I’m monogamous, but what’s it like to sleep around?

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I’ve been with in a relationship for a very long time and now I’m just curious what it’s like to hook up? How does the trust form? Is it weird smelling and tasting different guys?
 

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The question you need to ask yourself is that if you're in a perfectly good and monogamous relationship, why would you even wonder about going outside the relationship?

Answer this and I'll give you proper advice and caveats.
 

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I’ve always enjoyed the attitude.. more the merrier .. from sex one on one with other guys or threesomes gangbangs/orgies

Seemed like the more I was with the more I wanted.. the variety of cock .. they all feel different in their own way.. then there’s different ways they fuck .. some casual to a little rough then power tops that pound your ass hard and firm deep thrusts..

Then depends if you want to explore a more extreme side of bondage and kinky stuff
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There are times I wondered what be like to be with just one guy.. I was for few years.. but I’d be wishing I was back out there see I could get to let me suck them and fuck me next..


If you are happy with your life now.. then stay that way .. if your partner says it’s ok then still puts a dent in your relation and the trust is gone .. I’ve seen a guy and his girlfriend invite a third ( a male— it was me ). And he wanted to see her get fucked by a guy with a bigger dick than his .. he was barely 5 I am near 9 ..


But before the night happened he and I did it few times as he’d been wanting fucked by a guy for a while as his girlfriend would use a strap on on him..

It was the night it happened . We talked about what to do and not to do.. what they wanted to do and he even commented on how he’d get in front of me and let his girlfriend suck his dick while I fucked her and rimmed his ass .. I was like “ok “

After I fucked her for a while he says fuck her in the ass and she says no at first as that wasn’t part of the plan .. then she says she’d do it if he would .. so I did her in the ass.. she acted like I was killing her as I did it..

Then I rimmed his ass as she watched her bf on his hands and knees ass out as I rimmed him.. and then I fucked him.. I fucked him hard as she told me to and he took it ..

Then I came inside him ..

All said and done.. a week later he comes over with a bunch of his stuff in back of his truck.. his clothes and game system tv and few other odds and ends ..

They got into an arguement about how he enjoyed that cock in his ass too much.. .. that he needed to admit he was gay and move out .. so he came to my place to crash for a while ..


I had two spare bedrooms.. he puts his stuff in one of them but never used the room .. as all of his gay side he’s been hiding for years.. he decided to do it all and be gay ..


So be careful if you don’t wanna ruin the relationship you have now
 

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Hookups are fun, but IMO never as good as with someone you know and really trust. The best "intense" sex I've ever had was with a guy I randomly hooked up with, our physical chemistry was insane and everything just completely clicked between us. The problem, for me at least, is that no matter how amazing hookup sex is, it's never really fulfilling or satisfying for long, it just leads to more empty hookups.

It's not a bad thing necessarily, but its very different from the type of sex you have with someone you love and actually trust. There is a real thrill on seeing a guy's cock or hole for the first time, and exploring someone's body that you've never met before, but after you've been through enough hookups it starts to all feel the same.

As far as taste and smell, the best case scenario is you taste and smell nothing bad. But when you live the sluttly hookup lifestyle, beggars can't be chosers and sometimes you get a guy that's a little off.
 
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I’ve been with in a relationship for a very long time and now I’m just curious what it’s like to hook up? How does the trust form? Is it weird smelling and tasting different guys?
A way of building trust is being honest with each other. We don't do anything in secret. It's all out in the open.

My partner and I have an open relationship. We go with other couples and on solo 'dates' with other people. I'm accustomed to having sex with different people. Especially going to swinger parties, where I had sex with women who are complete strangers. I've had sex with white, black, latina and asian women. Lean, curvy, tall, short, big/small butt/tits and varying ages. There is alot of variety out there. And alot of wild stuff goes on....
 

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I wa ma to busy whoring around sucking any cock I could and fucking and/or getting fucked .. I never worried about relationships until I was 30.. then I dated a younger fellow… 19.. for 8 months just to find out he was cheating on me.. so I said to hell with it.. I wasn’t going to fall in love with someone that can’t be committed and not cheat