So, I have a very good friend who is straight. We see each other like once a month (cuz we don’t live in the same city) and usually we are together with other friends. We are really good friends but not like BFFs. The thing is, I made out with him twice already, but we were really drunk. But I want more. I want to see his dick and if possible also I’d love to suck him. I’m pretty sure he’s like this straight guy but that he’d be down for some jerking off together, I just don’t know what move to make and how to approach him. Any advice? He’s for sure straight but very open minded… He’s always very touchy and it drives me crazy
I'm confused, you have a very good friend who is straight but you've made out with him twice already when you both had been drinking?
What led to the two of you making out the previous times? Why did those encounters go no further? Did someone interrupt? Or did one of you put the brakes on? If so, why?
What is his romantic situation? Does he have a girlfriend or did he at the time you two made out? If he doesn't have a girlfriend, is he looking for one? What about you? Are you in the closet or in any way guarded with your sexuality?
Next- How good a friend is this guy to you?
If he reacts to you with disgust and shoves you off or tries to kick your ass, can you handle that and understand it could be one potential scenario?
If you never saw this friend again, would it bother you? Would you miss his presence? If this friend shuns you, will friends you share in common do the same?
You get your sexual encounter but you lose the friend. Will it still be worth it?
You need to do some research on what he likes, his hobbies, things that interest him- if you share some with him, half your job is done. Because what you’re going to want to do is to maximize face time and one on one time with him preferably with legal alcohol available. DO NOT DOSE THIS GUY IN ANYWAY. Do you understand?
As he loosens up, find a way to keep the two of you sheltered from unnecessary intrusions and casually bring up one of the times you guys made out- make like no big deal, but compliment him on his kissing ability.
Maintain eye contact. Don't be creepy stare guy, but when you look away, do it slowly, almost like his eyes and yours are glued together and it takes some effort to look away.
Work in some more drinks and bring up something like a lot of guys that kiss that good are one hit wonders, but that's not the case with him since he really blew your mind that second time. And man, you haven't had a kiss that good in while or since.
Eye contact and flirty laughing, light stroking of arms, and knees.
Work in how you’re curious to see what else he's got to play with.
There. Straight Boy Seduction Basics.
They like to prove themselves, wrestling, sexual stamina, penis size, etc. You tell some story about some dude you knew when you were younger and on a dare you had to compare dicks. Either the guy was huge and you doubt there are any that big common, or he was underwhelming and you’re convinced you have a huge dick or something.
If he hesitates on showing, you can encourage him by saying if he really had a big dick, why hide that? implying that he will be assumed to have a small dick if he doesn't actually whip it out.
A lot of straight boy seduction is built on patience, acceptance, and a preexisting pristine secret keeper reputation. He's got to know you won't yap to anyone. Or he's got to believe you have a considerable stake in this all remaining between the two of you.
It also helps to have a flexible play guideline - if at any point he wants to tap out, he can and will enjoy the same discretion and that you’re around if he changes his mind in the future.
So, are you sure you want to try to escalate things further? Doing so runs the risk of losing a friend.
Doing nothing when you already have a strong foundation on which you can work off of would be a bit of a wasted potential. Obviously, dude is curious and open- otherwise you wouldn't have made out with him twice already.