I'll borrow, and not for the first time, the words of my lover to answer you that, jeff. http://www.lpsg.org/53538-never-explain-yourself.html
Piece of cake. Having said that, OK ManlyB, I shall "suffer" the consequences of my lack of awareness. *shouldn't have went to sleep last night*
You're singing my song. I'm with you. On the other hand, I do explain if the occasion warrants, at least once. And I also listen. I'll even process. After that, final decision and then, it's done and over.