I (19M) have a small dick and keep getting bullied about it by a hung guy

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Im doing summer classes at my college. Living in a dorm. Got randomly placed with a roommate and he’s total asshole. One of these jock/frat types who thinks he’s better than everyone. He plays hockey at the school.

A few days ago I got back from showering and was changing and my roommate saw my dick (which yes is very small) and he began making fun of me. And not in a playful way but in a mean spirited way. And he won’t shut up about it and keeps mentioning it to other people including girls and then they taunt me about it.

Of course he’s really hung himself and is always walking around naked or pulling out his cock and taunting me with it. No I’m not gay so I don’t enjoy that.

I think I’m pretty resilient but still it’s going to suck if I have to deal with this shit the rest of the summer. It’s not even just the small dick jokes. He was a jerk to me even before that.

Has anyone else had to put up with bullying about their dick size or just in general? Any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.
I honestly find that hot. Wish a guy would do that to me
 

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Im doing summer classes at my college. Living in a dorm. Got randomly placed with a roommate and he’s total asshole. One of these jock/frat types who thinks he’s better than everyone. He plays hockey at the school.

A few days ago I got back from showering and was changing and my roommate saw my dick (which yes is very small) and he began making fun of me. And not in a playful way but in a mean spirited way. And he won’t shut up about it and keeps mentioning it to other people including girls and then they taunt me about it.

Of course he’s really hung himself and is always walking around naked or pulling out his cock and taunting me with it. No I’m not gay so I don’t enjoy that.

I think I’m pretty resilient but still it’s going to suck if I have to deal with this shit the rest of the summer. It’s not even just the small dick jokes. He was a jerk to me even before that.

Has anyone else had to put up with bullying about their dick size or just in general? Any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.
I'm sorry you're stuck with dick-for-brains guy.

This is clearly bullying to you so I'd treat it as such. Perhaps, find a way to one-up him. Definitely, others should know about his toxic nature. Perhaps you can make friends with gay jocks or something that can help you.... Settle the score. I might be sounding mischievous and i probably am. Don't care. Your mental and emotional health is more important that his ego.
 

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I have not been insulted for my size. I was a commuter student so i didn't have the typical college experience plus i wasn't out then. I never really thought about it until after college and starting meeting other guys. The wide variations in size fascinated me and then came the toxic nature of size intimidation.
 

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Hey I’m not sure about the law in America

but if someone flashes his dick to you, that in my country is sexual assault.. in my country u can press charges if someone sexually intimidates u like that..
 
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You know if various situations where we are in places nude like showers locker rooms.. guys are going to look. With me I wasn’t small so guys would say look at that dick and some guys would say look at his nuts as well..

Being a bi guy I enjoy guys big or small.. one time in showers these guys were teasing this one as he wasn’t big. But they go by him being limp.. and he’d get upset and I said don’t worry if I had the chance I’d rather his dick than theirs ..

He says at first no I wouldn’t but then asked why and I told him guys with big dicks or think they are big are to stick on themselves to enjoy being with someone..

people need to see they are born with what they got and be happy and leave others alone that they. Think they can shame for being small.. whether it’s peckers or tits on a woman.. we are who we are and should be accepted for who we are
 

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I would assume there is someone at the school administration to get this handled no? Tell them his behavior is unacceptable. The school will handle it I'm sure. No need to bring up dick size as it's really not relevant. It's his bullying (and creepy) behavior.
This one. This is Bullying and he is creating an uncomfortable enviroment. Report him: He will get pulled into the office and being threatened with expulsion is exactly the message he needs. it will draw lines among supporters and people on his side, but it will show you have "spine" which is more important than dick size. he is betting your "shame" on the topic will prevent you from doing any thing about it. as an aside, people who bully truly are weak in mind, and this will expose that too. Report him- spreading rumors, body shaming and if he called you anything on a gender issue- (like gay as a insult, sissy etc) he may have real problems on his hands in this day an age. unwanted bullying is a no go.
 

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I don't know if it's really bullying, unless actual names are being thrown out. If they're roommates it's not like being naked around the other guy is really a bad thing or something.
hey, there is a certain enjoyment too it,but in real life I think it is. I read this:" ----and not in a playful way but in a mean spirited way. And he won’t shut up about it and keeps mentioning it to other people including girls and then they taunt me about it."--- that is bullying. that can lead some men to suicide. spreading a rumor about someone having a small penis is not a problem with the victim. The women are taunting him, that is funny given that other women tell men they should "get over it". it would be like making public fat jokes about a person, or his appearence otherwise. maybe making one comment accidentally, but a pattern of not shutting up about it. I think school officials would/should find that as bullying. it is intended to cause harm, its unasked for, it has demonstrable effects beyond the single event, it is damaging his reputation. i think it qualifies.
 

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I haven’t read all of the other responses, but I can say this much. When someone like that goes out of their way to embarrass you like this, especially over something as private as your size, it tends to be indicative of a deeper issue within themselves. This person sounds insecure and jealous. Having a “smaller dick” isn’t a bad thing at all, and it’s extremely dangerous that he would treat you this way over it. Do your best to keep in mind this dude is missing something in his own life, and in turn is trying to syphon happiness from yours.
 

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While at a party a girl told me and my friend that she wanted to see both our dicks. Thinking maybe we were both going to get laid, both of us went to another room and whipped it out. She grabs both of are dicks and then suddenly says "This ones bigger" and then starts making out with my friend while totally ignoring me. Care to guess who got lad that night and who didn't?

