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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Imported, Nov 21, 2003.
jjdov26: hey you guys,
for you str8 guys, what is your opinion of your friend's manhood?
pghcyclist: hung gay guys can't have opinions about their friends with smaller penises?
jjdov26: yeah, they can. I just said str8 because I was talking more about a str8 guys opinon of their friends as guys and men... not as sexual objects. That is the distinction I was trying to make. Perhaps I should have tried to articulate it in a better way.
pghcyclist: do you find every single woman alive to be an object of sexual desire, regardless of physical attributes, age, beauty, etc? I'll assume the answer is no. Well, gay men are exactly the same -- we don't view every single man in terms of sex and how to get into his pants. Sometimes, the guys we know are just friends (i.e. no sex or sexual feelings).
jjdov26: that's cool man
I meant no offense
I'm not a straight man, but I have many male platonic friends. Most of them actually are straight. My friends are my friends whether their cocks are half my size or twice my size. I honestly don't know how well-hung most of them are. Cock size is not an issue in my friendships.
prepstudinsc: All of my friends (that I've seen or that we've talked about) are smaller than I am, does it matter? No. Do I think about it? No. Do I give them a hard time about it? No. They've seen me at the gym. A few of them have seen me hard while watching a porno and jacking together. Some of them like to tease me about it, but it's all in good natured fun, nothing malicious about it. I give one of my friends who is about 8" a hard time and call him "Tiny" when he starts teasing me about mine.
Other than that, there's really not a lot of thought about our dicks, except if one of them says something about me really showing in a pair of pants, or like the time when the wife of one of my friends said something to another one of my friends that I either went around with a hard on all the time or else I was really hung huge. In polite company in the real world, most people don't really give a lot of thought to dick size, it's only on here, where it is the major topic of conversation that it takes the forefront of a person's mind.
Maybe I'm unusual, but as a straight man, I haven't seen my friends with a hard-on, therefore I don't know how big they are. I haven't been curious about them and they haven't told me.
Is that weird? Do other guys see most of their straight male friends with erections?
Krowax: Dick size isn't an issue in my circle of friends.
joe22xxx: I guess I'm like most of the guys who've responded so far. I care about my male friends because they are good people, not because of their dick size. But the size thing has been a topic of conversation among my friends and me. Usually it's in a humorous way.
I don't recall having too many discussions about my dick with my other straight male friends. Closest I've come is all the partying I did when I was in school. A few of my friends have seen me stark naked, and a couple of others got to see mine hard for kicks. It was one of those shocker moments ("damn, Dee!") and it never really came up again after that; I might get a joke or two implicitly, but my friends really don't do much else than that.
Truth is, I can only think of a couple of friends who have mentioned what they were packing, but I never saw it so I couldn't really make a comparison or anything. I don't really care all that much. If they're hung huge, too, that's cool; something else we can relate with. But if they're not, no big deal.
bigrodney86: I'm gonna have to agree with what everyone else has been saying.. theres no reason or point to have an "opinion" about your friends' dicks...
I hang out with whoever I like cuz their cool.. I have lots of friends who i've never seen changing or anything.. if they were hung, odds are they'd bring it up when I was talking about mine. Knowing that they are a guy like me and *have* a dick is enough
None of my friends are anywhere near my size.. they know it, I know it.. but unless we're in the locker room or talking/joking about it, we don't care.
As far as the poll goes, like how do I feel about my dick vs. my friendz.. well.. I have wished were bigger just so we could have that in common.. and yea I've seen theirs & grinned 2myself cause I knew they'll never experience what I do. I can't relate to being that small (average), but I learned to drop the "haha it must suck for them to be that hung" attitude a while ago
Shaolin: All of my friends whose size I know are above average, and within an inch either way, so it's not really a big deal.