Has anyone been in a simailar situation? My husband has been dealing with prostate issues for the past 8 years. He has not had sex with me in the last 6 or 7 years. I thought is was because his prostate causes him pain. Recently I found a box of porn and a fleshlight in the closet. So now I think he just doesn't want me. Is is possible that he still loves me and he just doesn't find me attractive? I don't think he is seeing anyone on the side.