I probably should just be talking to my boyfriend about all of this, but instead, I'm talking to all of you because I'm too upset to think clearly and I want to poll advice to see if I'm just being selfish or what. Say your significant other has been alone all day long while you were at work. The two of you have hardly spoken except for a few scattered texts throughout the day. Your significant other lives twenty five minutes away, and woke up feeling horrible and depressed and complained all day about how much he wanted to see you that day. Let's, for argument's sake, say that two days previously, this same significant other drove down to see you at ten at night to comfort you because you were having a bad day, when he had work early the following morning. What would you do? Now, furthering the situation, if you would go home and relax and do nothing, and your significant other sent you a text saying, "Can I have some alone time" what would your response be? If you want, you can answer both questions, but I'm curious as to what you would all do, because if I'm the only one who would have driven up to see my significant other immediately after work, then I feel like jackasshole right now. Thanks in advance.