Hung guys' experiences with petite asian women?

Speaking AS an Asian woman who is 5'4", I've never had a problem with sex with any of the men I've been with. Except for the ones who were smaller than my damn thumb, or who blew their load in under a minute, and then neither of those former types did anything to make sure I got my pleasure too. My longest relationship of about two years was with a man who happened to be black. My current FWB/whatever by pure random happenstance is black too. The majority of men I've been with were white, not that it matters.
 
I'm linebacker size and all the Asian women I have done it with were petite. Each and every time, they asked me to be gentle with them, Even before seeing I packing a big cock, but they always seemed very worried about me overdoing it and causing pain. Despite this, I have never had a bad experience with Asian women, in fact, I prefer them over everyone else! What they lack in big boobs, large butts and athletic frames, they more than make up for it.
 
I'm linebacker size and all the Asian women I have done it with were petite. Each and every time, they asked me to be gentle with them, Even before seeing I packing a big cock, but they always seemed very worried about me overdoing it and causing pain. Despite this, I have never had a bad experience with Asian women, in fact, I prefer them over everyone else! What they lack in big boobs, large butts and athletic frames, they more than make up for it.
How? I am seriously puzzled every time I encounter a comment like this.

Coming from someone who can speak several East Asian languages fluently and has lived in East Asia for many years (including the present one), I would honestly say that there is no group of women with generally more plain features than East Asian women. They are generally not good looking. The few that are good looking tend to be incredibly so, to be fair, but most of them fall somewhere between homely and ugly on a scale of physical attractiveness.
 
I have only been with one east asian woman. She is pretty tall, though slim. It took some foreplay and lube, and the first couple times it took some time, but over time it was fairly easy. No issues.
 
How? I am seriously puzzled every time I encounter a comment like this.

Coming from someone who can speak several East Asian languages fluently and has lived in East Asia for many years (including the present one), I would honestly say that there is no group of women with generally more plain features than East Asian women. They are generally not good looking. The few that are good looking tend to be incredibly so, to be fair, but most of them fall somewhere between homely and ugly on a scale of physical attractiveness.

I've had meaningful (and meaningless) relationships with women from Japan, China, and Hong Kong. I think a big part of it is that Asian women are, in general, healthier than Western women. They have better control of their bodies and in my experience, their smaller bone structure which leads to better flexibility and are able to get wetter. However, their vaginal canals aren't as accomodating as they could be. Sometimes I really had to take it easy to start with to get them warmed up. It usually takes me a couple of minutes to get adjusted in without hurting them, but they're willing to do anything to please a man.
 
I've had meaningful (and meaningless) relationships with women from Japan, China, and Hong Kong. I think a big part of it is that Asian women are, in general, healthier than Western women. They have better control of their bodies and in my experience, their smaller bone structure which leads to better flexibility and are able to get wetter. However, their vaginal canals aren't as accomodating as they could be. Sometimes I really had to take it easy to start with to get them warmed up. It usually takes me a couple of minutes to get adjusted in without hurting them, but they're willing to do anything to please a man.
Most East Asian women are the "bosses" of their households. A typical East Asian woman uses her husband/boyfriend as slave labor and spends the money he has earned on high-end clothing, cosmetics, surgeries, gourmet food, etc. in an attempt to look pretty and impress her (female) friends.

I am just really perturbed by people claiming that they prefer East Asian women over everyone else when, judging from my experience here, East Asian women tend to be so plain-looking and ill-natured. It is also offensive to me because such people usually couple this inscrutable praising of East Asian women with curiously vehement deprecation of East Asian men, who I have found tend to be very friendly and attractive.

From the online version of the OED:

plain-looking
Definition of plain-looking in English:
adjective
Not beautiful, distinctive, or remarkable in appearance: she is, under the makeup and hair, a very plain-looking girl

plain-looking food


Do most cases of this sort reflect a subconscious attempt by some men (mostly white males as far as I can tell) to validate themselves?

 
Wow. Speaking as an Asian woman, some of the recent posts in here are just all kinds of special. Every ethnicity has people that are attractive or unattractive, and people have different preferences. And I like to do things to make my significant other's life easier as well as happier. I give no fucks about trying to impress random people, much less my damn friends. I realize there is use of words like "most" and "typical" but good grief. If disagreeing with some of this garbage and finding it insulting that you're saying most women in multiple cultures are plain, unattractive, etc is "ill-natured" I guess I'm ill-natured. Fuckers.

As an aside, my fwb/etc who happens to be black, finds it fucking hilarious every time someone brings up how it might be, or must be difficult for a more endowed dude (black in his case) to fuck an Asian woman
 
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Most East Asian women are the "bosses" of their households. A typical East Asian woman uses her husband/boyfriend as slave labor and spends the money he has earned on high-end clothing, cosmetics, surgeries, gourmet food, etc. in an attempt to look pretty and impress her (female) friends.

