getnbiggr: Hey all,
I know this Q was directed at Uncut, but I thought I'd take a stab at it.
My 2nd ever serious relationship was with a guy who turned out to be hung very nicely. He was about 9x6.5 or, maybe 7" around on a particularly good day. And while I didn't know this when we starting flirting or talking, and I was really attracted to him without knowing about his size, it was certainly a sexual perk when I did find out.
The interesting thing is that he was wonderfully un-complexed about his sexual desires, his sex life, his sex preferences... The first time we made out, I got hard instantly and he grabbed my dick through my jeans and was very appreciative -- he happens to like other hung guys, and had no issues about voicing his appreciation.
And so one of the things he taught me over the year that we were boyfriends (we're still good friends -- just spoke to him last night, actually) was to not be ashamed or too sheepish about my sexual desires and pleasures. He also taught me to enjoy being hung -- or at least taught me to enjoy it more than I had up to that point. And while a great deal of this juts springs from his own personality and personal experiences, I suspect that some of his own comfort in his sexuality may spring from his being a BIG boy. Any thoughts?
Of course, one of the more fucked-up guys I've ever dated -- in terms of sexual disclosure, dishonesty, and breaking agreed-upon rules of safe sex -- was 10.5x7.5. So size certainly does NOT make the man. But with a guy who's already a good man, it can help...
-- getnbiggr/massingUP