I'm happy that you're able to live a happy life despite your disability, but you shouldn't be proud of having a small penis. You can be proud of running marathons or being sucessful with women, but you should never be proud of having a small penis. You should only be proud of good things, like accomplishments or mental/physical traits that make you superior to others. You can't be proud of something that makes you inferior, like a small cock.
i think i understand your point, but you're using very strong and hurtful words ("failure") that probably distract most people while reading.
being small doesn't automatically mean you are a failure. but life is most probably harder with a 4 incher than with a 7-8 inch dick and you will need a lot of courage and mental strenght to overcome the fact, that you can't change what you got and you HAVE to accept it.
if you achieve this, you can call yourself a wise and strong person and you can be proud of this. BUT it doesn't mean you are proud of your small penis itself, i'm with you on that. it means you are proud of YOURSELF, that you doesn't let your small dick stopping you from achieving things.
from what i've read so far, SHR must be a very brave person, he lives a fulfilled life (something that many only dream about, regardless of dicksize) and that is definitely something to be proud of.
he says: "I don't let the fact that I have a short, thin cock keep me from dancing with women; I don't let my small cock keep me from flirting with women at bars; I don't let my small cock keep me from asking those women out."
but being proud of having a small cock would be more like (even if it sounds funny):
"i dance with women because(!) i have a small dick, i'm flirting with women because(!) i have a small dick, i'm asking those women out because(!) i have a small dick."
thats proud, the other one is accepting a fact (which is also admirable). but thats just my opinion.
i'm on the shorter side of average myself and i'm ok with it but i can't say i'm proud of being smaller.
i know its a fictional example that will never happen in real life, still, just play with this thought for a second: if a little fairy would ask you one day if you would want to have an extra inch, what would you honestly say?
the answer for the guys who are actually proud of their small penis should be "no", right? because why would you change something you are proud of?
i admit, i would say yes without hesitation.
cheers,
pom