I (19M) have a small dick and keep getting bullied about it by a hung guy

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Really I am! Man you mean I'm a human being and I have a life force. I'm alive? Holy shit I'm so powerful! Lmao.... it's just! Anyway unconditional love doesn't fix or address a lot of things in life or well the majority of shit in life. Life is unfair and it sucks its just life. It's also exciting and kick ass. Toughen up and be formidable men and kill the pussy cuckold bullsit.
All the best to you. Harness the unconditional love for your sake
 

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Sorry to find out u are surrounded by genuine assholes.... Say something to him like: "Oh, Eniaaac, poor thing... I am so sorry for your brain loss, it seems your weiner is smarter than you....." ........ or, " u are so gifted... a true dumb ass of a kind like u, is so common, i mean so hard to find"....
 
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I think out of the gay and bi people only the people that are attracted to dick size are the one that care the most about this stuff. The most gay and bi people are not attracted to that in my opinion and therefore they do not mock others because they do not see different value in different dick sizes.

And the heterosexual people that do that also have some kind of bias towards dick size which I dont know why that is the case. Because they should not care about it if they are heterosexual.

Gay people also dont care if their female friends have big or small boobs or even look good. They are usually friends with them because they like their character.



That is not normal. That is more the psychopathic population that does this. Normal is if you want to make everybody feel comfortable.
Normal is not make everyone feel comfortable. What a ridiculous thing to say. If everyone is comfortable nobody grows changes challenges thier ideas and beliefs nobody has new ideas nobody critiques themselves. Comfortable then becomes synonymous with stagnation. You all need to grow a pair. What a lot of useless harmless weak babies.
 

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All the best to you. Harness the unconditional love for your sake
The best to you as well. Nope on the harnessing unconditional love thing. It would be less of a waste of time and energy than imaginable. Unconditional love is pretty much unconditionally useless. What a Rude awakening so many of you coming.
 

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While at a party a girl told me and my friend that she wanted to see both our dicks. Thinking maybe we were both going to get laid, both of us went to another room and whipped it out. She grabs both of are dicks and then suddenly says "This ones bigger" and then starts making out with my friend while totally ignoring me. Care to guess who got lad that night and who didn't?

Of course he had to tell everyone else what she said. Even before this I was called "rice dick" by my other friends because I had the smallest dick among all of them.
What small? I check your media and it's more that 5 right? Even its more bigger than a few Corbinfisher men lol
 

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While at a party a girl told me and my friend that she wanted to see both our dicks. Thinking maybe we were both going to get laid, both of us went to another room and whipped it out. She grabs both of are dicks and then suddenly says "This ones bigger" and then starts making out with my friend while totally ignoring me. Care to guess who got lad that night and who didn't?

Of course he had to tell everyone else what she said. Even before this I was called "rice dick" by my other friends because I had the smallest dick among all of them.
Is your friend a horse? Because your dick is far bigger than the average.
 
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Im doing summer classes at my college. Living in a dorm. Got randomly placed with a roommate and he’s total asshole. One of these jock/frat types who thinks he’s better than everyone. He plays hockey at the school.

A few days ago I got back from showering and was changing and my roommate saw my dick (which yes is very small) and he began making fun of me. And not in a playful way but in a mean spirited way. And he won’t shut up about it and keeps mentioning it to other people including girls and then they taunt me about it.

Of course he’s really hung himself and is always walking around naked or pulling out his cock and taunting me with it. No I’m not gay so I don’t enjoy that.

I think I’m pretty resilient but still it’s going to suck if I have to deal with this shit the rest of the summer. It’s not even just the small dick jokes. He was a jerk to me even before that.

Has anyone else had to put up with bullying about their dick size or just in general? Any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.
You need to report him to the person that is the manager for the entire dorm. You are being bullied and intimidated. You do not have to live and put up with this.
 
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Wanted to share my advice, which is a contrarian view point to what others suggested:


You may not wanna hear this, because ur generation (unfortunately) was raised with the warp notion that "everyone is a winner" (even when u lost).

Thats not reality or how the world is

There is "totem poles" u will encounter; some in the locker room.

Your roommate is packing a bigger piece of meat. Thats just a fact.

I bet if you started showing him some respect (privately) and said things like "damn dude, ur hung like a fucking tripod, how do girls even take that beast & walk the next day?!"

I bet ya, horse hung roomie would appreciate that ego boost and your change of attitude!! I KNOW he would man.


And then guess what? he'd STOP embarrassing / bullying you, cause u would be now his bro / wingman with acknowledgment of where yall stand.

So "kill him with kindness"... trust me, it will work.
 

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Wanted to share my advice, which is a contrarian view point to what others suggested:


You may not wanna hear this, because ur generation (unfortunately) was raised with the warp notion that "everyone is a winner" (even when u lost).

Thats not reality or how the world is

There is "totem poles" u will encounter; some in the locker room.

Your roommate is packing a bigger piece of meat. Thats just a fact.

I bet if you started showing him some respect (privately) and said things like "damn dude, ur hung like a fucking tripod, how do girls even take that beast & walk the next day?!"

I bet ya, horse hung roomie would appreciate that ego boost and your change of attitude!! I KNOW he would man.


