I’m A 40 Yo Virgin. Kinda...

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So, I just turned 40 years old in March. I haven’t had sex with woman, never saw a woman naked in real life (only when watching straight porn), the first and last time I saw a pair of breasts was when my gf from high school whipped them out in her kitchen. We just laughed. She was silly. Now... I’ve have my share of physical contact with men....sex as well... though not a lot. I don’t think that makes me a Virgin, but sure sounds good lol.. your thoughts?!!!
 

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I don't think you should be worried about having to be with a women to not be a virgin, your choice was to be with guys and that's all that matters. I think the traditional strait label virgin is lost once you have sex and in your case once you had sex with your partner its gone regardless of gender. don't let labels bother you enjoy yourself.
 
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I don't think you should be worried about having to be with a women to not be a virgin, your choice was to be with guys and that's all that matters. I think the traditional strait label virgin is lost once you have sex and in your case once you had sex with your partner its gone regardless of gender. don't let labels bother you enjoy yourself.
Thanks for taking the time to reply. I’ve been having my moments of sadness now that I’ve hit 40. I feel so weird although I know heterosexual sex doesn’t put a person on a greater platform... the thought just bothers me... how did I end up this way? I’m at the point now where I shun a woman’s touch (coworkers don’t know what personal space is)... and I’m not about to give it up to some slut who’ll just use me and move on. I’ve waited this long, so not going to just throw it away.
 

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Look man there is no right or wrong path in life we all travel different ones and that’s what makes use who we are, if you want a women in your life then you need to let one gat a little closer to you and see what happens. If nothing then lots of people live with same sex partners very happily also. If it’s the whole sex thing I’m 46 my first years as a teen was all exploring with boys till I was 18 then I got married to my wife for 28 years now but I also long for the days of my youth and male contact cause I had fun. I had an accident 5 years ago and got a second chance too life , live life to the fullest and do what ever makes you happy don’t worry about others opinion trust me my life changed in an instant you never know.
 
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. I’ve been having my moments of sadness now that I’ve hit 40. I feel so weird although I know heterosexual sex doesn’t put a person on a greater platform... the thought just bothers me... how did I end up this way? I’m at the point now where I shun a woman’s touch (coworkers don’t know what personal space is)... and I’m not about to give it up to some slut who’ll just use me and move on. I’ve waited this long, so not going to just throw it away.

If you are attracted to women then go for it. You may find that you enjoy both. If not then you will have at least lost your straight cherry LOL
 
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If you are attracted to women then go for it. You may find that you enjoy both. If not then you will have at least lost your straight cherry LOL
Thanks, dude. That was fun what you wrote. I just can’t let a woman touch me though...I see no worth in it until I’m married otherwise it’s a waste of my long time “virginity”. I see and love their beauty, wit, and brains, but I’m not giving it up until I’m married (i.e. in love)... if that ever happens.
 

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Wow, man. You said a mouthful. I’m speechless... really... but intrigued now as well
Look man there is no right or wrong path in life we all travel different ones and that’s what makes use who we are, if you want a women in your life then you need to let one gat a little closer to you and see what happens. If nothing then lots of people live with same sex partners very happily also. If it’s the whole sex thing I’m 46 my first years as a teen was all exploring with boys till I was 18 then I got married to my wife for 28 years now but I also long for the days of my youth and male contact cause I had fun. I had an accident 5 years ago and got a second chance too life , live life to the fullest and do what ever makes you happy don’t worry about others opinion trust me my life changed in an instant you never know.
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