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Hi all,
The title of this thread may not be exactly correct, but I couldn't think of a better word for it. I posted this in the SPH group too, but since it's pretty dead I thought I might get more replies here.
To provide some background - I think I'm fairly unique (not necessarily in a good way lol). Since I was a child I've felt like I should have been female. I grew up dressing privately in my sister's clothes, using her maxi pads to tuck my penis between my legs etc. This feeling didn't change once I became an adult. With that being said, I never transitioned and most likely never will. The best way I can explain it is that if I could choose to start my life over again I would 100% choose to be female. But I suppose I was okay enough with being male that in the end I decided it wasn't worth uprooting everything about my life to transition. This has resulted in a life in which I live as a male, but engage in any romantic/sexual relationships as a woman (and associate as a woman). I'm 100% a bottom. Anyway, I think that should set the stage well enough for my question.
Over the last several years I've developed an enjoyment of SPH. I really enjoy being a bitch under the right circumstances. Recently, I was casually dating a new guy. He was quite boastful about his sexual prowess and the size of his manhood. When things became intimate he did not measure up, like at all. Since he had been so arrogant about it I took the opportunity to put him in his place. He got extremely offended and called me a hypocrite (I also have a very small penis). I explained that unlike him, the size of my penis didn't matter much since I never used it to provide others with sexual pleasure. I then went on to ask if he would consider it hypocritical if a genetic woman criticized his small penis, since it's not like she would have a big penis either lol.
So what say you? Is it okay for me to engage in SPH even though I'm very small? Or is this man correct that I have no right to do so given my endowment?
Court
The title of this thread may not be exactly correct, but I couldn't think of a better word for it. I posted this in the SPH group too, but since it's pretty dead I thought I might get more replies here.
To provide some background - I think I'm fairly unique (not necessarily in a good way lol). Since I was a child I've felt like I should have been female. I grew up dressing privately in my sister's clothes, using her maxi pads to tuck my penis between my legs etc. This feeling didn't change once I became an adult. With that being said, I never transitioned and most likely never will. The best way I can explain it is that if I could choose to start my life over again I would 100% choose to be female. But I suppose I was okay enough with being male that in the end I decided it wasn't worth uprooting everything about my life to transition. This has resulted in a life in which I live as a male, but engage in any romantic/sexual relationships as a woman (and associate as a woman). I'm 100% a bottom. Anyway, I think that should set the stage well enough for my question.
Over the last several years I've developed an enjoyment of SPH. I really enjoy being a bitch under the right circumstances. Recently, I was casually dating a new guy. He was quite boastful about his sexual prowess and the size of his manhood. When things became intimate he did not measure up, like at all. Since he had been so arrogant about it I took the opportunity to put him in his place. He got extremely offended and called me a hypocrite (I also have a very small penis). I explained that unlike him, the size of my penis didn't matter much since I never used it to provide others with sexual pleasure. I then went on to ask if he would consider it hypocritical if a genetic woman criticized his small penis, since it's not like she would have a big penis either lol.
So what say you? Is it okay for me to engage in SPH even though I'm very small? Or is this man correct that I have no right to do so given my endowment?
Court