And then guess what? he'd STOP embarrassing / bullying you, cause u would be now his bro / wingman with acknowledgment of where yall stand.

So "kill him with kindness"... trust me, it will work.
I would not go so far as to make him your alpha. That just appeases the bully. It's like giving a narcissist what they want: attention. It will indicate to them that bullying has its rewards. Then what of the next person?

Perhaps weaponize the size. I kinda like @lowhung response. Hehehe not that I condone violence.
 

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What's happening to you is clearly not acceptable behavior. It's anything but. As you're 19 and presumably not classed as a vulnerable adult, it's not strictly speaking a safeguarding issue. However, you should speak to someone in charge of your course or accommodation with a view to getting it resolved. Bullying is not acceptable behavior and there should be no space for it.
 
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Really I am! Man you mean I'm a human being and I have a life force. I'm alive? Holy shit I'm so powerful! Lmao.... it's just! Anyway unconditional love doesn't fix or address a lot of things in life or well the majority of shit in life. Life is unfair and it sucks its just life. It's also exciting and kick ass. Toughen up and be formidable men and kill the pussy cuckold bullsit.
While I get your point and mostly agree, DomDad, I like you am ultra-secure, hung and confident. I got bullied as well, but not for anything I could not change or assert. When a physical trait is the focus of someone's shaming you, it spreads to others and becomes the environment you live in, it's different.

Much like people from the US South are automatically judged by many as stupid just because of their southern accent... totally untrue and unfair. This guy is harassed where he sleeps, making him dread going "home" at night, and the next person to laugh at him as the buzzards pick his carcass clean.

Sure, take it and toughen up. But this is not the solution for someone with a different situation than us.
 

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I have a very tiny penis and had suffered varying levels of chastisements, embarrassments, humiliations orchestrated and inflicted by much better endowed guys ( or at least I assume most of them were because I didnt necessarily know how big their dick was they just knew how tiny mine is)
The worst scenarios were when it happened in front of females but amongst other guys is definitely not fun.
It easy to suggest you just soak it up and try not to react to them ( give them nothing to feed on) If you seem nonplussed and ambivilent to their taunts or threats bullies tend to get bored or at least lose interest in targeting you.
My saving grace was developing an SPH fetish but I dont think it is something you can just decide to do it just happens. Oddly enough my fetish actually expanded my sexual horizons as well as no longer fearing or reacted negatively to chastisements et al.
 
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Im doing summer classes at my college. Living in a dorm. Got randomly placed with a roommate and he’s total asshole. One of these jock/frat types who thinks he’s better than everyone. He plays hockey at the school.

A few days ago I got back from showering and was changing and my roommate saw my dick (which yes is very small) and he began making fun of me. And not in a playful way but in a mean spirited way. And he won’t shut up about it and keeps mentioning it to other people including girls and then they taunt me about it.

Of course he’s really hung himself and is always walking around naked or pulling out his cock and taunting me with it. No I’m not gay so I don’t enjoy that.

I think I’m pretty resilient but still it’s going to suck if I have to deal with this shit the rest of the summer. It’s not even just the small dick jokes. He was a jerk to me even before that.

Has anyone else had to put up with bullying about their dick size or just in general? Any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.
Sounds like he has some real insecurities (latent homosexuality) and is actually into you. It’s one thing for guys to make a jab about each others dicks in a locker room, but this guy is obsessed with your dick. I’m over forty so when I was college age in the early 2000s guys didn’t dare talk about other dudes dicks with others. “How’s it hanging stubby” or “was your dad a donkey” might have been said as a joke, but that’s as far as it went. First of all don’t let him think it bothers you as far as making you feel uncomfortable, then turn it around on him when he does it in front of others especially girls, “why are you so into my dick? Are you really into guys?” I’m sure the others are questioning his obsession in your manhood too.
 

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Im doing summer classes at my college. Living in a dorm. Got randomly placed with a roommate and he’s total asshole. One of these jock/frat types who thinks he’s better than everyone. He plays hockey at the school.

A few days ago I got back from showering and was changing and my roommate saw my dick (which yes is very small) and he began making fun of me. And not in a playful way but in a mean spirited way. And he won’t shut up about it and keeps mentioning it to other people including girls and then they taunt me about it.

Of course he’s really hung himself and is always walking around naked or pulling out his cock and taunting me with it. No I’m not gay so I don’t enjoy that.

I think I’m pretty resilient but still it’s going to suck if I have to deal with this shit the rest of the summer. It’s not even just the small dick jokes. He was a jerk to me even before that.

Has anyone else had to put up with bullying about their dick size or just in general? Any advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.
That guy is a jerk report him to the RA
 

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I'd simply ask him why he is so obsessed with another guys dick. Is there something you are missing in your life?
Exactly!

You gay, bro? You seem to be unable to take my dick out of your mouth...

Nothing scares this type of straight guys more than the possibility of being considered gay by others
 

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Well, there is such a thing as showers and growers - you could be growing to an appreciable size and nobody knows. Maybe you're tackling this problem the wrong way. If you're not gay, some of the contests you've entered into with this shower friend of yours will see you loose every time.

The other thing here is your shower friend might secretly be gay.