As some of you know the whole bringing up a family thing can knock the best intentions of a sex life out of sight. So for some time after the birth of the 3rd we excepted that and fell into a pattern of little sex not very often! Mostly I’ll say her doing, but I’m not entirely blameless because I appeared to have find an inner strength to switch off my desires. Or push them down into a forgotten place.
Months at a time had gone by without sex, and just as much as we both knew its wrong and damaging for our relationship, we could not seem to re-light our passion. It came to a head on our anniversary trip a few months ago when we had a lovely weekend together but both admitted to each other we couldn’t be bothered to have sex. We were quite over full from eating but still it was a bit of an eye opener.
Time goes by and over the past couple of months I appear to have refound my desire. That forgotten place I spoke of would appear to have a space limit and no more could I push down my appetite. I took up the strangely familiar act of pesturing my wife for sex once again and she, with little effort re-invented her roll of harassed housewife to spurn my advances. But advance I did and on several occasions over the past weeks I have been successful, and though enjoyable, something appeared to be missing, a spark, her full commitment or enjoyment as it used to be.
She always needs to be pestered for sex, she never initiates it and of course this makes me question her attraction to me. We talk about this a lot and one thing I know is true is that we love each other. We are very much in love and that is not questionable. I’m no fool, we are childhood sweethearts. But as much as being childhood sweethearts sounds lovely and romantic it can also work against a couple I guess. I’ve only been with one other and it’s the same with her, just one lover.
I am now aware I’m rambling.
To the point I am assured that she still wants and needs me and that her only problem is her hormones and such lady things that should be discussed elsewhere. I totally believe her to but still I am left with ongoing spring of desire erupting from that forgotten place. We have talked about this so much and with the best intentions we both say we will reignite our sex lifes, but I am still left with doubt over my ability to fully pleasure her now that the years have taken their toll on her beautiful body. I am not big yet at I am not small. I hadn’t measured myself for some years but felt I should as a kind of initiation process for this thread/forum. My stats come in at 6.3 x 4 but this is truly on a good day and the very limit of my power. And obviously the 4 is a circumference witch I might guess is a little on the narrow side?
Anyway 3 kids and a dick that doesn’t grow with age adds up to an unfulfilled beautiful wife who has no real craiving or desire to have me inside her. This made me sad, and a bit desperate. I’ll admit the idea of a well hung man seeing to her needs is kind of a fantasy I’ve harboured for a long time, one that can turn me on in an instant but the actual act is one I would never want to happen. It’s a weird one indeed. Know other man should enjoy my women! So I find the world of sleeves and my eyes are well and truly opened.
I’ve been searching and reading reviews constantly for the past few days and I’m almost brimming with excitement at the thought of placing a nice big cock on my wife. This fantasy is truly a new one, the possibility of me being the wielder of the forbidden member and watching her face as she takes it is truly great. Only problem is she needs to be up for it. Now we’ve never discussed her thoughts on big cocks but I feel she would except one well, And probably love one, its not really an easy subject to bring up though. But I do feel something has to happen to save our sex life and having read your experiences, this could be just what we need to relight her fires.
There are stumbling blocks though. One being her opinion towards me wanting to fill her up with a fake penis. Could she find it emasculating towards me?? Another is could this awaken a beast inside her. One that sees her craving bigger men. No matter how much we love each other desire can be very powerful. Sorry for going on, why say in 50 words what can quite easily be said in 500 I ask? The sleeve I’ve been drawn to is the Tommy Gunn. Looks a good one but I’d love some opinion on it and all I’ve said here.. I thank you for reading.
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