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My husband just put a chastity on me yesterday. This is my first time. Was wondering if anyone has any advice. so far really enjoying it but he isn't sure how long to leave it on.
The first two weeks are the hardest part. The night time erections can be painful. After about 14 days your body will give up on stiffening and the cage will just feel like a part of you.
 

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The first two weeks are the hardest part. The night time erections can be painful. After about 14 days your body will give up on stiffening and the cage will just feel like a part of you.
About a month after locking up, I noticed that my nipples and hole were becoming MUCH more responsive! If you enjoy analsex, you are in luck! Long term chastity will make you a better bottom.
 

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About a month after locking up, I noticed that my nipples and hole were becoming MUCH more responsive! If you enjoy analsex, you are in luck! Long term chastity will make you a better bottom.
Thanks! It has only been a day and he has fucked me 3 times because I am just so turned on all the time. This is a totally new feeling. he said he will decide when I can be let out and that makes me so hot.
 

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What? How do you even wash yourself Properly in the shower with a cage around your cock??

The standard for responsible use of cock cages is that they be removed at least weekly for thorough cleaning of the bodily area, and the cage itself. Some cage users even do the thorough cleaning daily. For those who don't remove on a daily basis, it's still necessary that soap be worked in between the skin and the cage. And then drying is especially imperative. I've seen blow drying for 15 minutes after showering advised.

It is somewhat involved. Some users observe proper hygiene, but I'm sure others don't, as it's tedious.
 
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The standard for responsible use of cock cages is that they be removed at least weekly for thorough cleaning of the bodily area, and the cage itself. Some cage users even do the thorough cleaning daily. For those who don't remove on a daily basis, it's still necessary that soap be worked in between the skin and the cage. And then drying is especially imperative. I've seen blow drying for 15 minutes after showering advised.

It is somewhat involved. Some users observe proper hygiene, but I'm sure others don't, as it's tedious.
Wow I hope they come with an instruction manual for all you guys sake.
 

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What? How do you even wash yourself Properly in the shower with a cage around your cock??
Washing is not a problem. Like has been said i just thoroughly work the soap in and rinse thoroughly. I do the hair drier trick. He has let me out once for a full cleaning but once out of the shower i was right back in the cage. really has been an experience and feels that I can't really describe. All that I can say is I am horny A LOT but nothing I can do about it myself. he has total control over my pleasure.
 

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Washing is not a problem. Like has been said i just thoroughly work the soap in and rinse thoroughly. I do the hair drier trick. He has let me out once for a full cleaning but once out of the shower i was right back in the cage. really has been an experience and feels that I can't really describe. All that I can say is I am horny A LOT but nothing I can do about it myself. he has total control over my pleasure.


Ok! Whatever works for you guys.

I’m only speaking for myself and not trying to be a negative Nancy but if i’m husband (i’m not married or have a bf) ever dare to put a cock cage on me. I’m serving him the divorce paper at breakfast the next day.
 

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Ok! Whatever works for you guys.

I’m only speaking for myself and not trying to be a negative Nancy but if i’m husband (i’m not married or have a bf) ever dare to put a cock cage on me. I’m serving him the divorce paper at breakfast the next day.

Usually it's not initiated unless interest and consent is established beforehand.
 
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Usually it's not initiated unless interest and consent is established beforehand.

Yeah, I’ll just smile and nod my head at whatever he says while trying to recall a divorce lawyer’s phone number in my head.

On the next morning. I’ll cook him a big English breakfast with 2 harsh-browns, bakebeans, bacons, eggs + spinach. Then I’ll pour him a glass of orange juice and then BAM! i’ll slam the table with the divorce paper, ‘Eat this! You son of a bitch!’ And stomp right out to my car and drive to a cheap motel for the night.

Serves him right for even thinking/suggesting a cock cage idea to me.
 
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My husband just put a chastity on me yesterday. This is my first time. Was wondering if anyone has any advice. so far really enjoying it but he isn't sure how long to leave it on.

What device are you locked into? And what was the reason your partner wanted you locked up?
 

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What device are you locked into? And what was the reason your partner wanted you locked up?
I'm locked in the Cobra:

Complete Cobra Chastity Kit

and it was more me that wanted to try it. I wanted to explore more into kink. It really turns me on when he dominates me and this is like total control cause I can't even sneak off to the shower to jerk off if I want to.... and I WANT to A LOT! He is getting more into it but still doesn't quite understand the feelings it gives me. and it is different for every person but I know so far I am enjoying it.
 

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Yeah, I’ll just smile and nod my head at whatever he says while trying to recall a divorce lawyer’s phone number in my head.

On the next morning. I’ll cook him a big English breakfast with 2 harsh-browns, bakebeans, bacons, eggs + spinach. Then I’ll pour him a glass of orange juice and then BAM! i’ll slam the table with the divorce paper, ‘Eat this! You son of a bitch!’ And stomp right out to my car and drive to a cheap motel for the night.

Serves him right for even thinking/suggesting a cock cage idea to me.

My point being that if you had a husband, and he was behaving according to ethical kink standards, at most what you would get would be "I'm kind of into X; does that idea interest you at all?" and if you responded "No, not at all." that's where the consideration of you potentially being involved in it would terminate. There would be no putting a cage on you, nor even attempting to, nor even suggesting that he'd like to try it with you.

If just that alone would be offensive to you, I don't know what to say. I'm not sure why you're so sensitive about simple discussion of an idea.
 

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I'm locked in the Cobra:

Complete Cobra Chastity Kit

and it was more me that wanted to try it. I wanted to explore more into kink. It really turns me on when he dominates me and this is like total control cause I can't even sneak off to the shower to jerk off if I want to.... and I WANT to A LOT! He is getting more into it but still doesn't quite understand the feelings it gives me. and it is different for every person but I know so far I am enjoying it.

The Cobra looks like a good device. I've had experience with the CB line of cages. It's been a few months now since your initial post. How do you feel about being locked in the Cobra? Full time or from time to time?
 

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I did 15 days the after the first post then he let me out. It has been a few days here and there since. This morning he told me that after he gets home from the store he will let me cum and then I'm back in the cage until he decides to let me out. I'm so excited!
 

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Great you're excited. Sounds like your husband is coming along with your interests - all good. I think my longest stay in a CB6000 was about two weeks. The Cobra looks even more comfortable. I think you'll find the scene enjoyable. You might want to reach an agreement with your husband before your next lock-up about the circumstances when you'll be out of the Cobra again - aside from hygiene breaks. Like maybe he'll let you out after you've done some specific thing well, or any other specific situation. Up to you two. Otherwise you may be facing an extended future with no hard-on's
 

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we talked last night and he enjoys giving me blowjobs so he said it won't be forever but he does like the fact he is in total control of my pleasure and I can't sneak off and watch porn and get off. He said he will let me out only to get off with him and then right back in the cage. (other than weekly cleaning of course) I am so happy he has gotten into this.
 

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With the discussion you mentioned, it sounds like this could become a stable situation - with you locked up most of the time. So, do you use a gym? Will you be able to shower? Or at a sauna? One thing sure, no side action for you at any of these places. And making side action impossible was the motivation behind my being in chastity. Definitely worked
 
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haven't been to the gym because of the pandemic but do go for jogs and bike rides. So far very comfortable. Yes and no side action that is for sure. Showering isn't a problem. Just work the soap between the cage and skin and rinse thoroughly. Then use a hair dryer to make sure everything is nice and dry.
 
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