I Am A Straight Guy...

[marck80]

I also, men are not attracted to me, do not attract me, and all men look the same to me, say I do not know who is as much beautiful.

When I watch porn movies when I see a big dick somehow sometimes I imagine that would try to take him in hand, etc. The average small dick, is not attractive. Also gay porn I does not like.

I like women, men are "disgusting" but when I see in porn movies big dick just somehow looks nice to me

Am I gay?

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

I also, men are not attracted to me, do not attract me, and all men look the same to me, say I do not know who is as much beautiful.

When I watch porn movies when I see a big dick somehow sometimes I imagine that would try to take him in hand, etc. The average small dick, is not attractive. Also gay porn I does not like.

I like women, men are "disgusting" but when I see in porn movies big dick just somehow looks nice to me

Am I gay?

yes, you is

 

[marck80]

That means I'm gay, and men are not attracted to me and I would vomit when he kissed a male). I say "I love to see the porn movies big dick, and when I'm in the company of men such an idea is repugnant to me, but when I see porn movies big dick such an idea comes to my mind.

 

[unabear09]

That was a good post actually, I hadn't thought about how that behaviour might be perceived from a gay male. I'm consistently surprised at the variety of obviously (from my perspective) homosexual activities that men are willing to engage in with other men using the excuse "it's not gay if..". My response is always "no dude, that's gay". Not that it's a problem, but why dance around the subject? Being gay in western society is probably still quite tough I imagine, but on the world stage it's one of the places where ones rights as an individual are protected.

I am not speaking about myself here but I'm going to rant.

I'm really getting sick and tired of reading posts from gay men directed at 'confused' straight men. For fucks sake stop treating these guys like that. Just because you are gay does NOT make you the authority on human sexuality and psycho-sexuallality! Is the OP confused? Sounds like it to me but I (just like everyone else) know jack shit about him outside of the few posts he's made.

The guy is looking for answers, and instead of being supportive of him (by saying something along the lines of 'try it out...if you like it, do what you like, if you don't like it, think nothing of it and move on.') Human behavior and human sexuality is not cut and dry! You are only causing guys like the OP more unneeded and unwanted stress.

Also...having sex with a man doesn't have to mean you are gay! Look at men in prison. After a certain amount of time the straightest of the straight men will go looking to fuck anything warm and with a heartbeat.

Look, basically every person has a somewhat of an animalistic sexual side. For some people its simply being kinky. For others its its hardcore S&M, bondage, scat, whatever. I feel that there are many men out there who consider themselves straight, but have (for a lack of better terms) a 'fetish' for other men. Acting out that 'fetish' involves having sex with men from time to time (anything other than the occasional sexual encounter would make it easier for me to conclude that said man is in fact gay) is just like one loving to get the shit beaten out of one's self.

I can see a lot of men (as described above) being totally turned off by kissing another guy (as another poster said, kissing symbolizes an emotional bond), so what the OP posted doesn't sound too far out of the ball park. I'm not saying that he is or isn't gay or judging him (or anyone else for that matter) here. I'm just saying not every man that is interested (sexually) in another man is 100% card carrying gay. Stop trying to play on people's curiosities, worries, and doubts and try to support them.

I'm stepping off my soapbox now. :smile:

 

[JaimeB]

i just want to clarify that my post was intended to help the OP avoid aiming homophobic attitudes at himself. that was intended to help.

i tried to put it as compassionately as I could, but without pulling any punches or pretending it's an easy issue for him (or others in his situation) to deal with.

i certainly encourage him to do what he likes, but not to do it in a way that harms his self-esteem or that of others, or to feel that it denies his sexual attraction to women in any way.

i know this is a sensitive issue to str8 men. i don't think having an attraction to other men makes a guy exclusively gay, but what's the point of elaborate rationalizations about it, especially when they reflect negatively on being gay or engaging in m2m sex?

i want to respect str8 men, but i demand respect in return, and reinforcing homophobia is disrespect to me. i respect myself enough not to let it go unchallenged.

 

[maxcok]

^ Again Jaime, beautifully put. If anyone has a problem with what you've said, they have a problem. Unfortunately, there are those who seem to think that sexual orientation has to be defined as one polarity or the other, some posting in this thread. I doubt anything will change their minds, but I wish they would be more sensitive with their comments.

Being gay in western society is probably still quite tough I imagine, but on the world stage it's one of the places where ones rights as an individual are protected.

That may be true to some extent in the EU and a few other countries to varying degrees, but in most of the world that is not the case at all. Even in the US, protections are limited.

LGBT rights in Europe - Wiki​

 

[Shawn152]

No Offense but I would peg you as a Self-Hating Bi-Sexual.

 

[NottsBound]

No Offense but I would peg you as a Self-Hating Bi-Sexual.

Me?
Well thanks for the replies guys..been a lot of help.

Thing is I more or less describe myself as having a large cock, rather than being sexually attracted to men. I haven't pursued this because I think men would find it offensive that I wouldn't wanna kiss them or anything like that, but just play with their cock instead.

 

[maxcok]

No Offense but I would peg you as a Self-Hating Bi-Sexual.

Prefacing your comment with "No Offense" does not negate the fact that it is offensive and unhelpful.

Me?
Well thanks for the replies guys..been a lot of help.

Thing is I more or less describe myself as having a large cock, rather than being sexually attracted to men. I haven't pursued this because I think men would find it offensive that I wouldn't wanna kiss them or anything like that, but just play with their cock instead.