I am just really perturbed by people claiming that they prefer East Asian women over everyone else when, judging from my experience here, East Asian women tend to be so plain-looking and ill-natured. It is also offensive to me because such people usually couple this inscrutable praising of East Asian women with curiously vehement deprecation of East Asian men, who I have found tend to be very friendly and attractive.
But jujube, how would you know whether East Asian women are "plain looking" or how they behave in the home? Your post history reveals you're a man whose posts related to sex are uniformly homosexual and who has a near obsession with Japanese (or East Asian, if you prefer) men, and you state repeatedly that you've had sex with many Japanese men, some of whom had large penises which you discuss at length. Pun intended. Oh, and you seem to have a bit of a history saying shitty things about women of various races.

I'll be your counterpoint. I've lived in Japan for 15 years, speak the language, know the culture possibly better than I know my own, am married to a Japanese woman, and have had sex with a relatively large number of East Asian women. This is the truth about them:
Every ethnicity has people that are attractive or unattractive, and people have different preferences. And I like to do things to make my significant other's life easier as well as happier. I give no fucks about trying to impress random people, much less my damn friends. I realize there is use of words like "most" and "typical" but good grief. If disagreeing with some of this garbage and finding it insulting that you're saying most women in multiple cultures are plain, unattractive, etc is "ill-natured" I guess I'm ill-natured. Fuckers.

And to expand on that, my experience with East Asian women, which I'm going to guess is greater than yours (feel free to tell me how wrong I am and all about your heterosexual exploits and long term relationships with East Asian women, though, if I'm wrong on this one) is that they aren't generally bossy at all, nor are they in any way exceptionally shallow. I haven't known any of them to be gold diggers in the way you've generalized them to be and, in fact, I've found them to "tend to be very friendly and attractive", not unlike how you describe the men.

In fact, having lived in Japan, and in many parts of Japan, for years, I can't say the way in which you describe East Asian women matches my experiences as a heterosexual man from the United States at all.

It's interesting also because your seem to be trying to fight injustices regarding the way East Asian men are generalized in many of your posts, but then you swoop in here with some really disgusting and inaccurate generalizations about East Asian women that are quite a stark contrast.

I look forward to your snarky and hopefully pedantic reply, as looking through the ten pages of posts in your history, that seems to be your forte.
 
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To go back to the topic, I've been with quite a few petite Asian women and there was no consistency between their physical size or ethnicity and whether they could "handle" sex with me. I've been with one half Chinese, half Japanese woman who was 4'11" and 90lbs soaking wet and she had the most magnificent vagina I've ever encountered--swallowed me whole and had full control of her kegels, which was amazing. With others, it was a nonstarter. I've had the same experience with people of other ethnicities I've been with, actually (though I've been with fewer non-Asian women than Asian).
 
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But jujube, how would you know whether East Asian women are "plain looking" or how they behave in the home?
I've seen plenty of women (not to mention girls) without make-up, fancy clothes, etc. (not to mention before-and-after photos of individuals who have undergone cosmetic surgery) to know what I am talking about here. It's impossible not to see East Asian females every day when you live in East Asia.

As for the way most East Asian households are maintained, I know from personal experience (having lived in several East Asian households) as well as the stories I have heard from my friends and acquaintances. The standard mode of maintanence of household finances here is that the woman keeps any money that she makes for herself, and the woman also takes any money that the man makes for herself (and any children if they are present) and gives the man a pitiful "allowance," sort of like the ones that she doles out to the children.

Your post history reveals you're a man whose posts related to sex are uniformly homosexual and who has a near obsession with Japanese (or East Asian, if you prefer) men, and you state repeatedly that you've had sex with many Japanese men, some of whom had large penises which you discuss at length. Pun intended. Oh, and you seem to have a bit of a history saying shitty things about women of various races.
There you go! Show them how ad hominem is used, Mr. Guy-jin.

I'll be your counterpoint. I've lived in Japan for 15 years, speak the language, know the culture possibly better than I know my own, am married to a Japanese woman, and have had sex with a relatively large number of East Asian women.
I'll be the judge of that. スカイプでチャットしてみましょうか? 現在も日本国内にお住まいなら時差による不都合も無くお話ができるでしょう。

And to expand on that, my experience with East Asian women, which I'm going to guess is greater than yours (feel free to tell me how wrong I am and all about your heterosexual exploits and long term relationships with East Asian women, though, if I'm wrong on this one) is that they aren't generally bossy at all, nor are they in any way exceptionally shallow. I haven't known any of them to be gold diggers in they way you've generalized them to be and, in fact, I've found them to "tend to be very friendly and attractive", not unlike how you describe the men.
Don't put words in my mouth. I have not claimed that East Asian women tend to be gold diggers; I have pointed out that they tend to be the bosses (which is again not the same as the colloquial adjective, "bossy," with which you have conflated it) of their households. Your comments about "shallowness" are also entirely a straw man; I have never used the word in this thread, and I do not think it accurately describes my opinion of the social behavior of the East Asian women to whom I have referred. I think "compensation" or "seeking affirmation" would be more appropriate words.

