Humiliation Sex

[Derringer]

My sph fetish has been quite beneficial not just for my own kicks but also my current girlfriend and a couple of former gfs.
Because of it (and my tiny penis) I am very much into mmf threesomes and foursomes with other couples. My female partners get great satisfaction from the sex with the much better endowed guys and I enjoy watching them outman me and pleasure her. Of course the other guy involved feels more alpha ( even the hitherto more beta types) I love it when a woman sees my tiny cock compared to even average size guys let alone well endowed.

 

[Illbeg4BigCock]

I'm not into humiliation that much but I like a guy to be a dominate top. I really love the feeling of not having control and totally submitting. If he's playful and a little rude, not necessarily disrespecting me, just bossing me around and not letting me have a say in anything. That's super hot.
I love if he's holding me by the neck while he's jerking his big cock off, his big swollen head right in my face bouncing around. I'll get a little anxious because I know what's coming soon, but I know that I have no control over the situation. I love if he'll say the following to me:

"I'm gonna nut in your mouth. You're going to eat my sperm bro ok? You ready?"
"Damn you like dick huh? You like tasting semen hmm? You fucking faggot, you're gonna get a big load in your mouth."
"Fuck man, I'm close, you ready to eat it? Eat it all alright? Don't pussy out"
*Moaning* "Ohh yeahh, ohh swallow it man, swallow my load bro ahhh"

No way to explain the feeling of hearing these words while at the same time feeling a big throbbing penis head at the front of your mouth shooting out all that hot, thick nut into your mouth, all that salty, bitter, spermy taste coating your tongue and going down your throat.

I love being talked to like that. Yep- he’s making something special just for me to eat.

 

[wayless]

Once he has cummed, he is very sweet and kind to me and always asks if I am ok. For me the most important aspect, is that there is absolute total respect outside of sex at all times. If anything I have all the power and control, but why play games, when we are both completely sexually satisfied with each other?

Sounds like "how it should be" in a dominant / submissive relationship.

As a submissive in both gay and hetero relationships, I"ve always been disappointed that the dominants were the opposite from what you describe.

They would want to "institutionalize" my lower status after they "came" from a dominant act, often both verbally and physically.

 

[bi2]

Sounds like "how it should be" in a dominant / submissive relationship.

As a submissive in both gay and hetero relationships, I"ve always been disappointed that the dominants were the opposite from what you describe.

They would want to "institutionalize" my lower status after they "came" from a dominant act, often both verbally and physically.

Ive been fortunate that I have a male partner, that while he enjoys the role playing of being dominant, aggressive and humilating me during sex, once he cums a sense of "normality" returns. From my perspective, I enjoy and crave the role playing as it fuels our sexual encounters. While he never crosses boundaries with me, but I suspect if he was doing what he does with me with a woman, there would be issues.

 

[RareD]

It's interesting with all these responses that I can't find a good thread for verbal porn on here, straight, gay or otherwise. Maybe I didn't search long enough or it will enough but the thread had me interested to watch some humiliation in action.

 

[wayless]

While he never crosses boundaries with me, but I suspect if he was doing what he does with me with a woman, there would be issues.

I was talking about a submissive being dominated by a man and also a woman (not at same time necessarily), not a dominant man dominating a man, then a woman. I don't think there is that much difference. They don't call male submissives a "sissy" or "bitch" for nothing.

 

[wayless]

once he cums a sense of "normality" returns

When I tried to talk as an equal afterwards to one dominant, he slapped my ass hard and said, "Cut the bull, you are just a cocksucker. You just got thru gagging on my cock."

I enjoyed that at first, but he never relented. Others were similar, but not as extreme.

 

[bi2]

When I tried to talk as an equal afterwards to one dominant, he slapped my ass hard and said, "Cut the bull, you are just a cocksucker. You just got thru gagging on my cock."

I enjoyed that at first, but he never relented. Others were similar, but not as extreme.

I dont think humiliation sex is for everyone. Im sorry he treated you like that after sex.

For me, my partner knows that during sex, we take up roles and he knows what the boundaries are. Outside of sex, I definitely would not handle or stand for being disrespected in any manner. Its not something we have discussed, its just something he knows, I know. Its not acknowledged, but we know.

I think also being mentally happy within oneself is important, otherwise humilation sex could make you feel rather negative about the way you feel, before, during and after.

For me, when I am humiliated or degraded during MM sex, it amplifies my enjoyment and pleasure. If anything, afterwards I feel a bit embarassed and laugh to myself if I think about it but more so because I enjoy it so much, we then go our seperate ways till we next hook up.

 

[Dom Master]

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[johnweek1]

Not really into it with with women, but I am into it a bit with guys. Like don't turn it up to 10, but I enjoy a combination of "bad boy" with dirty talk and minor humiliation followed up by a little bit of tenderness weaved in from my male partners. When I was younger I had a straight guy sometimes sneak into my room and let me give him head. He was such a blond haired cutie!

