I’m Jealous Of My Wife’s Ex Lovers Endowment

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My wife once told me when we were drunk that one of her long time lovers was ‘hung like a horse’ in her words!

it did come as a blow to the ego as I’ve always wanted to be bigger, I’ve always been a believer that bigger is better. Are my assumptions right that I could never fuck her as well as he could?

honest answers please boys and girls
 
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My wife once told me when we were drunk that one of her long time lovers was ‘hung like a horse’ in her words!

it did come as a blow to the ego as I’ve always wanted to be bigger, I’ve always been a believer that bigger is better. Are my assumptions right that I could never fuck her as well as he could?

honest answers please boys and girls

She's with you. Not him. That's what's important.
 

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She's with you. Not him. That's what's important.
I so wish this was the long and the short of the advice to offer in this situation but this:
Would she be though if he hadn’t have left her for someone else?
implies that there are valid questions you may have about the health and future of your marriage(that probably should've been resolved prior to marriage, but here we are)
Besides drunkeness what context was your wifes ex lover's endowment brought up? Everybody shares their past to a certain extent but love and respect tend to dictate things you could never live up to nor achieve arent shared, so why was she so comfortable in doing so?
I dont think its an illogical jump to infer that her being dumped by a man with a larger penis may have some bearing as to why she was willing to marry you. I don't think you should take it as a blow to your ego, but as an opportunity to get some clarity about the state of your relationship whether it's something to preserve or move on from to find a woman that will appreciate what you have to offer.
 
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Would she be though if he hadn’t have left her for someone else? If it was purely up to her?
Regardless, she is still with you. Get over it buy her a big dildo or a cock sleeve and have some fun.
 
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Why regardless? If your sister or some other woman you cared about talked about her spouse/significant other drunkenly waxing poetic over an exes physical proportions(that left him)he is aware attacks her insecurities and she can never achieve, would you tell her to simply get over it or have discussion to get some clarity?
Most people that care for and truly love their spouses actively arent trying to divulge anything that they know would trip their partners insecurities. Unless OP made the mistake of asking directly, i think its worth it to inquire why she felt compelled to offer up such salacious info...i d be interested in hearing other context of their relationship at the time or leading up to that point.
 
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What she said should have been a boost for your ego - not a blow. Realize she ultimately chose you as husband and thus does not believe "bigger is better". Ignore the past and be happy to be her chosen husband weapondavid.

 
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But she didnt choose, the choice was made for her. I recommend anyone to be wary of being the supposed "choice" after a previous rejection, especially if the new "choice" is lacking in something that was obviously appealing in the previous rejector(as per OPs wife). My guess she wasnt drunkenly waxing poetic about how useless or uncomfortable her previous lover's endowment was.
This is beyond simply a question of penis size. This could have been income, height, social status, etc., there is a marked difference between leaving that because it wasnt sufficient to keep them happy(to which Id advise OP to simply appreciate and trust her choice) and being left to make rebound decisions.
 
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My ex mentioned her ex one time as being ridiculously huge.
Still haven't forgotten that after 25 years, she also said that seeing a guy stand in front of her with a huge dick was such a turn on she just can't not say no to it.
So yes, size means more than the words being said.
 

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if you're life is all about dick-size then yes, this will follow you to the end of time since she has literally attacked your sole reason for existence; understandable and you are correct to behave as you've shared.

with that said, you need to step out of that mindset and come to the real world where life is more than a big dick. nothing anyone says will change that for you so until you open your eyes and see the realities of life, you'll stay in this mentality forever.
 

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My wife once told me when we were drunk that one of her long time lovers was ‘hung like a horse’ in her words!

it did come as a blow to the ego as I’ve always wanted to be bigger, I’ve always been a believer that bigger is better. Are my assumptions right that I could never fuck her as well as he could?

honest answers please boys and girls
She is with you now.

Quit tripping. She likes you a lot.
 
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She is with you now
That's an operative phrase if I've ever heard one.

Subjectively OP stop worrying about your dick, you listen to enough women around here and they'll tell you it's a problem you only create for yourself...
But objectively dont be naive, divorce rate is over 50% with anywhere from 70-90% of those break ups initiated by women which implies womens general dissatisfaction is a lot more ubiquitous than we want to admit for ourselves. You cant predict nor prevent a future where this may happen to you eventually, but you can proactively gird yourself by demanding some honesty and accountability and either getting it or at least a better perspective of the future outlook of your marriage.
Plenty of men have died alone and broken because it was so much easier and more comforting to let stuff go only to be caught unaware and unprepared down the line.
 
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If you are a caring, loving partner and use all your tools to give her pleasure, why should she miss the prick with the bigger dick? :)
Just care for what you have. Her love.
 
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If she married him knowing the size of his dick then she is fine with it. I'm small, I know my wife had bigger dicks then mine and it doesn't bother me in the least. I have a cock sleeve to change things up a bit and have some fun.
 

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Does it really matter? That was in the past and has absolutely nothing to do with you.. What u need to do is concentrate what is going on with you and your wife now...

Now if she is constantly throwing it in your face, that is one thing but that doesn’t seem to be the case here...
 

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I'm just going to say this...before my wife married me she had many partners. Were there some big cocks in there? She said quite a few. Does it bother me? No. She said that most of the time they didn't know how to use them or were only interested in their own pleasure. I'm not huge..only seven by about six. But you know what? Size was way at the bottom of why I am married to her and not some huge cock guy. In fact she has told me more than once that size for her was never a determining factor for anything. Be happy...your wife obviously loves YOU..not your cock size nor anyone else's.
 
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I'm just going to say this...before my wife married me she had many partners. Were there some big cocks in there? She said quite a few. Does it bother me? No. She said that most of the time they didn't know how to use them or were only interested in their own pleasure. I'm not huge..only seven by about six. But you know what? Size was way at the bottom of why I am married to her and not some huge cock guy. In fact she has told me more than once that size for her was never a determining factor for anything. Be happy...your wife obviously loves YOU..not your cock size nor anyone else's.
7x6 is way bigger than average. Average is about 5.5 x 5


You’re giving her plenty
 
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