Humiliating the boyfriend

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  1. sallysummers86

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    Hi I'm new here and just got into humiliating my boyfriend about his size. I'm not sure his exact measurements but he's definitely under 6 inches and is on the skinnier side. I'm 24 and he's 25. His flacid size is so small sometimes it's really funny.

    The other day I convinced him to go to a communal hot tub and sauna place. It's standard to go naked in them and I talked him into it even though he didn't want to. My true motivation was to have him see how much smaller he was then everyone else, and maybe flirt with a bigger man right in front of him, or just stare at it(so he could see how much i prefer them). At first I was dissapointed becuase it was a few old guys who didnt have much down there, but then when we were alone for a few minutes in walked a man. The guy was hot and had exactly what i was looking for. His dick was hanging so full and nice, and my boyfriend's dick paled in comparison. my boyfriend's looked like his shrunk even smaller than normal. I started with a few stares, and eventually started up a conversation with him. I spread my legs a few times and you could tell i was getting wet. the big guy got a boner and it was a sight. I wanted to grab it right there, but restrained. I complimented him on his size and he blushed, and my boyfriend got up and left the sauna. I went after him and played dumb and just made it seem like i was just impressed and had never seen anything like that before. I hope to continue these teases.
     
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    What exactly was the point in doing something like that? Are you trying to get dumped?
     
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    This is going to end badly.
     
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    Unless your boyfriend is into humiliation and it's been discussed previously, that is a VERY bad idea. How would you feel if he did that to another woman who was hotter or had a better body or larger breasts? Put yourself in his shoes. If not, I agree with the two posters above me. You will end up with a lot of free time on your hands...alone.
     
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    so tell us why your bf is your bf? what if anything do you like about him?
     
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    The op's post sounds to me like it's written by a guy who's into small penis humiliation. It's a surprisingly common theme, and it often gets aired here in the hope of attracting some humiliating comments.

    I'm not quite sure how I feel about this stuff. Obviously, a lot of guys get off on the idea of being humiliated. I don't think many girls think like this.
     
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    Agree with Riven650.
    I never even knew SPH exsisted before I read about it here. Must be one of those fetishes that has sprouted since the WWW started.
     
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    I just want to take this chance to state i miss you Mademoiselle Rouge, i somehow expected a post form you in here after reading the opening.
     
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    Agreed!:wink:
     
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    absolutely. either he is a guy who is really messed up or a woman who is extremely messed up. castration could be a cure...:rolleyes:
     
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    --WARNING: I like Small Penis Humiliation. This advice is purely instructional and not for masturbation--

    I'm sure there are some girls who get off on verbally dominating a man in a sexual fashion.

    And this is one of my favourite fetishes.
    I don't make posts like this, but if I didn't know where to get this kind of humiliation porn I might turn to this.

    Anyway, to the Poster:

    If you haven't talked with your boyfriend about this fetish, it's going to be a touchy subject. Judging your boyfriend you needta figure out how to phrase it: You could say "I have fantasy about getting fucked by a bigger penis." which is nicer than saying "you have a tiny dick and I wanna make fun of you"
    Just use your best judgement and try not to hurt his feelings.

    I was the one who tried to get my ex into this, sometimes she went for it other times she didn't go for it. Sometimes she straight up told me she didn't want to do it because my dick was so big it made her feel weird. But I was cool with that.

    Buy a dildo and have him use it on you. So whenever he's using it on you and you start getting close try to have him dirty talk you about getting fucked by a big dick, and then move into the actual [fucking of someone else] slowly.

    If you have already talked to your boyfriend about it and he's game then go and have fun and don't get arrested.

    Something else though:

    A few times whenever my ex and I had sex I would make her come and she'd let me pick how I wanna cum [e.i., cumming in her mouth, on her stomach, etc.] and a few times I laid down and let her fuck me reverse cowgirl so I could watch her fat ass moving up and down while she told me how many better dicks she's had.

    This is fine and dandy and I know it's all fake, but a few times she started off the session like that and it was kinda hurtful. You hafta be in the mood.

    But like I said earlier: I have a big dick and my ex didn't wanna humiliate me most of the time because of it[actually of all the people I've asked to humiliate me, my ex was the only one who would sometimes, everyone else said it was too big., and straight up said no. We had good sex, just no SPH]

    So just remember if you really wanna get into small penis humiliation you need to have a boyfriend or friend with a small penis; so don't be mean to them unless you know they're ready to accept your punishments and sarcasms.

    That's what I think anyway.

    Marc
     
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    If your story is true, that's really mean. Your possibly gona give this poor guy a sexual anxiety problem when in reality he probably has normal equipment.

    Well if it's true I hope he dumps you for someone who appreciates his cock. I hope you find a guy with a large cock and he shoves it the fuck down your throat and gives you the "angry dragon" and then never calls you back...
     
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    agree if this event is true and the boyfriend wasnt in on why he was there, that is very cruel not mention a little on the crazy side, why on earth would you set up the person you are supposed to be in love with....what a bitch!
     
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    I hate shit like this. If it is true, which I doubt, it is just mean.
     
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    Got two words for ya: LITHIUM CARBONATE.
     
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    I am sure that disclaimer will let the wankers stay away, well done
     
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    Sorry I really don't like SPH & don't see the pint in it at all. I would never treat someone like that & would hate it if I had a small penis & someone treated me like that.
    I'm not into hurting people emotionally.
    I bet most guys who participate in this really don't like it even if they say they do.
    I can't respect people that do this to others SPH is bull shit in my opinion. people who are into SPH must have some kind of mental disorder
     
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    Um you sound like an absolute douchebag.
     
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    Ok this is just wrong on many levels. First of all, SPH has been around long before the WWW but it was unground and most had to seek out professionals in order to receive it. It was, and is still taboo.

    This is no different from many other fetishes I have encounter in my years as a Domme. I, personally, am not into degradation or humiliation. I have done it a few times during sessions, but I will often refuse to do sessions for people who purely want that. SPH is mild compared to some of the other things people like.

    One of the main things you have to remember is...it is consentual when men seek it out! Doing it to someone when it isn't wanted or warranted is cruel and emotionally harmful on the end of both parties.

    If they say they like it, they do. It is a coping mechanism for many men who can not do anything to change their physical state of having a smaller penis. Often is true with cuckolding.

    How dare you insult those who dish it out when it is consentual! How dare you say the other person has a mental disorder! Different Strokes for different folks. If it actually makes them feel like someone wants them, even if to make fun of them, then let them be happy. It gives them a purpose. We all cope with things we cannot change in different ways. Just because something may not be as mainstream as others does not mean it is not useful and beneficial to someone. I am sure there are a lot of people you meet everyday that harbor fantasies and fetishes within themselves. You would probably not approve of many of them. However, knowing what you do know should give you a better understanding of that person and the realization we are all different individuals. We are not all like you.
     
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    Unless your bf is into humilation and cukholding, then what your doing is wrong.
     
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