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Bad hurt not good hurt. Was a total accident. She's ok, but hurt her the other night. Missionary position, think I hit her cervix the wrong way, not exactly sure. She knows it was an accident, she's fine, and not upset at all, but still made me feel horrible. Missionary just doesn't work very well for us. Ug, sorry, just had to vent. Haven't been able to get my mind off it.
 

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Other night I knocked my GF's IUD out of place, she was reeling in pain the next day until it settled back in.
 

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Bad hurt not good hurt. Was a total accident. She's ok, but hurt her the other night. Missionary position, think I hit her cervix the wrong way, not exactly sure. She knows it was an accident, she's fine, and not upset at all, but still made me feel horrible. Missionary just doesn't work very well for us. Ug, sorry, just had to vent. Haven't been able to get my mind off it.

I've done this countless times. Hopefully she feels better soon.

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This happened to me just the other night. All was fine until I stuck her legs behind her head (which I do often). That night, though, it seemed to really hurt her. I felt devastated, and I havent innitiated anything since. Afraid I'm gonna hurt her again.
 

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As a reasonable and older woman i thought i'd tell you we don't hold it against you. We may be snippy at the time but that's just coz we're sore. I know that sometimes all it takes is a slight difference in angle or shift of weight and it can all go pear shaped in a stroke. As long as we know you're sorry and you don't push for sex til you know we're better we are all good. Nice to know that you guys think about it though and are genuinly concerned when it happens!
 

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The fact that you care might help her with he pain. Maybe she'll get used to it one day. If not, you might have to perfect your oral skills. :tongue:

Nice to know that you guys think about it though and are genuinly concerned when it happens!
:smile:
 

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Something similar happened to me. We were having sex missionary, it came out, I put it back, in a rush and got the wrong hole. Never heard someone scream that bad in my life and I felt like an utter prick, especially as there was nothing I could do to make it better. She was crying for a while, but I went to the store and bought her some ice cream to make up for it (or try to).

That was the third time it had happened actually. First was doing doggy with a girl, accidentally slipped in about half way, she was in loads of pain but I went down on her for a bit and she got back in to things v fast. Third time, in doggy again the girl didn't even flinch, started to cum loads and kept saying how she never thought I'd fit in her ass!

I'd never want to hurt someone, but accidents do happen. I guess it's how you deal with things that makes the difference.
 

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I have a feeling this is going to be an ongoing issue for us. As much as I love missionary, I think it's off limits. Just doesn't work with us. I have tried to be very gentle with her, and so far it's worked pretty well. We have wonderful communication, and that helps as well. She knows it's not something I do on purpose, and that makes me feel a lot better. Was really afraid she'd be mad at me, but she's not; she understands and loves me. I have been blessed with a really wonderful woman in my life. Took me 41 years to find her, but it was entirely worth the wait.
 

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Hand, sorry I posted this before reading your post. I can't "do" my girl missionary with her legs on my shoulders so we avoid it or go really slow.