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What if I ask a girl if she wants to make fun of how small I am? I am about 3 times average volume.
Humiliating the boyfriend
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why would people be in a relationship with people they don't like or want
this continues to blow my mind despite how disturbingly common it seems.
this continues to blow my mind despite how disturbingly common it seems.
That seems to be quite common, i remember this guy telling me showing off nude pics of their girls to friends is what guys do. And if i don't do it i am the exception and if i don't think most guys do it i am blind.
However i trust women to keep certain things personal, i know a few girls have talked to their friends about the sex we had, but i hope and believe that it was rather general and does not included certain details. When i sleep with a girl i don't expect to expose myself to all her friends and wouldn't like that one bid.
SO kudos to you and all the girls that are not so immature.
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I totally agree with Petite. IRL I have never told any of my friends about my boyfriends size. I do have one friend that tells me details, but shes not in a serious relantionship with any of those guys and I'm not going to tell anyone else about their sizes even if she tells me. And I would NEVER EVER want to have sex with someone one of my friends had sex with. I could care less what secret was shared with me. The whole idea just revolts me. So I have never sat around discussing who I want to have sex with. I only want to have sex with someone I love, I don't really care about what she said/ he said about his penis. I would also never try to humiliate any lover I had over any part of their body it just does nothing for me.
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That was my first impression, too, and it seems to be borne out by the responses this thread's received, both pro and con.
I really don't think that this is the case, presuming there's anything genuine in the OP whatsoever (and that's quite an assumption). There are lots of people who enjoy humiliation of one degree or another as part of the sexual play. It's an item on my sexual menu and will use it, in the proper context and at the proper moment as required. This is especially an issue when looking to "up the ante" after a several-hour-long edging session.
About two years ago I met a guy online who drove about 30 miles to come play with me. He knew in advance, based on my profile and during our conversation before he left, that I was looking for a rough, extended encounter, and after about 3.5 hours had gone through enough of my bags of tricks to know that I had reached his physical limits but not his emotional ones yet, as the entire encounter had been enjoyable but, at least from his perspective, curiously detached emotionally.
"Upping the ante" in this case involved what would be genuine humiliation, not anything scripted or play-acting, but completely real. I tried putting on straight gang-bang porn (which I knew he'd find distasteful) and I tried limiting our physical contact, which frustrated him but didn't really humiliate him. I tried all manner of casual insults into his demeanor and appearance, and that got him a little fired up but hardly where I needed him to break the plateau and transcend the action toward something more intense and meaningful for him.
In a last-ditch effort (and as an afterthought, really), I began spitting on him as I was fucking him. The effect was as if I'd flipped a switch and, finally, I was getting the emotional response I was looking for. Combining insults with the spitting (chest, neck, face everywhere except the eyes) worked like magic. He burst into (real, not faked) tears, implored me to make him my bitch and we both came nearly simultaneously.
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do
But it got to be consensual, and that was not the case here.
Besides that i agree with you, and there is the possibility, assuming that the OP is genuine, that it maybe is not so much about the size of the dick as it is about her enjoying the power, and the guilt of her being mean and humiliating.
Besides that i agree with you, and there is the possibility, assuming that the OP is genuine, that it maybe is not so much about the size of the dick as it is about her enjoying the power, and the guilt of her being mean and humiliating.
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As I said above, I sincerely doubt that the OP is anything other than SPH wank material (and not especially imaginative wank fodder at that). But presuming that it was based on something that might have really happened, you're right: it's cruel and not at all consensual.
Personally I find anything sexual that is non-consensual to be somewhere on the scale of rape: all about power, not sex. And yes: I believe that rape can be 99.9% emotional without any real physicality involved.
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Seriously Sally. I don't know if you're a troll or what. But that's harsh.
You've obviously had a bad upbringing. Why do you feel the need to make it known to him that he's small? That's really harsh.
I'm done with a girl who didn't humiliate me like that, but she did say that me, with a 6 inch girth, was so much thinner than her ex and that she enjoys his penis most for sex pretty much. I know how it feels.
You wouldn't like it if you were a guy with a small dick and was made to feel inferior to another man.
Men go for women who can really remind them of how much of a man they are/can be. When we choose serious partners, we choose people who will help us acheive our human potential as a male.
You have issues I believe.
I'm always careful not to show off my size to other males either, becuase I don't want them to feel low about themselves, it's a dark, opressive state.
Don't humiliate people like that, seriously.
Uhhh....I like your stories! I don't know whether to run away or take you out for a beer.In a last-ditch effort (and as an afterthought, really), I began spitting on him as I was fucking him. The effect was as if I'd flipped a switch and, finally, I was getting the emotional response I was looking for. Combining insults with the spitting (chest, neck, face everywhere except the eyes) worked like magic. He burst into (real, not faked) tears, implored me to make him my bitch and we both came nearly simultaneously.
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do
SPH is a blast. I like humiliating men even if they are hung. It's actually more fun than with small dicked guys.
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