Husband troubles!Please help

[hud01]

Petite-to answer your question.on average three times a week.I am sure that;s not as much as most people on here.But when we are arguing or he says "Bitches be Crazy" week it's more like once a week.Typical make up sex when we say we are sorry to each other and rock out with really good passionate sex that makes you never want to fight again.Maybe I am very hormonal at times i don't know.Seems to happen once a month or so.My life is pretty Vanilla, i am at home all day and don't get out much.Sometimes I think I can dwell or focus too much on this situation that it overtakes me.The biggest thing was that he hid this from me for so long.I know he's given up on me and the sexual part of our marriage.He's not ever going to give up porn and masturbating, I just need something to help me get over it.

A couple of things, frist please use paragraph breaks for long posts. You should never have more thatn 3 or 4 sentences without breaking it. Too tough to read.

If he is not having sex with you, then you need counseling, for both of you.

Next porn is not bad, it is good.

 

[petite]

A couple of things, frist please use paragraph breaks for long posts. You should never have more thatn 3 or 4 sentences without breaking it. Too tough to read.

If he is not having sex with you, then you need counseling, for both of you.

Next porn is not bad, it is good.

I suspect she was a troll, which is why I stopped posting. She contradicted herself.

At first she made it sound like she wasn't getting enough sex, then later she made it sound like he demanded too much sex from her.

She never said that he asked her to have sex with other men, just that this was a part of his fantasy life. Then she said that she laughed at him when he wanted her to tell him sexy fantasies and that she thought it was wrong to even fantasize about her having sex with other men.

I don't think she's for real.

 

[dolfette]

he'd be wanking and daydreaming about this shit even if porn had never been invented.

it's normal.

why don't YOU look for porn you like, or try to find some erotica that appeals? why not think up fantasies of your own instead of just nodding & smiling along to his?

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

I suspect she was a troll, which is why I stopped posting. She contradicted herself.

....

I don't think she's for real.

oh "she's" still posting, just not on this thread

from yesterday

http://www.lpsg.org/149782-share-my-wife-12.html#post2652378

"she" may be for real.

just not a "she." :wink:

 

[petite]

oh "she's" still posting, just not on this thread

from yesterday

http://www.lpsg.org/149782-share-my-wife-12.html#post2652378

"she" may be for real.

just not a "she." :wink:

She said that she was on her husband's account. So "she" is either keeping up the ruse or if she's real then it's her husband.

 

[hud01]

oh "she's" still posting, just not on this thread

from yesterday

http://www.lpsg.org/149782-share-my-wife-12.html#post2652378

"she" may be for real.

just not a "she." :wink:

If you read all the posts here, you will find that "she" was posting here on her husband's account.

Who knows

 

[hud01]

I suspect she was a troll, which is why I stopped posting. She contradicted herself.

At first she made it sound like she wasn't getting enough sex, then later she made it sound like he demanded too much sex from her.

She never said that he asked her to have sex with other men, just that this was a part of his fantasy life. Then she said that she laughed at him when he wanted her to tell him sexy fantasies and that she thought it was wrong to even fantasize about her having sex with other men.

I don't think she's for real.

I skim read the posts, as I can't stand when people post 30 sentence paragraphs

 

[dolfette]

shared accounts are a nono here.

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

why can't people be content with posting in the fictitious stories forum?

 

[D_ZeThonginator]

Petite, I wanted you to know that even if your intended response was meant for someone else it has been nice to see your insight. Thanks for your contribution to this one, well worth it.

 

[petite]

Petite, I wanted you to know that even if your intended response was meant for someone else it has been nice to see your insight. Thanks for your contribution to this one, well worth it.

That was very sweet! Thank you!

 

[blkbro510]

I guess folks want a response to the plot of their stories. But if it is true, I hear that more and more porn are shifting to women viewership. Find porn that you guys can watch together.

why can't people be content with posting in the fictitious stories forum?

 

[Stretch]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Stretch http://www.lpsg.org/images/buttons/viewpost.gif
Petite...you're very sweet, but I think it's safe to say you can stop trying to give advice here.

Now, now, dahlin' -- play nice. :kiss:

now, now, Punny...I feel you've misunderstood me. Maybe my wording was confusing but my point was that the OP had, by that point, proved to be less then sincere. I only meant, and which Petite reiterated in her following post, that as sweet and heartfelt as her advice was, the OP was...to be polite once again...not sincere and, therefore, her advice was probably for naught.

So...Punny...always great to hear from you and hope we'll catch up again soon. :kiss:

Petite...now I'll reiterate...you are very sweet :smile:

 

[petite]

Petite...now I'll reiterate...you are very sweet :smile:

Thank you! :kiss:

 

[Drifterwood]

shared accounts are a nono here.

Who is the "husband" and has he been a member before June '09?

 

[freyasworld]

Tell him, instead of wanking over a keyboard, to pay you more attention, communicate, get him to ask you what your fantasies are and go out and make them happen.

He is on this planet for one purpose, to make sure you are happy, if not he can get off it and stop wasting oxygen. There will always be a guy or guys that want his job!

I read some of the threads on here and I am amazed and quiet frankly stunned by some of the comments, you are his universe, what he's doing maybe harmless, wanking over a keyboard! but it is obviously causing you some concern and you feel that your 2nd best. That's not acceptable behaviour in your relationship, so he has to stop! Simple!

 

[Drifterwood]

He is on this planet for one purpose, to make sure you are happy, if not he can get off it and stop wasting oxygen. There will always be a guy or guys that want his job!

I read some of the threads on here and I am amazed and quiet frankly stunned by some of the comments, you are his universe, what he's doing maybe harmless, wanking over a keyboard! but it is obviously causing you some concern and you feel that your 2nd best. That's not acceptable behaviour in your relationship, so he has to stop! Simple!

:lmao:

I am sorry, but I can't even begin to take your view seriously.

 

[dolfette]

He is on this planet for one purpose, to make sure you are happy, if not he can get off it and stop wasting oxygen.

why are her needs more important than his?

 

[dolfette]

:lmao:

I am sorry, but I can't even begin to take your view seriously.

i think it's insane.

 

[helgaleena]

Freya's world revolves around Freya, that's all. She gives advice on how to be more like Freya.