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hey, so I’m 21 and i live in New York City. So you’d think that at this age I’d be having sex all the time. But the problem is, I haven’t had sex with any man.
I’ve pretty much been insecure aside from suffering from depression and stuff like that since i was 13 until a few years ago.
Anyway, the point is, I want to start having sex with guys, but I don’t know how, or where to start. I also want to find a Bf (or gf, because I’m bisexual) but i don’t know how to go about getting one. I’m not a feminine man, and I’m not very open about my sexuality. I don’t go to LGBT events or anything like that he because those kinda events aren’t my thing. I don’t really want to use Grindr because I don’t know how safe it is. I’ve talked to a few guys, on there but nothing ever happens because I used to get scared to meet up and stuff like that. But recently I’ve met a guy or two that i was actually willing to have sex with but things just didn’t work out, so Grindr isn’t helping.I hate tinder and i don’t really want to resort to that for sex.
Any advice is very much appreciated. I’ve literally been horny all my life and I’m getting tired of not having a partner or friend with benefits. It’s so hard to find guys that are my type and around my age in NYC
I’ve pretty much been insecure aside from suffering from depression and stuff like that since i was 13 until a few years ago.
Anyway, the point is, I want to start having sex with guys, but I don’t know how, or where to start. I also want to find a Bf (or gf, because I’m bisexual) but i don’t know how to go about getting one. I’m not a feminine man, and I’m not very open about my sexuality. I don’t go to LGBT events or anything like that he because those kinda events aren’t my thing. I don’t really want to use Grindr because I don’t know how safe it is. I’ve talked to a few guys, on there but nothing ever happens because I used to get scared to meet up and stuff like that. But recently I’ve met a guy or two that i was actually willing to have sex with but things just didn’t work out, so Grindr isn’t helping.I hate tinder and i don’t really want to resort to that for sex.
Any advice is very much appreciated. I’ve literally been horny all my life and I’m getting tired of not having a partner or friend with benefits. It’s so hard to find guys that are my type and around my age in NYC