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My husband was always jealous of men who are well hung. What I mean when I say well hung is big cock and big low hanging balls. If we go to a nude beach and there are guys who are hung my husband will not get undressed. He is ashamed of his 4 3/4 cock and very small balls compare to some of the guys on the beach. My husband also knows that I love a big set of balls slapping my ass when we have sex and since he is too small to provide that sort of feeling I get off just watching hung guys with low hanging balls and just think about them when we have sex. What can I say he does not have that type of equipment. It may sound mean to what I am saying but it is the true.
 

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What is he able to do with his size? Nothing!

Maybe you let him know in the past that you’re not fully satisfied with him or his performance in bed and that stayed in his mind. I believe there’s nothing to do beside accepting him fully and encouraging him that his dick is enough. The other option is ofc opening your marriage.
 
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What is he able to do with his size? Nothing!

Maybe you let him know in the past that you’re not fully satisfied with him or his performance in bed and that stayed in his mind. I believe there’s nothing to do beside accepting him fully and encouraging him that his dick is enough. The other option is ofc opening your marriage.
I had sex with guys that had big balls and big dick in the past and I am used to those men with bigger cocks and balls and the feeling they give me.
 
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I had sex with guys that had big balls and big dick in the past and I am used to those men with bigger cocks and balls and the feeling they give me.
I have a tiny penis and every woman I have ever been with has had better hung lovers. Most would always proclaim that size doesnt matter but if they are used to much bigger they tend to crave it more when they have to do without.
 

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My husband was always jealous of men who are well hung. What I mean when I say well hung is big cock and big low hanging balls. If we go to a nude beach and there are guys who are hung my husband will not get undressed. He is ashamed of his 4 3/4 cock and very small balls compare to some of the guys on the beach. My husband also knows that I love a big set of balls slapping my ass when we have sex and since he is too small to provide that sort of feeling I get off just watching hung guys with low hanging balls and just think about them when we have sex. What can I say he does not have that type of equipment. It may sound mean to what I am saying but it is the true.
When I was a soldier in Germany ( British Army ) Our upstairs neighbours had parties now and then , so when we moved in it was natural to ( as downstairs newbies ) to be invited . Well the night was good to begin with about 12 of us , we played daft games and told stories etc but the wife kept making references to sex which kind of put my wife off , who then made her excuses and went to bed . As the night went on the lady of the house as I said kept referring to things sexual ( hoping for a gang-bang I think . She told us that in her capacity as a stable girl ( unpaid ) she had to occasionally get the product for artificial insemination , judging reactions as she told us ;) . Anyway the rest slowly drifted away , Ohh by this stage I was naked for a bet ha ha ha , anyway she said to her husband " can we play " which I thought was odd and he nodded , next thing I know we were in bed ( not my 1st 3some but ;) ) she began to stroke my cock which was rigid in no time whilst trying to arouse her man with her mouth , sadly his cock was tiny but he tried to accommodate . she then invited him to suck me off , which seemed to please him and I was not complaining . In the end she got on all fours with his little cock in her mouth and got me to fuck her HARD doggie ,,,,, she loved it rough !!!!
 

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My husband was always jealous of men who are well hung. What I mean when I say well hung is big cock and big low hanging balls. If we go to a nude beach and there are guys who are hung my husband will not get undressed. He is ashamed of his 4 3/4 cock and very small balls compare to some of the guys on the beach. My husband also knows that I love a big set of balls slapping my ass when we have sex and since he is too small to provide that sort of feeling I get off just watching hung guys with low hanging balls and just think about them when we have sex. What can I say he does not have that type of equipment. It may sound mean to what I am saying but it is the true.
My husband was always jealous of men who are well hung. What I mean when I say well hung is big cock and big low hanging balls. If we go to a nude beach and there are guys who are hung my husband will not get undressed. He is ashamed of his 4 3/4 cock and very small balls compare to some of the guys on the beach. My husband also knows that I love a big set of balls slapping my ass when we have sex and since he is too small to provide that sort of feeling I get off just watching hung guys with low hanging balls and just think about them when we have sex. What can I say he does not have that type of equipment. It may sound mean to what I am saying but it is the true.
I’m not seeing a question or request for an opinion here. You seemed to have a pretty certain feeling about what seems to be your husbands issue. But is it? Is it just his issue? I didn’t hear you say that you enjoy sex with your husband. Somebody asked something like (how does he do with what he has?) and I don’t think you answered.

Why ARE you with him? How important is your desire for a bigger man? What do you do when he reacts negatively to other larger men on at nude beaches? Do you take obvious long hard looks at them or make comments possibly? Some may not see how that may passively humiliate him. Then again, some might see it and they may like the humiliation aspect to reverse some roles in a relationship.

As a male your husband has spent his entire life knowing that he will always be shorter than the vast majority of of other males and when you’re talking male sex humor and put downs he has always had to hide as the butt of most jokes.

