I’m A Sex Addict, And It’s Frustrating.

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I’m a diagnosed sex addict and it sucks.

It’s so frustrating. All I think about is sex.

Masturbation, pornography, sex.

I engage in risky behavior, like going bareback, public sex, exhibitionism, sex with married people, people I shouldn’t engage with, and so on.

I spend too much money on Chaturbate. Over 1k in a month.

I don’t care if it’s a man or a woman, I’ll have sec with them.

If the topic of sex comes up, even if it’s not to turn anyone on, I instantly get hard.

I neglect taking care of my loved ones, or doing my everyday duties because I’m either sexting, jerking off, watching porn, or (before the pandemic) having sex.

I’ve been really tempted to hook up with a bunch of people, but scared to do so because of the pandemic.

I’ve tried not engaging with sex, porn, etc., but it just makes the situation worse.

I also don’t want to give up sex and jerking off. It’s healthy. It’s a part of life.

I’ve tried therapy, but no luck...

Anyone else in a similar situation?
 
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I'm fascinated by sex. It's one of the reasons why I'm here. But I do not allow it to become a destructive force in my life.

It boils down to moderation. Treat it like a recreational drug as opposed to it being a part of your daily diet. Easier said than done. But can be done. Good luck!
 

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I can relate. Sex thoughts, porn, fantasies etc are my release. And of course sexual encounters. And now with the pandemic its even easier cuz the guys/girls are hornier than ever and just come straight to the house. No need to go out for drinks dinner movies etc lol.

I do chaturbate. Love it.

Just embrace your high sex drive. As long as everything is between consenting adults who cares?
 
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I guess you’re right. I just think of wax 24/7. Not sure how healthy that is LOL.
 

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If it werent for the risky sexual behaviors Id simply say you just have a self control issue, because mindset wise I dont think you're describing too different a situation than many of the sexually minded posters in this forum. Id work on restraint 1st, then see if the sexual thoughts and urges are as harmful as previously thought.
 
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I was hypersexual in my early to late 20s and I also engaged in a lot of risky behaviors. Drug and liquor fueled one night stands, unprotected sex with girls I barely knew, orgies, threesomes, multiple partners in one day, public sex, chronic masturbation, etc. I was an addict with a constant need for sexual activity. Not having a refractory period didn't help either, I had a girlfriend at one point who was great but she could not keep up with my constant craving and I ended up breaking up with her so I could go back to being promiscuous with multiple women instead of sleeping with people behind her back. It was a really dark time for me, and I view that as one of my life's biggest mistakes. My breaking point came when I fucked a girl unprotected and she later admitted to me that she had herpes. Thankfully I did not contract it, but it was a wake up call. I talked to someone and they suggested that I get help.

Therapy helped me get to the root cause of my addiction, and while I am a very sexual person still, I can better control my impulses and decision making to where I'm not making self harmful decisions. Sex no longer dominates my life.

I hope you can get the help you need. It's not easy.
 

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Sex addict here too. I never knew it could be this addicting. There have been days I did porn and intense dick play and edging all day, literally. In my personal experience pleasure sensations are heightened so much more than usual. I've been on Cialis for about three years due to the awful condition of cock turtling. By the way, Cialis works great for this issue.. But, the sensations are so much more than normal on Cialis that I just can't stop. I have mind blowing orgasms and a short session for me lasts 2-3 hours. I find myself neglecting so much but somehow seem to keep everything at home going. I had a friend who was a lot worse than me. He'd call me at midnight, get horny then tell his wife he was running to Wal Mart to get something. When in his car I'd hear the traffic around him and hear him furiously jacking his cock, moaning uncontrollably and shooting his cum while driving down the road. It's hot but can be so consuming. Right now I've been edging for three hours but am about to make myself stop.
 

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I’m a diagnosed sex addict and it sucks.

It’s so frustrating. All I think about is sex.

Masturbation, pornography, sex.

I engage in risky behavior, like going bareback, public sex, exhibitionism, sex with married people, people I shouldn’t engage with, and so on.

I spend too much money on Chaturbate. Over 1k in a month.

I don’t care if it’s a man or a woman, I’ll have sec with them.

If the topic of sex comes up, even if it’s not to turn anyone on, I instantly get hard.

I neglect taking care of my loved ones, or doing my everyday duties because I’m either sexting, jerking off, watching porn, or (before the pandemic) having sex.

I’ve been really tempted to hook up with a bunch of people, but scared to do so because of the pandemic.

I’ve tried not engaging with sex, porn, etc., but it just makes the situation worse.

I also don’t want to give up sex and jerking off. It’s healthy. It’s a part of life.

I’ve tried therapy, but no luck...

Anyone else in a similar situation?


This isn’t safe space, so I’m going to say it.
I LOVE when fake women out themsleves
 
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I am what I call my self male nymphomaniac. Has caused problems in the marriage and have looked outside for satisfaction. Try to get distracted, work, hobbies, kids, grand kids etc etc. Actually consider myself lucky to have my drive, libido and erghes at my age of 66. Love chasing tits, ass, pussy and.cocks.
 
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How does sex addiction occur as I have that? How can I/we stop thinking about sex all the time?
 
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I’m a diagnosed sex addict and it sucks.

It’s so frustrating. All I think about is sex.

Masturbation, pornography, sex.

I engage in risky behavior, like going bareback, public sex, exhibitionism, sex with married people, people I shouldn’t engage with, and so on.

I spend too much money on Chaturbate. Over 1k in a month.

I don’t care if it’s a man or a woman, I’ll have sec with them.

If the topic of sex comes up, even if it’s not to turn anyone on, I instantly get hard.

I neglect taking care of my loved ones, or doing my everyday duties because I’m either sexting, jerking off, watching porn, or (before the pandemic) having sex.

I’ve been really tempted to hook up with a bunch of people, but scared to do so because of the pandemic.

I’ve tried not engaging with sex, porn, etc., but it just makes the situation worse.

I also don’t want to give up sex and jerking off. It’s healthy. It’s a part of life.

I’ve tried therapy, but no luck...

Anyone else in a similar situation?
i mean i will chat with you if your around and if you want message me any time :D
 

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Anyone want to send me naked selfies?
 
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Anyone want to send me naked selfies?

Poor form. There are many places on this forum one would be joyously received for soliciting nudes but you post in a thread where people are talking about an addiction?
 
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Poor form. There are many places on this forum one would be joyously received for soliciting nudes but you post in a thread where people are talking about an addiction?
You ever think I might be addicted to anonymous sexting?
 
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Sometimes I think I'm the same way. I'm in a LTR but still want to go out for more sex. I legit stopped a few years ago after getting caught but still it is on my mind constantly. I want to be gang fucked, that's a fantasy. A three way would be fun but BF won't hear of it. Even a massage is off limits. I jack off any chance I get to sort of satisfy the itch.