I’m having a gay Massage

[Example36]

I’ve had it before from this guy and he’s a bottom and he made it clear he wanted me to fuck him. There was no sign of a condom…..should I do it or just steer clear??

 

[calneva]

Do you want to fuck him?

If so, are you on PrEP? Do you know his status? If he's undetectable, you don't have HIV to worry about - especially if you're also on PrEP.

Instead of guessing about any of it, clear communication is probably a good idea. If he wants you to fuck him and bareback is a deal breaker - just tell him.

 

[wvgwm52]

i been fucked by alot of guys--i have fucked alot of guys and even few women---over 37 yrs--and i never used condoms---had a bad experience when i was younger--and swore no other condom was going inside me--

 

[Brodie888]

My general rule is that if you need to ask if you need a condom.... You need a condom.

 

[calneva]

One more thing. In today's world - one is responsible for one's sexual health.

We don't live in a world of rainbows and unicorns and lollipops and lemonade.

The only way to ensure your own sexual health - is to be responsible for it yourself.

People may and do tell you whatever they need to tell you to get what they want.

I haven't used condoms in years. I've been fucked and fucked 100s of guys who are HIV+. All of them have said they're undetectable. But I use PrEP because that way I don't have to trust them.

Yes - I've been gifted with some other STIs - but all of them are treatable.

Use your judgement - but ultimately it comes down to you.

 

[deleted15329811]

I would bring condoms with you in case you want to fuck, definitely wouldnt raw dog it! Also think about it how many guys is he offering this service to? And id definitely go on prep!