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So this is kinda embarassing, but I needed to talk about it. I've already talked to my partner about it, and he feels really bad about it. I guess I just needed a soundboard to see if anyone else feels this way.
My partner very rarely bottoms, in fact, it's a very good night if we can do it without any problems. He came to my apartment after I got off of work, and we were just going to spend some time together and we got a bit hot and bothered and we started to make love.
I was rimming him and he got super horny over it and started teasing my dick against his hole so I started to go down on him and he tried to pull me inside of him. We ended up getting out the lube, lubed up, and I entered, but he started to get uncomfortable.
We switched positions twice and he ended up hurting pretty bad the last time so I pulled out. As soon as the words "Ow, ow, ow" came out of his mouth, my sex drive was GONE.
I couldn't even cum that's how gone it was.
This has happened before. I pysch myself out if I know that I'm going to top and I try to be really cautious, careful, considerate, and I let him take control of how far inside it goes, I don't thrust, I pretty much just stand like a board until he's comforbable. Any time he gets too ambitious and pulls to hard on me or adjusts me in a weird way and he says it hurts, I get more tense and if it really starts to hurt him, I'm done and I can't finish.
Like I said, I talked to him about it and he feels bad about it, and he said he'll work on loosening up so it doesn't hurt as much, but I was wondering how many of you other guys out there are the same? Like, if your partner, whether it be male or female, do you lose your sex drive if you hurt your partner, or am I just a wimp and I shouldn't be so upset by it?
My partner very rarely bottoms, in fact, it's a very good night if we can do it without any problems. He came to my apartment after I got off of work, and we were just going to spend some time together and we got a bit hot and bothered and we started to make love.
I was rimming him and he got super horny over it and started teasing my dick against his hole so I started to go down on him and he tried to pull me inside of him. We ended up getting out the lube, lubed up, and I entered, but he started to get uncomfortable.
We switched positions twice and he ended up hurting pretty bad the last time so I pulled out. As soon as the words "Ow, ow, ow" came out of his mouth, my sex drive was GONE.
I couldn't even cum that's how gone it was.
This has happened before. I pysch myself out if I know that I'm going to top and I try to be really cautious, careful, considerate, and I let him take control of how far inside it goes, I don't thrust, I pretty much just stand like a board until he's comforbable. Any time he gets too ambitious and pulls to hard on me or adjusts me in a weird way and he says it hurts, I get more tense and if it really starts to hurt him, I'm done and I can't finish.
Like I said, I talked to him about it and he feels bad about it, and he said he'll work on loosening up so it doesn't hurt as much, but I was wondering how many of you other guys out there are the same? Like, if your partner, whether it be male or female, do you lose your sex drive if you hurt your partner, or am I just a wimp and I shouldn't be so upset by it?