I have been shattered, destroyed, and suicidal over the subject of cock size, and I think its finally time to come to an acceptance and peace about it for my own sanity.
I was thinking about it last night. This site is supposed to be for support and praise of the well endowed man, not a whiny bitch fest for the less fortunate. I have been that wounded animal, but the more I read posts by insecure guys who hate their bodies and cocks, the more embarrassed I am to be one of them.
Just because people can be cruel about cock size, doesn't mean I have to be unbalanced, hysterical, and miserable about it. It isn't right for me to extrapolate my fears, psychosis, or bad experiences on to other people just because they have or love big cock. For all I know, someone may genuinely like me or my cock, regardless of whether I can accept or believe that.
Why should I be upset that some guys have huge cocks? Or just that a guy is bigger than me? I remember in the movie "Boogie Nights", Dirk Diggler is talking about his huge cock and says "everyone's given one special thing". I had that thought recently and it kind of hit me. Some people are extremely intelligent, some are ridiculously good looking, some are amazing at making money, some are talented writers philosophers musicians chefs dancers...and some just have big ole perfect looking donkey dicks.
Some people are wealthy in many areas. But I think its the people who don't let the fact that they have very little, stop them from creating something beautiful, who make the biggest spiritual impact. It sort of floors you to watch the underdog win or overcome when the odds are stacked against them.
So I think I've somehow created a fantasy world in my head that has dehumanized hung guys. It tells me that their lives are perfect. Immeasurably better than mine. They don't experience pain or hardship or heartbreak. Every fuck they have is the superbowl of fucks. Their partners love them more than a small or average guy's partner ever would.
But life is not that simple. People are not caricatures.
So I just wanna say that big dicks ARE better. Size DOES matter. Hung guys SHOULD be praised and given preferential treatment in regards to sex. But that's because they are superstars in that category. They should feel good about themselves. A big dick is a beautiful thing. I believe its perfectly normal and right that they are viewed as sexually superior.
But that brings me to my final point. On the flip side -This respect, awe, and enjoyment we should have for hung guys shouldn't mean that smaller guys have to be patronized, or ignored in order to avoid the subject or keep from hurting our feelings. And I feel like gay culture deserves a serious reprimand for their bigoted and hateful (if often subtle or understated) treatment of the subject. They have exploited and inflated huge cocks (lol...inflated...ahem) and an obsession with size and not measuring up to the point of creating a a worldwide epidemic of silent male self hatred and depression. This sea of male envy, jealousy, and stereotypes is drowning gay men in the top/btm sub/dom dichotomy of cliquish narcissism, and unrealistic sexual expectations.
I was thinking about it last night. This site is supposed to be for support and praise of the well endowed man, not a whiny bitch fest for the less fortunate. I have been that wounded animal, but the more I read posts by insecure guys who hate their bodies and cocks, the more embarrassed I am to be one of them.
Just because people can be cruel about cock size, doesn't mean I have to be unbalanced, hysterical, and miserable about it. It isn't right for me to extrapolate my fears, psychosis, or bad experiences on to other people just because they have or love big cock. For all I know, someone may genuinely like me or my cock, regardless of whether I can accept or believe that.
Why should I be upset that some guys have huge cocks? Or just that a guy is bigger than me? I remember in the movie "Boogie Nights", Dirk Diggler is talking about his huge cock and says "everyone's given one special thing". I had that thought recently and it kind of hit me. Some people are extremely intelligent, some are ridiculously good looking, some are amazing at making money, some are talented writers philosophers musicians chefs dancers...and some just have big ole perfect looking donkey dicks.
Some people are wealthy in many areas. But I think its the people who don't let the fact that they have very little, stop them from creating something beautiful, who make the biggest spiritual impact. It sort of floors you to watch the underdog win or overcome when the odds are stacked against them.
So I think I've somehow created a fantasy world in my head that has dehumanized hung guys. It tells me that their lives are perfect. Immeasurably better than mine. They don't experience pain or hardship or heartbreak. Every fuck they have is the superbowl of fucks. Their partners love them more than a small or average guy's partner ever would.
But life is not that simple. People are not caricatures.
So I just wanna say that big dicks ARE better. Size DOES matter. Hung guys SHOULD be praised and given preferential treatment in regards to sex. But that's because they are superstars in that category. They should feel good about themselves. A big dick is a beautiful thing. I believe its perfectly normal and right that they are viewed as sexually superior.
But that brings me to my final point. On the flip side -This respect, awe, and enjoyment we should have for hung guys shouldn't mean that smaller guys have to be patronized, or ignored in order to avoid the subject or keep from hurting our feelings. And I feel like gay culture deserves a serious reprimand for their bigoted and hateful (if often subtle or understated) treatment of the subject. They have exploited and inflated huge cocks (lol...inflated...ahem) and an obsession with size and not measuring up to the point of creating a a worldwide epidemic of silent male self hatred and depression. This sea of male envy, jealousy, and stereotypes is drowning gay men in the top/btm sub/dom dichotomy of cliquish narcissism, and unrealistic sexual expectations.
