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I don’t know if I’m alone on this. I’m not super hung but at 5 inches soft, 8 hard and just over 5.5 inch girth. I’m definitely above the average mark. The thing is, I just don’t feel big. When I look at other men who are similar to my size, I feel so small in comparison, especially in the girth department. IDK if it’s because I’m so used to my penis size and shape or because my glans aren’t that big compared to the rest of my penis. Anyone else experience this?
 
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I am pretty big as in 5/6 inches soft and about 10/10.5 inches fully hard but my ex wife was tremendously loose so I always felt too small
 
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I don’t know if I’m alone on this. I’m not super hung but at 5 inches soft, 8 hard and just over 5.5 inch girth. I’m definitely above the average mark. The thing is, I just don’t feel big. When I look at other men who are similar to my size, I feel so small in comparison, especially in the girth department. IDK if it’s because I’m so used to my penis size and shape or because my glans aren’t that big compared to the rest of my penis. Anyone else experience this?
hard to comment, no pics, so....
 

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You're long, no doubt about it. Not sure where your thoughts are coming from, though. Yeah, the head is small in proportion to the shaft, so there's that. But you can always work on that, if you want. I'd say nothing to worry about.
 
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Definitely looks big to me man. We all are used to ourselves. We don't feel big. We expect "big" to feel some special way. The fact is we will feel "normal" because it's normal for us. We see it everyday. We also see it from the worst viewpoint top down. Take a piece of paper, measure it to 8 inches long and 5.5 inches wide and cut it and fold it into a tube and put it close to your face.
 

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I feel the same and I'm bigger than you. I remind myself statistically, I'm bigger than most and try and remember that. Also as other posters have said, its hard to see your size on yourself, look at other guys with the same dimensions and maybe try to remember that they are the same size as you. it might help.
 

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You're long, no doubt about it. Not sure where your thoughts are coming from, though. Yeah, the head is small in proportion to the shaft, so there's that. But you can always work on that, if you want. I'd say nothing to worry about.
WYM by work on that? Is there a way I can increase the thickness of my head?
 

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Like everyone else is saying, this is completely normal. I felt and sometimes feel the same way still, even though deep down I know I have a big dick. I know from experience that no amount of external validation will erase these doubts, but despite that, you have a big dick. Trust me.
 

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apparently "self perspective" is a BIG part of one viewing one's dick. Usually you're looking down at it. Other people you're viewing from a short distance either slight side view or directly on. Even if you look at yourself in a mirror, it's not the same perspective as you looking at someone else; in a mirror, you're really "double" the distance (light rays from eyes to mirror and back) -- so "throws things off." About only closest to "Seeing yourself as ithers see ye" [Bobby Burns] is a photo with camera set at location of another's viewpoint -- and that still suffers from your already formed self-bias.
 

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I can’t believe any of the above can possibly feel insecure- I’m the complete opposite, often walking around naturist resorts looking like this and totally comfortable with myself F21E4D15-49B0-4ED5-9502-A17B9E9D0515.jpeg
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As someone mentioned in the comments having sex with loose pussy can make you think it's tiny. A macho side of us would like to destroy the pussy I guess. Just go out there and smash man you got pornstar status size.
 

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Body dysmorphic disorder - Symptoms and causes

try also googling Penile dysmorphic disorder

and maybe consider therapy as a cure. I am really finding disturbing reading this. But I had my share of dysmorphia about my penis size for years. It was in opposite direction, I thought my penis size was too big, but it caused me similar anxiety and feelings of shame... I really considered even to have it surgically reduced, but luckily the doctors insisted on a year of therapy before considering the surgery. I am now happy I did not do it, but what is more important I am accepting that penis size is just that, penis size. It does not tell anything beyond that. And penises like bodies and minds come in different shapes, forms and sizes and all are normal and besides extreme conditions that can be treated all is good and can serve as tool for enjoyable sexlife. It is also maybe worth saying that sex happens mostly in imagination and fantasies and when letting go of shame and quilt sex becomes much more enjoyable... no matter the size of the penis.
 
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Body dysmorphic disorder - Symptoms and causes

try also googling Penile dysmorphic disorder

and maybe consider therapy as a cure. I am really finding disturbing reading this. But I had my share of dysmorphia about my penis size for years. It was in opposite direction, I thought my penis size was too big, but it caused me similar anxiety and feelings of shame... I really considered even to have it surgically reduced, but luckily the doctors insisted on a year of therapy before considering the surgery. I am now happy I did not do it, but what is more important I am accepting that penis size is just that, penis size. It does not tell anything beyond that. And penises like bodies and minds come in different shapes, forms and sizes and all are normal and besides extreme conditions that can be treated all is good and can serve as tool for enjoyable sexlife. It is also maybe worth saying that sex happens mostly in imagination and fantasies and when letting go of shame and quilt sex becomes much more enjoyable... no matter the size of the penis.
Lmao
Body dysmorphic disorder - Symptoms and causes

try also googling Penile dysmorphic disorder

and maybe consider therapy as a cure. I am really finding disturbing reading this. But I had my share of dysmorphia about my penis size for years. It was in opposite direction, I thought my penis size was too big, but it caused me similar anxiety and feelings of shame... I really considered even to have it surgically reduced, but luckily the doctors insisted on a year of therapy before considering the surgery. I am now happy I did not do it, but what is more important I am accepting that penis size is just that, penis size. It does not tell anything beyond that. And penises like bodies and minds come in different shapes, forms and sizes and all are normal and besides extreme conditions that can be treated all is good and can serve as tool for enjoyable sexlife. It is also maybe worth saying that sex happens mostly in imagination and fantasies and when letting go of shame and quilt sex becomes much more enjoyable... no matter the size of the penis.
Holy shit didn't know the opposite exists. I can tell you if you turn your mind on enough your dick can be a literal egg plant and she would take it. It's all in the mind man both men and woman. It blows my mind you think you are too big lmao not making fun just....lol
 
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Holy shit didn't know the opposite exists. I can tell you if you turn your mind on enough your dick can be a literal egg plant and she would take it. It's all in the mind man both men and woman. It blows my mind you think you are too big lmao not making fun just....lol
You see, I always thought I am being just a penis to someone, a fetish if you want to call it that. That they will use me for their enjoyment and drop me. And then the size makes sex hard sometimes, blowjobs hurt cause not many have the deep throat skills for a thick penis, teeth get in the way, hands are too small to properly grab it, anuses too tight, vaginas too short... It made me self-conscious and at the end I would rather masturbate than go trough all the potential problems (and the potential of loosing another person)... it gained momentum in my head... than the shape was wrong, the head too small, the skin too thick, too tight... I was going from doctors to forums to doctors and everyone said I was normal, but I did not feel normal. I felt deeply flawed. But it was not the penis that gave me the feelings... but making it about the penis was making me cope with my anxieties, shame and guilt... now I see it, at that time I would just hide and not want to have sex anymore. I always just wanted to be "normal" and normal for me was having penis your size @SmallDguy Like for above posters normal would probably be someone else's penis size, just not their own. Accepting one self is a process and penis is not just something that hangs between your legs but also a symbol of how manly you are, how powerful you are, how desirable you are... and symbolism is that get away with reality. I know my side of dysmorphia is not that common as the opposite but it has the same roots, same feelings and same effect on self image and self worth. It is a crippling condition, crippling feelings that just make you spiral down...