The title pretty much explains it all. In the past, I've been an advocate for open and honest relationships with one's self and their partners. I still believe in that, but I only preach it to an extent. Just so we're clear- I'll encourage this, but I won't push the issue. What you do is what you do, but I digress. As of recently, I've found myself more turned on by women and straight porn, which I've always seen myself as sexually bisexual. And with that, I've found myself more attracted to Str8 and Bi men. It's the secret and the "breaking the rules" that turns me on, and there's just something about them that I can't put my finger on. I think it might be the masculinity and the lack of commitment and obligation I'd have to them as well. No love making, just fucking. With me enjoying all of that, I'm finding it pretty annoying that a good number of them that I've encountered seem to have their "Straight Days & Gay Days." I mean, what the hell? You tell me that you want to bounce up and down on my junk, and the next you're expressing that you're not interested in that. But a few days later, you're ready to be the bitch and gag on my cock! Really?! It's so confusing, it's like you have to wait their cycles to come around, and Dante' waits for no man(well, I might if the dick and ass is fierce! And that better be facebook status update fierce!)! I've learned that it's okay if you don't express ALL parts of yourself to the rest of the world, I get that. But do you have to be sketchy in private too? Is it an "on/off" switch? Is it due to shame and insecurity? Anyone else run into this?