Of course he had to tell everyone else what she said. Even before this I was called "rice dick" by my other friends because I had the smallest dick among all of them.
Fuck Them!
 
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That fucking prick is going to pay for treating you that way. I promise he will have a hex placed on him very soon. Stay in high vibration you will find yourself elevating above him. He is just mad because you are better than him.
LOL. You nailed it. He's totally Jell-O. He's lime green Jell-O and can't even see it. It's so sad too because....oh wait no it's not He's a confident big cocked stud. He's good.
 

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Hey I’m not sure about the law in America

but if someone flashes his dick to you, that in my country is sexual assault.. in my country u can press charges if someone sexually intimidates u like that..
What country is this? Week bitch land.
 

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This one. This is Bullying and he is creating an uncomfortable enviroment. Report him: He will get pulled into the office and being threatened with expulsion is exactly the message he needs. it will draw lines among supporters and people on his side, but it will show you have "spine" which is more important than dick size. he is betting your "shame" on the topic will prevent you from doing any thing about it. as an aside, people who bully truly are weak in mind, and this will expose that too. Report him- spreading rumors, body shaming and if he called you anything on a gender issue- (like gay as a insult, sissy etc) he may have real problems on his hands in this day an age. unwanted bullying is a no go.
Bullying and Bullies are a normal and useful part of life and the social interactions between individuals in a pack animal population. Nothing about this is strange or unusual. Perfectly normal. Get over it.
 

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Bullying and Bullies are a normal and useful part of life and the social interactions between individuals in a pack animal population. Nothing about this is strange or unusual. Perfectly normal. Get over it.
Sorry buddy that human theory about humans being animals has to become irrelevant. You are a spirit having a human existence with a life force. Now you know something powerful, go spread unconditional love.
 

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Sorry buddy that human theory about humans being animals has to become irrelevant. You are a spirit having a human existence with a life force. Now you know something powerful, go spread unconditional love.
Really I am! Man you mean I'm a human being and I have a life force. I'm alive? Holy shit I'm so powerful! Lmao.... it's just! Anyway unconditional love doesn't fix or address a lot of things in life or well the majority of shit in life. Life is unfair and it sucks its just life. It's also exciting and kick ass. Toughen up and be formidable men and kill the pussy cuckold bullsit.
 
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Im doing summer classes at my college. Living in a dorm. Got randomly placed with a roommate and he’s total asshole.
I am not from the USA. What is a summer class? Please, explain it to me. You cannot go home and you have to live with a random dude? Did I understand that correctly?

I think I’m pretty resilient but still it’s going to suck if I have to deal with this shit the rest of the summer. It’s not even just the small dick jokes. He was a jerk to me even before that.

Has anyone else had to put up with bullying about their dick size or just in general? Any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.
Mockery is one of the worst things you can do. If he is religious, you can say it is a sin. And he should repent.

Gossip in the form of slander and mockery are two of the worst things you can do. It is prideful as you said becasue you said he is a jock and arrogant. Pride is a form of superioriy that can hardly be overcome.
 
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I'm sorry you're stuck with dick-for-brains guy.

This is clearly bullying to you so I'd treat it as such. Perhaps, find a way to one-up him. Definitely, others should know about his toxic nature. Perhaps you can make friends with gay jocks or something that can help you.... Settle the score. I might be sounding mischievous and i probably am. Don't care. Your mental and emotional health is more important that his ego.

I have not been insulted for my size. I was a commuter student so i didn't have the typical college experience plus i wasn't out then. I never really thought about it until after college and starting meeting other guys. The wide variations in size fascinated me and then came the toxic nature of size intimidation.

people need to see they are born with what they got and be happy and leave others alone that they. Think they can shame for being small.. whether it’s peckers or tits on a woman.. we are who we are and should be accepted for who we are

I think out of the gay and bi people only the people that are attracted to dick size are the one that care the most about this stuff. The most gay and bi people are not attracted to that in my opinion and therefore they do not mock others because they do not see different value in different dick sizes.

And the heterosexual people that do that also have some kind of bias towards dick size which I dont know why that is the case. Because they should not care about it if they are heterosexual.

Gay people also dont care if their female friends have big or small boobs or even look good. They are usually friends with them because they like their character.

Bullying and Bullies are a normal and useful part of life and the social interactions between individuals in a pack animal population. Nothing about this is strange or unusual. Perfectly normal. Get over it.

That is not normal. That is more the psychopathic population that does this. Normal is if you want to make everybody feel comfortable.
 

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I am not from the USA. What is a summer class? Please, explain it to me. You cannot go home and you have to live with a random dude? Did I understand that correctly?


Mockery is one of the worst things you can do. If he is religious, you can say it is a sin. And he should repent.

Gossip in the form of slander and mockery are two of the worst things you can do. It is prideful as you said becasue you said he is a jock and arrogant. Pride is a form of superioriy that can hardly be overcome.
Two of the worst things you can do.heh? How about assault rape theft lying cheating murder. Sticks and Stones guys.
 

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Sorry buddy, smaller dude who typically hangs around more well endowed guys. Never been bullied here but I sometimes do think they treat me a bit differently. You've got two options, you can take it and try to just lie low for however long you're with him, or you can stand up to that fucker. DixieDomDad is right about one thing, bullies are a part of life, and you have to learn to deal with them one way or another