Hung buddy w my girl

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She was pissed because you were talking about her like an object. If you want to keep your girl - any girl for that matter - you should respect her more in the future.

As for the threesome idea, you may find it hot but she might not. Just ask her about it and see what happens. If she says no though it is a no and you should respect that. If you still really want a threesome break up with her and find somebody willing, but don't do it while you are in the relationship!

(I shouldn't need to specify the last part but just to check)

Good luck buddy.
 

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Funny how people on-line would prefer be perceived as a moronic retard rather than a "grammer (sic) nazi."

Please note that this is a generalization directed at all humans, so don't get all butt-hurt on me. :p
 

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I can only speak for myself (obviously). If it were me? It would break my heart to find out my boyfriend was willing to pass me around sexually. That pain would transition relatively quickly to anger. Fuckin furious more like it. There is no way I'd be able to stay in that relationship.

I've never understood the "sharing" thing. Not if you're in love anyway. If its just a friend you happen to fuck every once in awhile? Go for it! (I have yet to have a friend like that lol!) So anyway... Yeah. I think ya done fucked up son!
 

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Confused. How is preferring to communicate in a mature understandable manner considered pretentious? I don't think kids are allowed on this site.

The fact that you think being mature coincides with punctuation is confusing to me. It just really wasn't that difficult to understand and if you didn't, there is always the option of skipping over it.
 

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I do love her but not sure to drop the hole ideal or not. My buddy has been over to the house drinking and hanging out now more then ever. I got home from work and they were out back sitting drinking. So I'm kinda confused if she was really mad or upset why have him here?
 

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Well just a guess...maybe she figures that since you don't really care to the point that you offer her around, she will do you one better but on her terms and stick it to you.
Again, just an opinion, but I would really examine the 'buddy status. you accord this guy. He isn't any friend of yours as you may come to realize when your girl rides off on his pole and you get to wave goodbye to both.
 

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I do love her but not sure to drop the hole ideal or not. My buddy has been over to the house drinking and hanging out now more then ever. I got home from work and they were out back sitting drinking. So I'm kinda confused if she was really mad or upset why have him here?

Maybe he told her that he's bigger and she's trying to hurt you because she's angry?

TALK TO HER, relationships need communication!!
 

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So... people who swing or have open relationships... they don't care nor love their partners? :confused:

Not everyone has the same mental views on things. Some people could do open/swing, some can't. Doesn't mean one set group cares for their partners more than the other, it's just something they're into.
 

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Very true D22, but regardless of your "openness" whether you're into monogamy or polygamy. Communication is the key to any long term relationship.

iminnyhere needs to talk to his girlfriend and find out what she's thinking and how she's feeling.
 

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So... people who swing or have open relationships... they don't care nor love their partners? :confused:

Not everyone has the same mental views on things. Some people could do open/swing, some can't. Doesn't mean one set group cares for their partners more than the other, it's just something they're into.

You are absolutely right D-22. A couple with an open relationship is NOT better or worse than a couple that is not in an open relationship. As long as everyone is happy, communicating and safe.

It comes down to compatibility and communication. Both of which I think is lacking in the OP's relationship here.
 

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Ok so last night , we will call my hung buddy joe and me and my girl, Tracy all got drunk joes all over her wrestling with her talking about this girl he had sex with the night before. How she thought he was big and he made her moan and scream the hole time. Then he just told Tracy he wants her, and were all just hanging out. She said no but was cool all night with him and he went on about being big and wanting a 3 sum. End of night he left I went bed and we you know sexed for a while. Do I keep having joe try? Or
 

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How did she see the text? did you show her it?Sounds like you gave your buddy permission to try and have sex with her.What did you want her to say,,lets have a threesome with your hung buddy?You would probably like it to happen because the penis brain don!t care, woman don!t think the same way guys or some guys do, tell her it was a joke, unless she wants to break up to go with the hung penis.Or maybe you have sex with the hung penis and let her watch!!!
 

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Ok so my buddy hes 22 good looking always jokes about my girl, sex stuff about 3 months ago I find out he's hung so joking texting me he wants do my girl I'm like yeah ok have fun lol he stopped by she saw the text and is now mad at me wants break up. But still kinda hot and can't help but think how it would be lol

Learn to punctuate. Deciphering your post was pretty difficult.

I don't think punctuation is the problem. I think it's a general lack of command of the English language.
 

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How did she see the text? did you show her it?Sounds like you gave your buddy permission to try and have sex with her.What did you want her to say,,lets have a threesome with your hung buddy?You would probably like it to happen because the penis brain don!t care, woman don!t think the same way guys or some guys do, tell her it was a joke, unless she wants to break up to go with the hung penis.Or maybe you have sex with the hung penis and let her watch!!!

He showed her, he's always liked her and we've always joked around about it
 

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what are you two, 15 years old?
joking about handing a woman around like she's a piece of meat. i'm sure your mothers must be proud of you.
 

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Confused. How is preferring to communicate in a mature understandable manner considered pretentious? I don't think kids are allowed on this site.

Because the OP' wasn’t a perfect piece of pros but it was readable. Then all the first few posts can do is pick up on the punctuation. Screams of people trying to sound clever. If someone was to present a paragraph of profanities in a well punctuated and constructed way, would this be communicating in a mature manner? In fact some of the responses came across as quite puerile.

That aside, I think the OP was stupid for joking about passing his gf 'around' and should of discussed this with her if he was into that type of thing. OP so be flattered his gf got mad, that she didn’t want to sleep around with other guys. Try getting her forgiveness if this doesn’t work looks like you screwed up big time OP.
 
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I do love her but not sure to drop the hole ideal or not. My buddy has been over to the house drinking and hanging out now more then ever. I got home from work and they were out back sitting drinking. So I'm kinda confused if she was really mad or upset why have him here?

AAAAAAhhhhhhh....................you started it as a joke or a fantasy and now you've become jealous. Why not ask her seriously if she is interested in him?