His dick was a lot larger than mine and he used to make comments about how his is bigger and better, or call me names in the moment like gay or fag, which I loved! He would follow it up every time by saying nice things to me shortly after, or ask me if I am ok with everything and to make sure I am not upset, scared or offended; really appreciated how sweet he was about that since it was just for fun in the moment and he had my consent.

Like he could get rough and call me all sorts of homophobic names sometimes, but I was ok with it and he made sure I was too, every step of the way. He also made sure to compliment me or say sweet things to me to make me smile. He was a total sweet heart truth be told, loved seeing that aggressive side of him when we were having our secret get togethers, and I genuinely appreciated how in tune he was with all of that, and how important consent was to him even though I was a closeted bi and he could taken advantage of my secret and me at any point. He was also dramatically stronger and could have easily overpowered me against my will at any point, but he only ever did so with consent in the moment.

Though on the topic of women, I am also into cucking with women. Like I enjoy open relationships or sharing, and learning about the huge dick my gf had fucked, or how much better he felt then me. That stuff I like with women, but otherwise, not into it with women in the same way as I am with the bros.

 

[wayless]

His dick was a lot larger than mine and he used to make comments about how his is bigger and better, or call me names in the moment like gay or fag, which I loved! He would follow it up every time by saying nice things to me shortly after, or ask me if I am ok with everything and to make sure I am not upset, scared or offended; really appreciated how sweet he was about that since it was just for fun in the moment and he had my consent.

Maybe that's not rare, but never happened with me with either men or women.

They wanted to make sure I was offended and humiliated afterwards.

 

[bi2]

For me at least, for someone who likes and is routinely humilated during sex, its really how you feel before, during, after and also much much after.

Before, I am excited and cant wait.
During, I love and enjoy it.
After, I regret that we finished and wished it went for longer.
Much After, I often fantasize and think about it and look back and miss and want it.

I think also why I am so comfortable, is that my fuckbuddy is always and very respectful towards me outside of sex, its unspoken, but I couldnt handle it outside of sex. Not to mention, sometimes when we have sex, we "make love", by this I mean, sometimes the sex is very passionate and there is no humilation or no him being dominant and aggressive, I guess in some ways this also reassures me of what he really thinks of us fucking.

 

[dimru]

Once I met a guy who fucked me several times during the evening, the sex was intense, he asked me if you like to be fucked, when I said yes, he fucked even more intensely. When I came home the next day, masturbated and cum I experienced a very strong humiliation, I cried I couldn't believe I let him fuck me like that. I had an experience of more than 3 years, there was a man, and still I felt humiliated and ashamed. Then I didn’t want to meet him for a long time, I was scared. But then we met again and again. Had group sex several times, me and two guys. Humiliation liberated me. When I knelt in front of the guy and said that I want to suck his cock and that he can fuck me like a whore, I saw that he became happy, his eyes shone. It's so cool. I'm just learning English, so I can't write beautifully about feelings. It's a pity. We felt each other, and everyone knew what to do, it was great. After sex, he hugged me, said that he likes me, it's so cute.

 

[Dutch1984]

With men I like to give the humiliation/dirty, degrading talk. With women I like to give and love to receive it.

I like dirty talk/degradation so much I almost require it to get hard. That's probably a problem waiting to happen, but so far I don't care.

 

[bi2]

With men I like to give the humiliation/dirty, degrading talk. With women I like to give and love to receive it.

I like dirty talk/degradation so much I almost require it to get hard. That's probably a problem waiting to happen, but so far I don't care.

I tend to find I enjoy anal and oral a lot more when there is humilation and degradation taking place, for me its all part of the sexual and emotional experience. My fuckbuddy and I are both adults and consenting, so its very much of a case of him needing to give it to me and me wanting to receive it.

 

[DaddyInMissionViejo]

What is humiliation sex

It's when you humiliate someone during sex

 

[bi2]

It's when you humiliate someone during sex

Or in my case when someone humilates you.

I dont think its for everyone. You have to feel mentally comfortable with everything before, during and after.

 

[DaddyInMissionViejo]

Or in my case when someone humilates you.

I dont think its for everyone. You have to feel mentally comfortable with everything before, during and after.

Yeah I get it

 

[bi2]

Yeah I get it
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For me its a major driver that fuels my sexual pleasure, which is ironic as I am the one thats being humilated. But being made to feel this way, really drives into my feminine side and makes me feel submissive and obedient. So naturally it mentally and psychologically relaxes me and allows me to enjoy the sex a lot more.

Fortunatley my partner enjoys doing the humiliating so he gets to engage in dominant, aggressive and "hurtful" Alpha male activity that he could never ever do with his wife.

 

[dimru]

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I thought that I was less degraded
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