Hi
I don't know precisely where to post my question and whom to address it to. I suspect that there have been more than one thread about this issue, so I may be harping on the same string over and over again. Anyway here it goes...
I primarily chose my avatar because I have recently started go to a gym, and so bodybuilding is one of my growing interests these days. I don't think I will be able to go as far as my avatar, but I will leave untouched whether he uses steroids or not. Stereoids are not for me. Yet, this man is a "role model" for me, and I honestly would like to look like him in his full masculinity. I am trying, I am really trying hard, lol.
But there is a hidden agenda here. I also feel erotically aroused by his figure. I not only want to be like him, but also would like to be close to him, if you see what I mean. Let's not be innocent here: even the straight can hardly feel unmoved by this man's powerful presence.
My obvious question is: when you choose a human avatar, such a muscled man, a stud, or a bodybuilder, are you also recognizing or admitting (I don't mean to discriminate, but this question is basically directed to the "straight") in a non-verbal way your same-sex attraction? Or in other words, does wanting to be like someone imply that you are sexually attracted to them? By the way, attractions are attractions. It doesn't mean that you are going to act upon them.
You can have a larger view of this man here: http://ca.groups.yahoo.com/group/Shirtlessmale/
I don't know precisely where to post my question and whom to address it to. I suspect that there have been more than one thread about this issue, so I may be harping on the same string over and over again. Anyway here it goes...
I primarily chose my avatar because I have recently started go to a gym, and so bodybuilding is one of my growing interests these days. I don't think I will be able to go as far as my avatar, but I will leave untouched whether he uses steroids or not. Stereoids are not for me. Yet, this man is a "role model" for me, and I honestly would like to look like him in his full masculinity. I am trying, I am really trying hard, lol.
But there is a hidden agenda here. I also feel erotically aroused by his figure. I not only want to be like him, but also would like to be close to him, if you see what I mean. Let's not be innocent here: even the straight can hardly feel unmoved by this man's powerful presence.
My obvious question is: when you choose a human avatar, such a muscled man, a stud, or a bodybuilder, are you also recognizing or admitting (I don't mean to discriminate, but this question is basically directed to the "straight") in a non-verbal way your same-sex attraction? Or in other words, does wanting to be like someone imply that you are sexually attracted to them? By the way, attractions are attractions. It doesn't mean that you are going to act upon them.
You can have a larger view of this man here: http://ca.groups.yahoo.com/group/Shirtlessmale/
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