I aim to disappoint...

[326807]

Tatoo share some stories of working in a porn shop! I'm curious as to the strange stuff you see! Lol like do woman really buy dildos(like the one your holding in the pic?) Prey tell!

 

[Scarletbegonia]

^^ that wasn't worth saying again. Loading hiccup.

i'm new here and haven't explored much of the site so i am still far away from understanding the SPH thing, if i ever will.
i've been a clueless victim of the 'non-consensual approach to get their jollies' a few times before i realized what was going on, but tbh so far the SPH guys have been a lot more polite, respectful and tactful than some of the other 'types' trying to force their non-consensual fantasies and disembodied pumped penii pics down your throat. it seems almost everyone is trying to maneuver you into their fantasies or get validation somehow.

i really don't know how i'd deal with the SPH thing if it ever came up in a relationship, but i think as far as fetishes go its one of the most harmless ones.

who's Wally?

Wally is a member here. AE is correct, as she usually is, about his humor, intelligence, and inventiveness.

 

[Brisler]

Even though I don't really get it, I don't want to bash people who are into sph. I just don't understand it. Nothing about it is morally repugnant or offensive to me in any way. As fetishes go, If I was seeing someone, and they turned out to have a sph fetish, that would be all well and good. It would not be on the list of things I find unacceptable.

Wally is one of my favourite contributors to this site, and sometimes I almost want to humour him because he's clever and funny and makes people laugh, but never seems to get the desired answers to the hilarious threads he starts.

Sph isn't the worst thing in the world! Can't we have an annual sph day or something? I want Wally to stay.

I agree completely. I don't understand the fetish at all, but I feel that way about many things. As long as people are respectful and consider other people's boundaries first and foremost, I think it's completely out of line to compare the fetish to mental illness.

The non-consensual and manipulative approaches to how people try to involve others in their fantasies and fetishes are never acceptable, and I admit that it's a quite common occurrence on this site when it comes to people with a SPH fetish. But considering the main subject of this forum, it comes as no surprise. I don't think there's any reason to believe that people with a SPH fetish in general are any worse than people with other fetishes.

 

[ronin001]

I am sure Wally appreciates all the love you guys show him

 

[693987]

I adore Wally. Unlike many SPHers, he never has a hidden agenda. He's bright and funny, inventive and just generally nice to have around.

I used to think he could be funny at times, but then he projects his shit too much onto other people, including saying my own relationship isn't "real" in a rude way... no longer funny, and became obnoxious.

I hate when people DO try to manipulate people into their kink, and I can appreciate people being blunt. I just intensely dislike the one twue way kinda shit that some folks project onto others. My kink may not be somebody else's kink and that's a-okay. The way my relationship works would entirely likely not work for lots of folks, but that doesn't make it any less valid. I would be exceedingly uncomfortable being a swinger, but have no issue with folks who are, etc.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Tatoo share some stories of working in a porn shop! I'm curious as to the strange stuff you see! Lol like do woman really buy dildos(like the one your holding in the pic?) Prey tell!

We don't sell many huge dildoes to women. I sell more toys 6 inches and under. And most of the big ones are being bought by men. Sometimes for their female partner, themselves or their male partner.

 

[ITellsTheTruth]

We don't sell many huge dildoes to women. I sell more toys 6 inches and under. And most of the big ones are being bought by men. Sometimes for their female partner, themselves or their male partner.

Strangely....a lot of Men seem to think ALL WOMEN want and can handle a big cock. I remember I went to the Adult store and bought some monstrous dildo to use on my GF....and when I took it out the bag she actually laughed at it.

She told me that she enjoyed looking at big cocks, and the conversation that she had with her friends excited her....but she also said a 10+ inch cock isnt pleasurable to her because of how she's "built". She pulled some dildos out her stash that were literally half the size of the one i bought to the bedroom.

Sometimes you can make a fool out of yourself via your inferiority complexes.

 

[918177]

Sometimes you can make a fool out of yourself via your inferiority complexes.

The posts in Ask a Woman are living breathing proof of that.

 

[ITellsTheTruth]

The posts in Ask a Woman are living breathing proof of that.

just visited that section for the first time...read some thread topics...i'll visit there again when i need a good laugh.

 

[918177]

just visited that section for the first time...read some thread topics...i'll visit there again when i need a good laugh.

Just remember, when it comes to Ask a Woman and as a male, you're only allowed to answer in threads you, yourself, have created.

 

[LaFemme]

We don't sell many huge dildoes to women. I sell more toys 6 inches and under. And most of the big ones are being bought by men. Sometimes for their female partner, themselves or their male partner.

My current toy is about the size of a Sharpie pen. A cute little vibe. Perfect for clit or insertion. Downsized from my old Rabbit. My big toys were all gifts from men.

Makes me wonder...did they think they were buying it for my pleasure? Or were they cuckholding themselves?

 

[Hatt_101]

I still don't get SPH. It seems more like a mental illness to me than a fetish.

Same I just font get it at all that and I don't get those into cuckolding and those guys that ask for "tribute pictures" it just doesn't make any sense

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Man, the latest, kill your small dicked family is just... No.
Wally needs therapy.

 

[nailz]

Man, the latest, kill your small dicked family is just... No.
Wally needs therapy.

i thought that thread was just an elaborate troll. there's no way anyone can be that crazy, is there?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Stick around long enough and you, too, will see how off Wally is.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I think you guys have Wally all wrong. I think he has some self image problems, but is primarily just trolling and having a snicker. We used to value the funnier trolls around here. And no, even the best comedians aren't immune to bombing occasionally, and Wally is no exception.

 

[950483]

Running late this morning, but I'm going to make myself even later. Wally is hilarious , he has a very dry sense of humour. As I pedal for dear life, swearing at the cars for getting in my way this morning, I will also be chuckling to myself thinking about the penis genie.

 

[rtg]

I still don't get SPH. It seems more like a mental illness to me than a fetish.

Hahahaha my thoughts exactly!

 

[185248]

Hahahaha my thoughts exactly!

Hey lí'l Aussie, long time no see. You dropped off the radar for a while .

 

[185248]

I think you guys have Wally all wrong. I think he has some self image problems, but is primarily just trolling and having a snicker. We used to value the funnier trolls around here. And no, even the best comedians aren't immune to bombing occasionally, and Wally is no exception.

Even a good troll has his moments....