How does that work?
A girl I know told her boyfriend that his penis was too big. She said her ex was smaller, so he always hit the perfect spot and gave her a lot more orgasms.
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How does that work?
A girl I know told her boyfriend that his penis was too big. She said her ex was smaller, so he always hit the perfect spot and gave her a lot more orgasms.
I have said that TheBF's penis was too big before. More than a few times I've said "Damn you and your giant cock!" in a joking tone of voice, but with just a little bit of seriousness the next day, although I did not compare him to any previous lovers or discuss their ability to please me, which is beyond tacky! The thing is, even when his cock is literally hurting me at this very second, or when I use any words that mean that it's "too big," it still makes him smile with pride, which always irritates me, especially if I'm having a hard time sitting down the day after and I'm sitting on a bag of frozen peas . I don't think he should be proud of making my special place sore. :frown1:
I guess that's a better reaction than getting annoyed at me for having a small vagina or getting upset at me that I criticized his penis, though. :33:
I think it's hard for him to complain after I let him pound me so hard. :smile:
I don't feel proud when my girlfriend complains that I'm hurting her. It takes some of the fun away because I don't like the thought of hurting her. Also, it usually means that I'm going too deep, and I love thrusting hard and deep.
I shouldn't have used the word "proud" because it's more complicated than that. He's incredibly gentle with me, so gentle that I often think that he doesn't need to be (and sometimes I'm really wrong about that, as I find out when I'm not aroused any more and I'm a lot more sore than I expected I would be). He could easily hurt me a lot, which he tries his best to avoid doing, and that gentleness that is part of his nature is part of why I adore him.
However, it's still a backhanded compliment whenever I complain that his cock is too big or I react to it, even though I didn't intend it to be a compliment, and it's probably just a juvenile reaction that my "compliment" triggered that goes all the way back to grade school or junior high or something and makes him get a goofy grin on his face, and that makes me roll my eyes.
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Why are you apologising and sucking him off if youre now considering dumping him? If this is a quality bit of trolling then fine but otherwise you seem very messed up. If this isnt a wind up I sincerely hope your poor bf finds someone better. I'd also be very careful in future who you treat like this, some other men are not as placid as your bf sounds.
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In a last-ditch effort (and as an afterthought, really), I began spitting on him as I was fucking him. The effect was as if I'd flipped a switch and, finally, I was getting the emotional response I was looking for. Combining insults with the spitting (chest, neck, face everywhere except the eyes) worked like magic. He burst into (real, not faked) tears, implored me to make him my bitch and we both came nearly simultaneously.
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do
Wow... you need to come to NC and teach a class, assuming it's possible for others to learn how to read people that way. Seriously... wow.
This is beyond me. My husband isn't large, but I would never humiliate him like that. I wouldn't treat anyone that way, in fact...
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I'm not sure how well it can be "taught". It's a combination of knowing what to expect and experience in making it happen. In the case of the guy I posted about above, I'm not sure he came looking specifically for humiliation per se, though I do know he was looking for a take-charge, dominant top. He really was giving me signals to up the ante, but nothing verbal, so I improvised.
I have, however, serial-dated a few other genuine humiliation bottoms; after four or five encounters there's really nowhere else to go except onward, away, alone. It's highly challenging to humiliate and/or degrade someone who's looking for it, especially if he isn't creative or bright enough to come up with something original. I have no interest in tired role play devoid of "the real".
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