It's interesting also because your seem to be trying to fight injustices regarding the way East Asian men are generalized in many of your posts, but then you swoop in here with some really disgusting and inaccurate generalizations about East Asian women that are quite a stark contrast.

I look forward to your snarky and hopefully pedantic reply, as looking through the ten pages of posts in your history, that seems to be your forte.
How is your ad hominem-laden comment any less "disgusting"? I think it is best to avoid excessive use of emotionally charged adjectives.

I have calmly stated my appraisal of East Asian women as a collective body, and it should be obvious that no amount of contrarian bluster will be sufficient to sway me, so it would reflect better on you to do the same and state your evaluation of East Asian women as a dissenting opinion without flinging mud.
 
I've seen plenty of women (not to mention girls)

lol wut? "women(not to mention girls)"... ................................. ...my pedobear senses are tingling.


Also :\ there is so much wrong with your posts I don't even know where to begin. Your appraisal skills are exceptionally poor, this is clearly reflected by your posts. You also have an extremely limited viewpoint. There were many things you did not take into consideration and instead you made grossly over simplified generalizations. This is what I , and probably others will take issue with.


So I think i'd describe your posts simply as: Preconception at it's best.
 
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lol wut? "women(not to mention girls)"... ................................. ...my pedobear senses are tingling.
I went to school in an East Asian country. Talk about having "many things [one has] not take[n] into consideration," "[making] grossly oversimplified generalizations," and "preconception"! :rolleyes:
 
I went to school in an East Asian country. Talk about having "many things [one has] not take[n] into consideration," "[making] grossly oversimplified generalizations," and "preconception"! :rolleyes:

I'm was teasing you for your redundancy...

Not really sure what going to school in an East Asian country has anything to do with it vs forgetting to mention you are referring to a point in time when you were younger.


The reason it caught my attention was it was very oddly written. If you were to say it to someone, they are going to misinterpret it. Hence pedobear.
 
@jujube, I'm not trying to "sway" you. I'm trying to point out to everyone else what type of person you are so they understand where your shitty generalizations about East Asian women come from.

And no, I'm not going to Skype with you (that's what he asked me in Japanese for everyone playing at home).
 
Keeping strictly to the topic here-I have been married twice to British women and can assure everyone here that a petite Asian girl is the ultimate sex partner.
I have been with 6 Thai and Laotian girls all in their 20 s. None of them were more than 5 ft 2 tall or weighed more than 42 kilos. In fact one of them was just 34 kilos but almost managed to take my entire 7 inches length. The sex with ALL of them was amazing -generally they try so so hard to PLEASE YOU. My wife now of 5 years is Thai and is 40 kilos and 5ft 1 in. We are crazy for each other still and our sex is still like the first weeks. She is still tight (lots of lube needed) and I can bottom out at will most of the time. Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder but when we go on holiday and my wife wears one of her skimpy bikinis she draws admiring looks from males of all ages.
 
I have had several disappointments with Asian ladies, and a few wonderful experiences. It is not necessarily stature that determines size of vagina, but my experience has been that in general the two correlate. One was 5'1", and same problem- she cried from pain every time after sex. As exceptions, I had a beautiful girl who was 5'8" tall with lovely C-D cup breasts, but small inside- I kept hitting her womb (VERY not good!). Another was 5'0" and 90#, and she rode me like a cowgirl. She had the most awesome orgasms- in cowgirl position, she would tip her head back, roll her eyes up in her head, snort and growl, while digging her fingernails into my chest and thigh. Another was a voluptuous 5'3", and she had orgasms almost non-stop. I miss them terribly, but they live on the other side of the world from me.
 
Because it seems to need to be said yet again...................... being Asian, height and weight have diddly to do with the internal dimensions for PiV sex. Speaking as an Asian woman who has been with a variety of partners of various genders and flesh/blood cock of varying sizes and toys of varying sizes. Wanting to please your partner isn't reliant on race/culture/etc. This whole thread makes my eyes roll so hard they are likely to pop out of my head.
 
I have been with only one. and she was amazing. it was like fucking a tight bottle of lube...
 
Wow. Speaking as an Asian woman, some of the recent posts in here are just all kinds of special. Every ethnicity has people that are attractive or unattractive, and people have different preferences. And I like to do things to make my significant other's life easier as well as happier. I give no fucks about trying to impress random people, much less my damn friends. I realize there is use of words like "most" and "typical" but good grief. If disagreeing with some of this garbage and finding it insulting that you're saying most women in multiple cultures are plain, unattractive, etc is "ill-natured" I guess I'm ill-natured. Fuckers.

As an aside, my fwb/etc who happens to be black, finds it fucking hilarious every time someone brings up how it might be, or must be difficult for a more endowed dude (black in his case) to fuck an Asian woman

That seems to be a common though, that Asian women wouldn't be able to handle a larger guy than some other women.

I've heard more than a few conversations that turn sexual, and of course, someone would make a comment about how an Asian girl couldn't handle a 'BBC'. Well, I've been with different size penises, including more than one BBC, and find it a stereotype that doesn't hold water.