Geez, nothing like a good rape story to kick a thread off to a good start. To answer the original question, no i would not want to have my hymen tightened because i experience some extreme hymenal stretching with sex everytime. I'm thinking if you havent had sex with a big penis you might not realize that you can skip the entire surgery thing and get a good stretch, if not a small tear with the experience.
I have a tight hymen and have gone long periods of time without sex since i became sexually active and i never had my outer vaginal area tear until i had sex with my husband who was much girthier than everyone else before him.