Hung dudes: do you tell beforehand?

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So for all you guys who are gifted and well hung... when you meet someone new and thing will be leading to sex, do you let the guy know beforehand or let them find out when the time comes?

For those who dont tell and let them find out for themselves whats the general reaction? Happy and excited? Nervous but they still try? Or do you sometimes get an automatic no for sex the person not wanting to attempt to handle it?
 

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When I tried to use grindr for a hookup, there was no way anyone would even think of sex without pics first.

I assume if you are meeting someone at a bar or something you either are going to have sex that night or exchange numbers. If so I'm sure they'll ask for pics or something before hand too so in a way you say before hand.

Of course this is all speculation and assumptions as I have never really had more than one sexual partner...
 

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Yeah, @Cum_is_Great is right. In the days of hookup apps it’s rare you would meet someone without knowing what they are packing. Dick (and butt) pics have become an art form!
Some guys like it to be a surprise but you would have probably chatted about what you like and what you’re bringing to the table first.
 
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You could tell but most men lie about their size anyway or incorrectly assume that they will be the biggest that you've ever had, so it really doesn't matter in that regard.
 

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For me, when I started out interacting with guys sexually I would just say, I’m above average, but have used to saying “I’m hung”, even though there are lots of guys who are longer and/or thicker than myself. Some guys would not believe me until they saw it- and I have had many responses, from,” that’s not going in me”(from my first days of sexually awakening as a bottom only) to,” please fuck me”( sometimes this comes from guys who are bottoms/versatile who are definitely interested in the challenge) to tops who wanted to get that checked off their bucket list)- suffice it to say, was always happy to help out! If a guy tells me he’s hung I’m instantly aroused- like,” show me what you got!” I’m blessed that my life partner walks the walk and talks the talk! But like it’s been said, in the day and age of apps and pics first, it’s hard to not be caught up in those dialogues/intrigues. Some guys like big dicks, others not so much- it can be a double-edged sword, for guys who are packing and those that aren’t.