What does having a large cock (allegedly) have to do with being attracted to men?? And whether or not you are "attracted" to men, you are plainly attracted to their cocks. You may find you're attracted to more than the appendage if you let go of your denial. There are plenty of men who would be perfectly fine having you play with their cocks and not kissing. I imagine you'd be fine if someone did that to you. Go ahead and explore if that's what you want to do, but stop stereotyping, stop making stupid assumptions, and stop judging yourself and others.

 

[NottsBound]

Prefacing your comment with "No Offense" does not negate the fact that it is offensive and unhelpful.

What does having a large cock (allegedly) have to do with being attracted to men?? And whether or not you are "attracted" to men, you are plainly attracted to their cocks. You may find you're attracted to more than the appendage if you let go of your denial. There are plenty of men who would be perfectly fine having you play with their cocks and not kissing. I imagine you'd be fine if someone did that to you. Go ahead and explore if that's what you want to do, but stop stereotyping, stop making stupid assumptions, and stop judging yourself and others.

Calm down.

 

[NCbear]

Me?
Well thanks for the replies guys..been a lot of help.

Thing is I more or less describe myself as having a large cock, rather than being sexually attracted to men. I haven't pursued this because I think men would find it offensive that I wouldn't wanna kiss them or anything like that, but just play with their cock instead.

Then that means (to me) that you want to do some exploring, sexually speaking, but that true intimacy (emotional and physical) with another man is beyond your personal boundaries. Yes?

Not unusual, not unexpected in a straight man, and not offensive to me. Just one piece of advice: Be clear with your exploratory partner(s) that you have certain limits and what those limits are. It's helpful to know when things are heading toward the U-Haul and gay marriage versus when they're just a few minutes of interesting exploration that's not going anywhere else.

I've known guys to say, "Y'know, I've always wanted to hold a hard cock in my hand, one that's not mine, and jack it a few times. And that's all." OK. Here's my hard cock. There's your hand. A few pumps, and you've satisfied your curiosity. No need to see the justice of the peace. (grin)

NCbear (who understands a bit of where you're coming from: sometimes I've felt that if I could just explore a woman's body with no [emotional] strings attached, just friendly touching, I'd either find out what all the shouting's about or just satisfy a lifelong curiosity that's just a small, minimal urge, really, when you get right down to it)

 

[maxcok]

Calm down.

I'm perfectly calm.

I'm perfectly at ease with myself.

I'm also perfectly at ease with my sexuality.

I don't try to pass other people's pictures as my own either.




And that's the thanks I get after defending you against that offensive post. *eyeroll*

 

[TomCat84]

It's even funnier when it's a picture of you.

LOL! Damnit! Wish I wouldve stumbled across his pics

 

[porn_addict]

Yep. I'm with ya bud.

i just want to clarify that my post was intended to help the OP avoid aiming homophobic attitudes at himself. that was intended to help.

i tried to put it as compassionately as I could, but without pulling any punches or pretending it's an easy issue for him (or others in his situation) to deal with.

i certainly encourage him to do what he likes, but not to do it in a way that harms his self-esteem or that of others, or to feel that it denies his sexual attraction to women in any way.

i know this is a sensitive issue to str8 men. i don't think having an attraction to other men makes a guy exclusively gay, but what's the point of elaborate rationalizations about it, especially when they reflect negatively on being gay or engaging in m2m sex?

i want to respect str8 men, but i demand respect in return, and reinforcing homophobia is disrespect to me. i respect myself enough not to let it go unchallenged.

 

[DiscoBoy]

Also...having sex with a man doesn't have to mean you are gay! Look at men in prison. After a certain amount of time the straightest of the straight men will go looking to fuck anything warm and with a heartbeat.

There's a difference, though. If someone is actively seeking out a male for any sort of sexual or emotional relationship (as opposed to fucking a dude out of convenience/necessity), then there's at the very least some bi tendencies. If you get off to being with men, as a man, you can't claim to be entirely straight.

Goddamit! Does this mean the engagement is off?

I thought we weren't making it public?:tongue:

 

[HungThickProf]

This thread is fucking hilarious. I really enjoyed the part where Maxcok totally pwn'ed in the beginning with the fake pic part. DAMN! WOW! If you're willing to lie to a bunch of strangers about who you are in pictures, then you're probably willing to lie to everyone, including yourself about what you enjoy. Take the hint- kiss a guy, suck a cock, who knows- take a dick or two up the wazoo! You'll discover the truth, Simba. Ya lying bastard.

 

[DiscoBoy]

This thread is fucking hilarious. I really enjoyed the part where Maxcok totally pwn'ed in the beginning with the fake pic part. DAMN! WOW! If you're willing to lie to a bunch of strangers about who you are in pictures, then you're probably willing to lie to everyone, including yourself about what you enjoy. Take the hint- kiss a guy, suck a cock, who knows- take a dick or two up the wazoo! You'll discover the truth, Simba. Ya lying bastard.

:rofl:

Oh, Dante.

 

[HungThickProf]

:rofl:

Oh, Dante.

I love you, cutie :umbrella: you can stand under my umbrella.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

yes, you is

lol btw i have several girlfriends that you can try. sorta like a bike with training wheels, see how it goes and then.....

 

[maxcok]

It's even funnier when it's a picture of you.

LOL! Damnit! Wish I wouldve stumbled across his pics

To clarify, I wasn't saying it was a picture of you.

I thought we weren't making it public?:tongue:

Who, whaa . . . ? sssssshhhhhhhhh!

Oh, Dante.

HEY!

I love you, cutie :umbrella: you can stand under my umbrella.

Just don't stand too close. He's mine, mine I tell ya.