Now, take a tick and try to imagine why he may feel self conscious when he thinks the one person he cares most about in the world wants something he’ll never be able to give her.

I don’t know, maybe you’re just subtly hinting around for a DM friend to fuel you and hubby’s cuckold humiliation desires. Or maybe just someone to say it’s fine to have them. If so, no problem, there is no such thing as “normal” you can desire anything and everything you like.

Good luck.
 

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My husband was always jealous of men who are well hung. What I mean when I say well hung is big cock and big low hanging balls. If we go to a nude beach and there are guys who are hung my husband will not get undressed. He is ashamed of his 4 3/4 cock and very small balls compare to some of the guys on the beach. My husband also knows that I love a big set of balls slapping my ass when we have sex and since he is too small to provide that sort of feeling I get off just watching hung guys with low hanging balls and just think about them when we have sex. What can I say he does not have that type of equipment. It may sound mean to what I am saying but it is the true.
If his flaccid cock is 4 3/4 inches he nothing to be ashamed of at a nude beach. Lots of guys balls tighter up in that environment so I imagine the big low hangers are the exception
 
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If his flaccid cock is 4 3/4 inches he nothing to be ashamed of at a nude beach. Lots of guys balls tighter up in that environment so I imagine the big low hangers are the exception
Hi to answer your question his cock is 4 3/4 erect and his balls are always tight just hang 2 inches. His one ball is about 1 inch in length and the other ball is 1 1/2 inches in length. He got those measurement when he has a sonogram done on them. Do you think he is small now?
 
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Hi to answer your question his cock is 4 3/4 erect and his balls are always tight just hang 2 inches. His one ball is about 1 inch in length and the other ball is 1 1/2 inches in length. He got those measurement when he has a sonogram done on them. Do you think he is small now?
How small is he soft since I assume he is not walking around the beach erect. BTW I am 2x3 soft and my balls are probably the same as his. I used to have to pull on them to get them to come down my sac was so tight. I grow to 5x4 and my wife never complains !
 
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How small is he soft since I assume he is not walking around the beach erect. BTW I am 2x3 soft and my balls are probably the same as his. I used to have to pull on them to get them to come down my sac was so tight. I grow to 5x4 and my wife never complains !
Soft he is about 3 inches.
 
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You seem to be enjoying pointing your husbands small cock and explaining why you will fucking a big one soon? do I misread. if you like letting me know their cock is small, really enjoy- maybe we can chat too sometime!
 
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Your husband sounds like he’s bigger than me when flaccid yet I have no problem being naked and am an avid naturist with a happy wife… try giving him a confidence boost, maybe compare him to my photo View attachment 109432761
Yes I will show him, Yes you are very small. I don't even see any balls if you don't mind me saying this. Thanks.
 
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Yes I will show him, Yes you are very small. I don't even see any balls if you don't mind me saying this. Thanks.
I do have balls but they’re not very big and are prone to retracting into my body cavity - my wife says I have “Ken doll” balls
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I do have balls but they’re not very big and are prone to retracting into my body cavity - my wife says I have “Ken doll” balls
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Do you resort to having a ( proxy ) cock in your bed so that you can all be satisfied ??? I only ask because I once was the proxy cock and we all got along great ;) .....
 
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I’m not seeing a question or request for an opinion here. You seemed to have a pretty certain feeling about what seems to be your husbands issue. But is it? Is it just his issue? I didn’t hear you say that you enjoy sex with your husband. Somebody asked something like (how does he do with what he has?) and I don’t think you answered.

Why ARE you with him? How important is your desire for a bigger man? What do you do when he reacts negatively to other larger men on at nude beaches? Do you take obvious long hard looks at them or make comments possibly? Some may not see how that may passively humiliate him. Then again, some might see it and they may like the humiliation aspect to reverse some roles in a relationship.

As a male your husband has spent his entire life knowing that he will always be shorter than the vast majority of of other males and when you’re talking male sex humor and put downs he has always had to hide as the butt of most jokes.

Now, take a tick and try to imagine why he may feel self conscious when he thinks the one person he cares most about in the world wants something he’ll never be able to give her.

I don’t know, maybe you’re just subtly hinting around for a DM friend to fuel you and hubby’s cuckold humiliation desires. Or maybe just someone to say it’s fine to have them. If so, no problem, there is no such thing as “normal” you can desire anything and everything you like.

Good luck.
Hi to answer some of your questions. Sex with my husband is OK not great but OK. I was married once before. My husband was about 8 inches and had low hanging big balls. I loved the feeling of them slapping against me when having sex. Now my husband is much smaller. Yes I love him but sex is OK not great. And I do get off humiliating him when I see hung men on the beach, Maybe I am trying to cuckhold him it might seem but he seems to enjoy it sometimes when I comment look at the size of the balls on that guy.
 
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